Don't talk when you are poor.
The meaning of this sentence is not as simple as it seems literally. It means that you should ignore what others say to you. Instead, it warns us that when you are down and out and your life is at a low ebb, try not to express your views in public.
A poor man who can't even solve his own food and clothing, no matter whether what you say is reasonable or not, who will believe you, will only find you annoying, sarcastic, mocking, sarcastic and contemptuous. Therefore, when people are poor, they must learn to be a quiet listener and avoid bringing shame on themselves.
Be modest and don't persuade others.
The meaning of the previous sentence is similar, reminding us to recognize our own identity and social status, and not to blindly teach and persuade others, which will not only be recognized, but also lead to trouble or disaster.
I have seen such a thing with my own eyes. In my hometown village, a person had a conflict with the leader, and the two families fought fiercely. A man named Wang couldn't stand it any longer. He thought it was unreasonable, so he went forward to stop the fight, but he never thought that his son knocked him down and scolded him, "Who are you, meddling here?"
Lao Wang climbed to the ground and didn't get up for a long time, but he regretted it. I can only blame myself for being full and looking for trouble. I have no right, no potential and no money. I want to stand up and uphold justice. What can I do if I don't get punched for nothing?
Therefore, we should be a bystander and do our job well.
Put down the burden and have a rest.
This sentence is even more wonderful and is regarded as a classic. People have a reputation for self-knowledge, so they should do what they should do, otherwise they will not only crush themselves, but also delay major events.
In Qin Wuwang during the Warring States Period, a good monarch did not spend time and energy on governing the country and keeping the country safe, but competed with others with a naive mind and was killed by Da Ding. If an ordinary person does not know the depth, he will die, but he is the king of a country and shoulders the important mission of the country's future and destiny. As a result, Germany didn't deserve it, which almost led to national unrest and countless lives.
Don't look for relatives when you are in trouble.
This sentence is more realistic, reflecting the weakness of human nature and the coldness of the world. There is an old saying: "The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, but the poor don't ask in the downtown area!" " There are similarities, which are intriguing.
When you are in trouble, the first person you want to ask for help must be relatives and friends. However, if you really want to help your relatives, you don't have to ask, and they will give you help within their power. If you are afraid that the person asking for help will hide, then you don't have to look for it, let alone get angry. You must understand in your heart that it is human nature to help you, and it is your duty not to help you.
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These four sentences are the life experience summed up by the ancients in their long-term production and life practice, which is worth tasting, understanding and using by each of us. Learn silently, change silently, save energy, become a better person, and constantly accumulate your own wealth. One day, you will change your life and live with dignity, so that the whole world will be happy with you.
Don't talk when you are poor.
Be modest and don't persuade others.
Put down the burden and have a rest.
Don't look for relatives when you are in trouble.
This is a wise saying left by our ancestors, which still applies even in today's society.
Don't talk when you are poor, and don't persuade people when you are humble. These two sentences have similar meanings. It doesn't mean that you are not allowed to talk, and your daily communication with people is still the same. Only when others encounter problems in their careers, the poor should not talk nonsense and participate in opinions. No one will care if you say it, and some people will even laugh at you. Because you are poor, it determines your position in people's hearts.
If nothing else, just look at the general wedding banquet. This is the first kind, and that kind is not respected and unsuccessful. Toasts don't start with the rich. "Don't believe it, but look at the wine table and respect the rich first." It hurts the poor, but it's true.
Some people may think that it doesn't matter if I am poor, as long as I am talented. By the way, if a person is talented, will he be poor? Although many people complain that modern society is unfair, modern society gives everyone enough room to play. As long as you are good at one thing, you will never be poor (except in special circumstances).
Put down the burden and have a rest. Literally, if you don't have that much strength, don't move such a heavy thing. In a deeper sense, it is how much ability you have and how much work you have undertaken. If you are an ordinary person and have no talent, can you be president? Don't bite off more than you can chew.
The last sentence; Don't ask relatives when you are in trouble, that is, don't ask relatives for help when you are in trouble. Because relatives give money to help you, they will be afraid that you will not pay him back, and you will feel hard if you don't help. Many relatives broke off contact because of borrowing money.
I am deeply touched by this. When I was a child, my brother was seriously ill and spent a lot of money. At that time, my father's sister, a nurse colleague, was too scared to come into my house for five years. My aunt's family was rich, and my father wanted to borrow some money. He stopped going when he saw this.
Finally, many of my father's friends sent money to tide over the difficulties themselves. Of course, menstruation's worry is justified. The debt owed by my family was not paid off until our brother grew up. It took five years to pay off, and we lost a lot of interest alone.
A few years later, although my aunt went back to her family several times, I went to see her every year, and I always felt even worse when I saw her. As for my cousin, he lived in my house for several years when he was a child. He was embarrassed to see me and even avoided us. Now that we have entered middle age, we are more alienated, and the Chinese New Year is limited to walking around. Father sighed, this relative, if I don't have it, it will be the end.
Therefore, don't underestimate the wisdom of the ancients. In just four sentences, the world is exhausted and human feelings are warm and cold.
Don't talk when you are poor.
For example, your friend is terminally ill and you are poor. What can you say? Don't be afraid, you say, everyone will have such a day, right?
For example, your child is getting married and has no house. What can you say if you are poor? You said don't worry, wandering the streets is true love?
Refusing to face the reality is a poisonous chicken soup forced by poverty. The correct way is to cut the crap, roll up your sleeves and work hard.
I am very modest and don't persuade people.
This sentence is the highest wisdom in the workplace. Do what the leader tells you to do. Where is there so much nonsense?
Huawei used to have an example. A newcomer just came in and went to Wanyan Book to suggest company reform. Ren Boss replied: Please send it to a medical appraisal for mental illness.
Put down the burden and have a rest.
There is a saying in the Book of Changes: Virtue is thin and respected, wisdom is small and ambition is big, strength is small and heavy, and it is rarely inferior.
This tells everyone to be self-aware, not to aim too high, not to mention vegetarian meals.
Is it realistic for you to let a three-year-old child carry the refrigerator up three floors?
Now some bosses recruit a soldier with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, but expect Decathlon to do the work that millions of people can do. If you can't do it, blame the employees for not making progress. Who drank too much poisoned chicken soup?
Don't look for relatives in trouble.
This sentence is the basic function of modern civilized society.
In modern society, citizens should get basic protection. It is difficult to save, and the disease depends on it.
For example, when the flood comes, we hope to find our relatives to escape? What is the difference between that and the Republic of China? We count on the help of the people's soldiers and the government.
For example, when the epidemic comes, we expect to find relatives to take refuge? Wouldn't that expand the spread of the epidemic? Should be isolated at home, and believe in the government, should be cured.
Of course, the government is not omnipotent. But there are even fewer relatives. Everyone is under great pressure and their help is limited. They still have to rely mainly on themselves.