If you are smart enough, quick in brain response, clever, have good grades in school, and attend a good university
If you are still very sensitive, have delicate and rich emotions, and like poetry and literature
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In addition, if you were born in China,
then you must be a compulsive and paranoid person.
You will be harsh on yourself and once longed for yourself to be a perfect person. , then you long for everything you do to be flawless. You will not make a decision easily. Once you make a decision, you will be paranoid about the decision and will not give up until you achieve your goal, or will not look back until you hit the wall.
For smart and sensitive people, paranoia and coercion are inseparable. Paranoia is an extreme persistence and a coercion in persistence. Coercion is a demanding effect and a paranoia in effect.
Why? Why do I say that you who are smart and sensitive must be paranoid and obsessive? Why do you become a paranoid and obsessive person?
Paranoia and compulsion are both human behavior styles, which are shaped by human nature and experience.
If you allow your nature to stretch, in theory, it will take a long time for a smart and sensitive person to grow from a smart, delicate, and playful child, to continuously improve their requirements for things, and at the same time maintain With his own personality, he may never reach the excellence of an obsessive person, but he is free and easy in life.
But in China, young people cannot develop their nature. Every scholar must go through an extreme educational stage - high school. It is this experience that interacts with smart and sensitive nature, allowing them to You become paranoid and obsessive. Please look at the picture below:
As shown in the picture, in adolescence, sensitive people will study hard for the praise of adults, teachers, and society. Coupled with your own intelligence, you will get good results at this stage. Achievements can also earn honors, and after receiving honors, people will become afraid of losing honors on the one hand, and eager to obtain higher honors on the other hand. So under the influence of these two emotions, you will do your best to study. , for this reason you gave up your own entertainment, held on to the college entrance examination and university with an almost crazy persistence, crazy persistence, and also adopted an abnormally demanding attitude towards scores and results, and made infinite efforts to improve one point. , and this state lasted for three years, three full years of high school. Therefore, long-term crazy persistence and abnormal demandingness make you "accustomed to persistence and demandingness", so you, who are habitually smart and sensitive, become obsessive-compulsive and paranoid.
In China, due to the almost crazy achievement worship of middle school students and the inhumane learning methods in high schools, all smart and sensitive people will become obsessive-compulsive and paranoid. You, smart and sensitive, will naturally You are not immune. Today, on the one hand, paranoia and compulsion make you pursue perfection and perseverance at work, but at the same time, they will also limit your ability to adapt. In addition, this style of behavior continues into life, giving you all kinds of problems. "Addiction" makes you stubborn. Compared with people who are open-minded and free-spirited, life will inevitably be miserable. I wanted to provide advice to you, a smart and sensitive person, on how to properly deal with your own paranoia and compulsion, and cultivate your own free-spirited and open-mindedness. However, too much talking increases the number of people. Let’s leave the burden to the next chapter. Here I will tell you why you have become the paranoid and obsessive person you are today.