This respect means accepting each other's differences. Problems in the relationship-including the relationship between husband and wife, parents and children, friends, etc. Just because one party or everyone in the relationship is asking the other party to "respect" themselves-speak or handle things according to their own standards. However, it ignores the fact that respect is mutual. If you need the other person to respect you, you should also respect each other-this is the only way to achieve "equality" in the "relationship".
Only when both sides are equal can we construct an eye-to-eye perspective and communicate effectively. Third, all exchanges should be based on mutual openness. Being honest with each other is not that I point at you and yell at you, nor that you throw things in front of me to make you angry. That's emotional catharsis, not openness. Openness is to show your softest and most vulnerable side to each other, such as fear, sadness, negativity, sadness, innocence and weakness.
This frankness usually occurs in a very trusting relationship. If you have been betrayed or betrayed after such an opening, this person will build a high wall in his heart, it is difficult to trust others, and it may also form a particularly indifferent or rational state. Therefore, there is no opening, no communication.
Also, express your needs. The need here is not to blame or ask the other party, but to tell the other party their real needs-for example, I am worried that you will get hurt, I am worried that you will leave me, I need you to accompany me, I need you, and expressing with "I" at the beginning can reduce the defense of the other party.
Finally, "loyalty" is the first premise in any relationship. When you have a partner, or the other person has a partner, don't make any cross-border jokes in front of the opposite sex who is not a partner; Don't have ambiguous words and deeds with the opposite sex who is not a partner; Respect yourself and others' partners. Such "loyalty" will be exchanged for your partner's "loyalty".
Love doesn't need reluctance, commitment or a lifetime. Love can happen anytime and anywhere. Love is pure and loyal. Love only one person in your life and grow old with your lover. Secret love is out of date. If you love him (her), tell him (her) loudly.
The attitude of post-80s girls towards love is also beyond ordinary people's understanding. Except for a few girls who are influenced by traditional moral inheritance, almost all of them are anti-traditional. Girls who accept traditional moral inheritance can often get their own happiness, while the latter may be in a mess in love and marriage.