: affirm yourself from the heart.
Now we should define a person with a positive attitude, that is, a person with strong spirit who dares to face any difficulties.
They can find a solution to any problem, know how to overcome it with thorough thinking, and will not be confused when encountering any adversity, misfortune and other difficulties.
For people who think positively, a way to find the answer can be opened up under any circumstances. When encountering difficulties, positive thinkers will calmly say:
"Difficulties do exist, but there is nothing that anyone can't do."
This is an active life, and this is the way for them to move forward and achieve their goals.
We can be sure that positive thinking is different from some negative thinking, such as the shallow optimism of the heroine Poliana in the girl novel, which is not unrealistic optimism. On the contrary, people who think positively are strong, that is, people with strong beliefs, strong thoughts and strong personalities.
The weak will eventually become strong because they have positive thinking.
The opposite of positive thinking is negative thinking. People with positive thinking have faith, while people with negative thinking have no faith; The former is full of confidence, while the latter is lack of confidence; The former faces difficulties directly, while the latter gives up difficulties.
People with negative thinking block the flow of creativity because of despair; People with positive thinking, because they believe in themselves, open a bright future and a vast world full of creativity.
Simply put, in the face of the same situation, negative thinkers will fail because of pessimism; Positive thinkers will succeed because they dare to face all kinds of possibilities.
To make negative people positive, we must first think of any small things in a positive direction. We should use positive language such as "I can do it", "I will do it" and "go in a good direction" to strongly impact the long-term negative mentality.
As long as you keep this positive thought in your heart, you can open up a path in your heart, persevere every day and adopt stronger thinking rules, and the road in your heart will eventually get wider and wider, and finally break through the barriers of negative thinking. So in your mind, positive thinking will dominate.
Don't just praise the successful part.
I saw an article by China writer and painter Liu Yong in Yilin. In his article, he wrote that when his daughter was staying at an American classmate's house, she watched her children throw basketball one day and boasted, "Yes, it's great!" "
The boy's father stood by, but said, "Don't call it' great' just because he throws the ball. It's commendable that he throws the ball. He can vote again and try again, which is commendable, not just praising his success. "
His daughter said he was very moved because she was praised since she was a child. She won the grand prize in every competition, won the first place in the exam, and was praised by me, which made her have to work hard to get praise. Liu Yong said: "What's wrong with this? This is the education of love and the way of encouragement. " His daughter said, "The problem is that if I always study to get your praise, I will lose the fun and original intention of learning."
I am also very moved. The happiness of learning is not to beat others. If so, I won't be happy if I lose my life, because "others" will never end. As Teacher Lu Qin said, children in China are not successful now, because we are always in competition. The better your grades, the less happy you may be.
The happiness of learning should lie in sticking to your dreams. Larry Page, the founder of Google, said, "When a great dream comes, seize it." Persistence is the greatest source of capital and happiness.
Shen Si, a girl born in 1980s, is determined to make China an "apple". In her sophomore year, Bill Gates' autobiography The Road to the Future first gave her the idea of starting a business. To start a business, you must first get into a good university. 1997, she tried to be admitted to the Computer Department of Tsinghua University. In Tsinghua, her idea of starting a business hasn't changed at all. When she graduated, she chose to continue studying computer at Stanford University. Another skill she learned there was confidence in her viability. No matter how hard the environment is, she has the confidence to live, study and work happily.
Now she has been in business for nearly two years, and her application has become the largest game community on the global Android platform. She says persistence is her greatest asset.
Knowledge without wisdom and fun is like a pile of books on the back of a donkey, just a burden. Knowledge learned for dreams is to eat food that is converted into energy in the stomach. Encourage children to stick to their dreams, praise their efforts and enjoy the process of struggle. The result is only a gift, some are happy, and nothing is normal.
The miracle that happened to me
Some people think that they are born with "positive thinking", while most people have the ability of "positive thinking" only after painstaking study.
In fact, there is a lot of evidence that people are born with a positive attitude. I have never seen negative babies, but many babies are born in negative families.
Children are very sensitive to the surrounding atmosphere and will soon absorb the unique thoughts and feelings of this family. Therefore, if the family atmosphere is dominated by negative thinking, children will unconsciously form negative thinking. They formed the habit of negative thinking. When they grow up, such as after 20 or 30 years old, if they want to become "positive thinking", they will face the problem of how to change their thinking habits for many years. It takes considerable effort to relearn the habit of thinking.
Fortunately, people not only have the power to form habits, but also have the power to destroy them. So any habit can be changed. Every time you go through the same thinking process, you will often carve deep grooves in your brain. Sincere hope, strong will and keen imagination can bridge these grooves.
Human beings with the appearance and personality of the creator, like the creator, are born with positive thoughts. The creator trusts the people he created and gives them the right to choose.
People also have the right to choose mistakes from truth; Choose evil from good; The choice from the central authorities is incorrect. It is also allowed to choose negative thinking instead of positive thinking. After living with a certain value for many years, it is also possible to use your right of choice at any time to re-select the completely opposite value.
Christianity calls this situation "returning to the heart". The so-called "change of heart" means fundamentally changing yourself.
"Anyone in Christ has become a new creator, and the old man has become a thing of the past. Look, everything is new. "
Because of this, it needs to be emphasized that anyone can enjoy happiness as long as they turn negative thinking into positive thinking. No matter how long you have held negative thoughts in the past, you can do it!
I dare to assert so confidently because I used to be such a person myself. I am sure that I can turn negative thinking into positive thinking. Anyone who works hard and is not afraid of difficulties should be able to do it.
Rather than talking about theory, it is better to come up with your own practical experience, which is more convincing. Let me talk about my own experience.
When I was a teenager, I was troubled by my extreme self-distrust and strong sense of inferiority. Not only that, like many teenagers, I have my own dreams and goals, but I'm not sure if I can achieve them. I feel even more distressed about this.
I grew up in a crowd with very active mental activities. In other words, I grew up in an environment that seems to have a lot of troubles. My family often appears to be in financial difficulties, which will naturally fuel my unstable mood. I am uncertain about everything and afraid of the result of failure, which is undoubtedly the spiritual characteristic of my youth.
Anyway, my inferiority and lack of confidence are related to my negative attitude. Although I have a dream for the future, I am a negative thinker. This unfortunate state lasted until my sophomore year.
When I was a sophomore, I miraculously completely reversed my negative worldview.
The first condition of becoming a positive person is to have a strong desire. Having a positive and eager desire will inevitably make you act immediately and start to transform yourself. Once you have a firm belief in changing from negative thinking to positive thinking, you are sure to succeed.
If you are a positive person now, you probably don't know when it became like this. In fact, in the process of unremitting efforts, you have changed. As long as you keep working hard, new powerful positive thoughts will emerge.