? ? I am a native of the countryside, studying and working in the city. Most of my relatives are from the countryside, and most of my classmates and colleagues are from the city. I don't want to go into details about the dual structure of urban and rural areas in China. I just want to say that I have a certain understanding of young people in China, both in urban and rural areas.
Generally speaking, more confident young people tend to go to first-tier cities, or at least better-developed second-tier cities. These cities have many opportunities and more jobs suitable for capable people, but their income levels are uneven, with an annual income of one million or more, but most people are struggling to leave or stay on the edge. It is a real idea to want to live a relaxed life in a city with less pressure. There are many reasons why I didn't go in the end. Everyone can name a few, so I won't list them here. But a very important reason is that the prosperity and feasting of big cities make young people lose their way.
When you come into contact with people who are addicted to money and lead a drunken life in a metropolis, when you come into contact with a huge number of work or entrepreneurial environments, when reason tells you that although you can't afford a house, there are far more people working in your hometown, and when you feel that your level of cognition and contact is far higher than that of your peers in your hometown, how can you give up decisively, even though you know that evasion and procrastination are not a long-term solution? After all, it is my dream and pursuit, and it is my most yearning life! Can that young man not get lost? Therefore, in order not to be eliminated by the ever-changing workplace society, it is a natural choice to do whatever it takes: seize all the time to study, be the slave of the leader, be the grandson of the customer, and trip over colleagues. After a long time, I don't feel like a person, and ghosts don't look like ghosts.
When everything is busy quickly and everything is flashing in a hurry, it is inevitable that it will pass like a snapshot, and there is not so much time for precipitation and aftertaste. Whether it's making friends, falling in love, getting married, having children, fitness, study, entertainment, going to bars to drink, disco dancing, everything will go according to the procedure. I live in a hurry, dry, tasteless, and dare not stop, so it is natural to relieve stress through various venting methods, such as the most typical chaotic relationship between men and women. People are bitches. I really didn't say anything wrong. In such a day without too much precipitation and happiness, the stimulation brought by occasional indulgence and derailment actually makes many people lost.