Yu:
Criticism is like a rough rag, which often makes the object to be wiped clearer and brighter.
Without dignity, the world is a mud pond.
The barren valley is always shrouded in the most beautiful moonlight.
The taste of life is to taste the poetry of the season. Seasons do not need to be tasted, but only through tasting can poetry appear. With poetry, life is intoxicating.
China's history is full of tragedies, but China people are afraid to see the real tragedy. In the end, everyone had a happy ending. Confucius doesn't want a happy ending, Lu Xun doesn't want a happy ending, and Bai Xianyong doesn't want a happy ending.
Our scholars will only look down at the goose's nest among reeds, and will not look up at the real living space of geese. They say there is no shadow of wings in the air, only feathers fall in the nest. They say that the sky in Wan Li is so empty that only mud feet are knowledge.
There is no tragedy without tragedy, and there is no sublimity without tragedy. Xuefeng is great because the hillside is covered with the remains of climbers; The sea is great because there are sunken ships floating everywhere. Ancient Greece lived by the sea, and countless warriors who yearned for the other side went wave after wave, so there was a brilliant Greek tragedy.
The most vicious part of a lie lies not in its content, but in its "unbreakable structure": although the person attacked by it knows the truth best and wants to refute the rumor most, he has lost the identity of refuting the rumor.
Walking in broad daylight, people can't get rid of shadows, and shadows are always oblique. Then don't worry about the shadow, or walk with your head held high, a long and a short oblique shadow for life.
On the issue of rumors, the most harmful motto is: the eyes of the masses are discerning.
If the eyes of the masses are sharp, what do you want the court to do? What do you want a smart man to do? What do you want to investigate? What do you want to test? What do you want to compare?
Facts have proved that even legal eyes, rational eyes and academic eyes may not be discerning, let alone ordinary people.
The eyes of the masses are the eyes of conformity, that is, the eyes that make the most mediocre judgments under ordinary circumstances, that is, the eyes that see far and think roughly, and they will always be perceptual eyes, infected eyes and uncontrolled eyes-never bright in history.
On the issue of rumors, another harmful maxim is: the more you argue about the truth, the clearer it becomes.
What we see is that one side's clever eloquence choked the other side. However, countless facts have proved that the choked party is probably right.
What we see is that one side of the debate mobilizes sensational tactics, draws the audience to its own side, and then drowns the other side with applause, boos and slogans. But is it really wrong to drown the party?
There are three strategies to deal with rumors: up, middle and down.
The best way: use your anger to refute rumors;
Zhongce: use your patience and wait for the rumors to subside;
The best policy: use your own contribution to make rumors weightless.
Roland:
Don't complain or be dissatisfied with what you are doing. They may be poor or bad, but since you can't get something better, you should tolerate everything you have and find life and hope from it. People who don't pay attention to the present will not have a future worth looking forward to.
If a person lives without a purpose, he will be confused, depressed and uneasy. Only when a person really knows what kind of life he wants to live and what he wants to pursue will he feel that his life is full and meaningful.
A person who is spoiled by the environment often feels that victory should be unconditionally attributed to himself, and once he leaves the spoiled environment and is placed on the same position as others, he will feel that he has nothing!
The moment of humiliation and disappointment is the key to success or failure for every competitive person! If you are strong, you will endure this humiliation and seek affirmation again from being denied. Of course, it takes perseverance and time. And if you are weak, you will give up, admit failure and give up what you could have achieved.
Being denied is a painful thing, but denial is the source of progress. A person must pass the test in a strange environment and get a positive score. When a person is frustrated, he must have the courage to examine himself from the beginning, enrich himself modestly, and then find opportunities to pass the test of strange environment in order to hope to achieve real success.
Many times, we have to face some troublesome problems alone, resist some lingering pains alone, and overcome some difficult tasks alone. There are many problems that others can't help you. Even if you can, other people's help can only be temporary, not forever. The main driving force is still generated by ourselves.
Loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is that you are not interested in anything. A person who is keen on one thing and studies it instead of wasting his time on other things is not only afraid of loneliness, but sometimes likes it.
Liuyong:
The world will not judge heroes by temporary success, nor will it judge winners and losers by accidental mistakes. Without lasting performance, people are often difficult to be affirmed; And those who are affirmed are hard to overthrow for a while.
China children want to be spoiled by China's parents, but there is no traditional filial piety in China; I hope to have the laissez-faire of American parents, not the independence of American children.
Buy time with speed, and then use this time to enjoy peace, instead of procrastinating, you will never get real freedom.
Competition is like the battlefield of life. It's about strength and speed. Speed is not an advantage. You are not as fast as others. If you procrastinate, you are worse than others.
Show yourself and don't deny others!
You can disagree, but you can't totally deny it!
People who deny others often can't have good interpersonal relationships, because there is a barrier in their hearts that blocks others and prevents themselves from loving themselves.
A perfect life doesn't necessarily require the most applause, the most money, or the greatest achievement. The most important thing is that your inner world must be rich!
Loving someone is like preparing a backpack for him! Consider his needs and prepare enough things for him; Be careful that the backpack is too heavy for him to carry; Even if you can recite it, you can't go far.
In order to go far, he will even throw away your love all the way.
When a person treats you badly, he will naturally expect you to treat him badly. The giver is always unwilling, and the receiver is always uneasy.
Father wants his son to be himself all the time like a snake molting, but his son likes the fission of cicada when molting.
A daughter's love for her father is irreplaceable by any other man. They don't have to say anything, but they always keep it in their hearts. Probably like wine. The more you hide, the better you look. The older you get, the more you miss it. ......
Famous quotations:
Life without anger is a kind of sorrow. It's like a jumping elk losing its ability to run fast, and it's like an agile civet with its beard cut off. When people are indifferent to everything, when people first give up their anger and then give up all the feelings that belong to normal people, people will live forever-that is, die.
-Bi Shumin.
Why should I defend you? Just because I was born about your age, I have to hold a group? I have only heard that like-minded people want to form a party, but I have never heard that people of similar age want to form a gang. If I had known this, I would have fallen into the university.
-Han Han
It is shameful to drive to show off, and it is also shameful to drive unnecessarily; People who walk, ride bicycles and take public transportation are glorious, fashionable and tasteful.
-Zhang Chaoyang
The death and rebirth floating on the water let me see a kind of burning. For this fire of life, death and disaster are just the fuel needed for the flame!
jimmy
No matter what difficulties you meet, don't beg for mercy.
-Plato
The protracted argument means that both sides are wrong.
-Voltaire
The reason why desolation has a deeper and longer aftertaste is because it is like green with powder, which is an uneven contrast.
-Zhang Ailing
The cloth is warm, the roots are fragrant and the poems are long.
-Shout Jason Wu.
Don't think that you can reach your destination by walking slowly step by step. Every step has its own value, and success is made up of valuable things. If you want to be truly successful, every step you take must be powerful and substantial.
-Dante
In a person's life, the most brilliant day is not the day of success, but the day when he rises from lament and despair and goes forward bravely.
Flaubert
Only bloody fingers can play the swan song of the world, and only those who have experienced the pain of hell have the power to create heaven.
Tagore
There is no pain, only humble happiness.
-Nietzsche
Unless you know people's intelligence, you might as well not criticize your friends.
-San Mao
Throwing a grain of sand into the sea does not mean throwing a drop of water into the desert, because the former is melting and the latter is disappearing.
-Yao Ming.
Beautiful flowers are blooming on the fertile land, but the towering trees that brush the sky grow in the cracks in the rocks.
the Netherlands
Those who sacrifice themselves for security do not deserve freedom and security.
Franklin
Most people in the world are lonely, right? Unappreciated articles, unappreciated enthusiasm, annotated beauty, a plot in which no one cries, the sound of mountains and rivers never hits the point, or a dish of food that no one wants to try. ......
I just kindly got a generous gift from the other side. I think the feast of life is the same! Whenever I am grateful for the trickle of life, God always gives me 10,000 flowing springs at once. Every time I concentrate on a note, he always pours down the music of the whole horse like a pixel.
The generous gift of fate was originally given only to those who are willing to taste it.
Zhang Xiaofeng.