2. Gift commemoration method: customize a model birthday cake, insert candles representing the age of the deceased on the deceased and the deceased, write down the name of the deceased, go to the tomb of the deceased to commemorate the life of the deceased, and sing a birthday song for the deceased in a low voice. After the commemoration, if allowed, burn the model cake to the deceased.
3. Wine: If the deceased still likes to drink some wine, he/she can also buy some wine he/she liked to drink before his/her death, bring it to the grave, pour it into a glass, and then sprinkle it on the grave of the deceased. Pour three cups at a time and sprinkle them three times, and then commemorate the birthday of the deceased with wine.
4. You can also pay homage to the birthday of the deceased from a distance. In this case, on the birthday of the deceased, a memorial platform for the deceased was set up in different places, and related birthday gifts were also placed to commemorate and pay homage to the birthday of the deceased in spirit.
Usually on the following days to pay homage to the deceased relatives:
Days related to ancestors?
1, the annual ancestor's birthday (important sacrifice day)?
2. The annual anniversary of the death of ancestors (an important sacrifice day)?
3. the seventh day after the death of the ancestors (the first seven, relatively important)?
4. Fourteenth day after the death of ancestors (Erqi)?
5. The 2nd1day after the death of ancestors (Sanqi, more important)?
6. Twenty-eighth day after the death of ancestors (April 7)?
7. The first month after the death of ancestors?
8, thirty-fifth day after the death of ancestors (May 7th)
9. Forty-second day after the death of ancestors (June 7th)?
10, the 49th day after the death of ancestors (July 7th, more important)?
1 1, the hundredth day after the death of ancestors (centennial sacrifice)
Traditional worship day
1, Lunar New Year's Eve (an important sacrificial day)?
2. the second day of the lunar calendar (opening the year to worship the ancestors)?
3. On the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, Lantern Festival (ancestor worship on Shangyuan Festival)?
4. April 5th, Gregorian calendar, Tomb-Sweeping Day (Tomb-Sweeping Day, the most important sacrifice day)?
5, the fifth day of the fifth lunar month, Dragon Boat Festival (ancestor worship)?
6. On the 15th day of the seventh lunar month, Mid-Autumn Festival (ancestor worship)?
7. Double Ninth Festival on the ninth day of the ninth lunar month (ancestor worship, grave sweeping, important sacrifice day)?
8. On the first day of the tenth lunar month, ancestor worship festival (going to the grave to worship ancestors)?
9. Cold Clothes Festival (ancestor worship) on the first day of the tenth lunar month?
10, Gregorian calendar 65438+February 22nd or 23rd, winter solstice (ancestor worship, important sacrifice day)?
1 1, the eighth day of the twelfth lunar month, Laba Festival (ancestor worship)