(1) Sit and leave.
1. Wait for the old man to sit down.
If there is a lady at the table, you should wait until the lady is seated. If the lady's seat is next door, someone should page her.
After dinner, other guests can leave only after the hostess and the host leave.
4. Sit up straight and keep a proper distance from the dining table.
When eating in a restaurant, the waiter should take you to the table.
6. When leaving the seat, help the old man or woman in the next seat to drag the seat.
(B) the use of incense towels
1, napkins are mainly used to prevent clothes from getting dirty, and also to wipe oil stains on your mouth and hands.
You must wait until everyone is seated before you can use the napkin.
3. After the napkin is spread out, put it on the thigh at the top of the knee. Don't wear a belt or hang it on the collar of a suit.
Never wipe the tableware with napkin.
(3) the general etiquette at the table
1. Sit up straight, put your feet under the seat, and don't straighten up at will. Don't lean your elbow on the edge of the table, and don't put your hand on the back of the seat next to you.
2. When eating, be gentle, calm and not impatient.
3. At the dinner table, you should not only care about yourself, but also care about others, especially the female guests on both sides.
If there is food in your mouth, you should avoid talking.
5. Don't put your own tableware in the public plate to get food.
6, be sure to stutter, don't big mouth, food is the last to swallow, can't plug the entrance.
7. When picking vegetables and scooping soup, use public chopsticks and spoons.
8, eat imported things, can not spit it out, such as hot food, you can drink water or juice to shower.
9. When the food is delivered to the entrance, the elbows should be tilted inward, instead of being placed straight at the sides to touch the neighbors.
10. When you hold a knife and fork or others chew food, you should avoid talking or toasting.
1 1, delicious is a dish, not a dish. Take rice with you, and don't send it to your mouth in a hurry, otherwise the soup will drip on the tablecloth, which is extremely indecent.
12, never pull out your teeth with your fingers, use a toothpick and cover it with your hand or handkerchief.
13. Avoid coughing, sneezing and vomiting at the dinner table. If you can't help it, you should say "I'm sorry"
14, drink casually, toast politely, and don't persuade, guess or shout.
15. If the tableware falls, please ask the waiter to pick it up.
16. In case of an accident, you accidentally spill wine, water and soup on someone else's clothes, just apologize, and you don't have to make amends in a hurry, but make the other person embarrassed.
17. If you want to take the condiments placed in front of other guests at the same table, ask the guests next to you to pass them to you. You shouldn't reach out and drive for them.
18, if the host cooks himself, don't forget to thank the host.
19. If you eat something unclean or smelly, don't swallow it. You should gently take out the imported food with your thumb and forefinger and put it on the plate. Don't make a fuss if you find bugs and gravel in the unfinished dishes. When the waiter comes near, tell him to change it softly.
20. After eating, the tableware must be placed neatly and not misplaced. Napkins should also be folded and put on the table.
2 1. Smoking is not allowed in the process of staple food. If you want to smoke, you must ask your neighbors' permission first.
22, eating in a restaurant, you can't grab the bill, push and pull the payment, it is indecent. If you are a guest, you can't rush to pay the bill. You shouldn't pay the bill for your friend without his consent.
23. Eat at the same speed as the host and hostess, neither too fast nor too slow.
24. Don't talk about sadness at the dinner table, or it will spoil the happy atmosphere.
Dining table seating tip: In China's dining etiquette, it is very important to sit there. The main seat must be the person who pays the bill. The main seat refers to the right central position farthest from the door. The inviter's assistant sits opposite the main seat. The main guest and the deputy guest sit around the inviter, ranking third, and the fourth guest sits around the assistant. It is impolite to let the inviter sit face to face with the guest, or to let the guest sit at the main table.
The inviter can designate the guest's seat. His subordinates or juniors can also rank in a more important position than themselves. By allocating seats, China people hint at who is most important to him.
China's table manners can be summed up as follows:
1. Seating mode. Please bring the guests to the table first. Please sit down next to the elderly guests in turn and enter from the left side of the chair when you sit down. Don't move chopsticks after you sit down. Don't make any noise. Don't get up and walk around. If you have anything to say hello to your host.
Second, when eating, invite guests first. Keep moving chopsticks. Eat less food every time. Eat less food far away from you. Don't make any noise when eating. Don't make any noise when you drink soup. Take a sip with a spoon. It is not advisable to drink a bowl to your mouth. Drink the soup when it is too hot or too cold. Don't drink while blowing. Some people like to chew food when eating, especially hard-chewed food.
Third: Don't burp and make other noises when eating. If there are involuntary noises such as sneezing and bowel sounds, say "I'm sorry". Sorry; Please let the original cool. To apologize.
Fourth; If you want to help guests or elders, you'd better use public chopsticks. You can also give them dishes that are far away from your guests or elders. According to our Chinese custom, dishes are served one by one. If there are leaders, old people and guests at the same table, whenever a new dish is served, please ask them to move chopsticks first, or take turns asking them to move chopsticks first to show their attention.
Fifth: when eating fish heads, fishbones, bones, etc. Don't spit it out or throw it on the ground. Slowly take it to your plate by hand, or put it next to your dining table, or put it on the paper prepared in advance.
Sixth, we should take time out to talk with people around us in time to reconcile the atmosphere. Don't eat naked, ignore others, don't wolf down a big meal, and don't drink too much.
Seventh: You'd better not pick your teeth at the dinner table. If you want to pick your teeth, cover your mouth with a napkin or hand.
Eighth: Make clear the main task of this meal. We should be clear about whether to focus on business, contact feelings or eat. If we are in the front, we should pay attention when arranging seats. We should put the main negotiators' seats close to each other, so as to facilitate conversation or channel emotions. If we fall behind, we just need to pay attention to common sense and etiquette and concentrate on appreciating dishes.
Ninth: When you leave the table at last, you must express your gratitude to the host, or invite the host to be a guest at home in the future to show your gratitude.