Think of Dream as a pure love story, not a poem about abandoned wife.

Dream is a folk song of China in the pre-Qin period. Now most encyclopedias characterize him as a long poem that abandons his wife and confesses his marriage tragedy. The heroine recalled the pain of being abused and abandoned by her husband after marriage in a very sad tone, expressed her regret and rejection, and profoundly reflected the oppression and destruction suffered by women in love and marriage in ancient society. But there is no such thing as abandoning a wife in the poem. It's just a woman's tracing back to her life's love. There are hazy beauty, joy of first love, sadness of separation and even the breakdown of marriage in her memory. Which person's life will not experience these points and twists and turns? Self-protection is a love story, a love story that you can read without the so-called class and slave society.

Self-protection notes refer to people from other places, which in the vernacular is people who have moved from other places. This is also the most direct label of that man. In the society at that time, that woman bravely fell in love with a low-status self-protector, which not only made people feel the warmth of human nature, but also showed the richness and glory of life.

The link of trade silk reveals the unique way of marriage proposal of ancient farmers, which is very different from our modern direct confession and even further blind date. It shows the reserve, restraint and cuteness of that era. But this girl is smarter. She saw the boy's purpose and guessed that he had come to propose to me, so she didn't say yes in a hurry. But when the young man couldn't have an attack for a long time and was ready to give up, the girl was in a hurry and explained the reason, saying that just because you didn't have a matchmaker, you lost your manners and quickly set a wedding date. A girl who is both eager for love and hesitant is on the page.

After that, the reserve was completely gone, and the two fell into the stage of love, so the woman's mood changed with all the changes of the man, either laughing or crying. At this time, the woman has become a part of the man, even for the good of the man. This should be her happiest period.

There are also beautiful mulberry leaves that we see, and the mulberry leaves covered with branches are shining. Turtledove birds should not eat them casually, and it is difficult to escape if they are addicted to them. This passage is obviously a metaphor for a woman with turtledove. We know that after the boy catches up with the girl for a period of time, he will not be as responsive and obedient as before, because it is already his, and there is no need to pay all the attentions as before. At this time, the girl probably felt this gap for the first time. You used to be so kind to me, but now you are not as good as before. You certainly don't love me, so you have a little temper, so you have some friction with your husband. These so-called admonitory descriptions are just women's complaints. They should be young lovers who haven't been itching for seven years. At this time, complaining is just a lovely little temper.

Finally, the description of yellow mulberry leaves in Self-protection is more about expressing women's sadness about the passing of life. At this time, she caressed her old face, and her mood quietly changed from the simplicity and fierceness of a girl. It's hard to tell what this woman who slowly withered with mulberry leaves was like. Finally, she blamed it on her husband. I've done everything for you for so many years. What virtue I have as a wife is good, but it's your fault as a husband. You are a capricious person, and my life is not easy. All these are women's sorrows, and there seems to be no good memories. In fact, we might as well put ourselves in others' shoes. After many years of marriage, it is difficult for a man to say sweet words that he is tired of listening to. The shy girl has also become a grouchy yellow-faced woman, and a man's change of heart should be predictable. This does not mean that a woman is an abandoned wife. Marriage is a matter for two people, not a woman who is really wronged.

The last paragraph is the description after the breakup. At this time, the woman looked at this feeling with an outsider's eyes, and she remembered the previous dribs and drabs. How sweet the love and small agreement in adolescence are, how rich the happy days are, and how warm the vows of eternal love are at that time, which makes the woman laugh unconsciously at the thought. It can be seen that there was still a lot of happiness at that time. Why do women finally forget that they have not lived a good life? Just being in the besieged city of marriage, I was blinded by strong complaints.

How can lovers who agreed not to be separated for life now turn against each other? In fact, the woman has long understood the reason, but she feels sorry and miss her last paragraph. After reading the whole Book of Songs for Mang, we can feel the simplicity and beauty of peasant women, and we can also clearly understand the gradual mood of women, as if the whole poem is a follower, dying with nature and blooming its own unique beauty in each period.

The following is the full text of Self-protection:

Embrace trade silk for self-protection. When robbers came to trade silk, they came to me. Sending a child involves gas, as for Dunqiu. When I was a robber, I had no good media. There is no anger in the child, and autumn lasts.

Take the other side of the wall to get back to the customs. I didn't see the resumption of customs, so I cried. Seeing the resumption of GATT, I was full of laughter and laughter. Well, Parr, the body is not responsible. Driving your car to bribe me to move.

Mulberry leaves flourish before they fall. There are no mulberries in the nest! I'm a woman, what's there to worry about! It can be said that scholars are worried. You can't say a woman is worried.

Mulberry fell, yellow, and fell. Self-pity, poor three years old. Qishui soup, curtain skirt. Women are unhappy, and scholars do their best. Scholars are also extremely useless.

Three years old, I am a woman, I am tired; Sleepless all night, there must be a dynasty. As for violence, what you say must be done. My brother didn't know, but he smiled. Calm down and think about it, and you will bow your head and feel sorry for yourself.

Being together always makes me complain. Qi has a shore and discipline has a plate. General's corner banquet, talking and laughing. Swear, forget it. On the contrary, I don't think about it. I'm already embarrassed!