Zheng Banqiao once said: "It is difficult to be smart, especially to be confused, and it is even more difficult to change from smart to confused. Let go, take a step back, feel at ease now, and report later. "
Su Dongpo, a famous poet in the Song Dynasty, also didn't want his children to be too clever. He wrote in the poem, "Everyone raised their children to be smart, but I was delayed by being smart all my life. I only hope that the child is stupid and honest, and there is no disaster and no difficulty. "
"Difficult to be confused" is a kind of protection for yourself.
"Difficult to be confused" means not caring about others and letting yourself go.
"Difficult to be confused" is a great wisdom. People with big minds will not be sharp-edged in everything, nor will they be tit-for-tat with the people around them for their immediate differences. Whether it's "office politics" in the workplace or private communication between relatives and friends, it's inevitable that people will encounter each other in life.
Being smart is good, but don't be fooled by being smart. In this complex world, sometimes "it is difficult to be confused" is a higher realm of life than wisdom.