1, since you are moved, you must act for love.
Boys and girls who play together in adolescence will naturally have a different kind of feelings after a long time, which is caused by puberty hormones. Each of the five children in "I am waiting for you in the future" has his own longing and expectation for love, and only Chen Xiaowu has turned his heart into action.
He wrote to Ding Jun as a pen pal, accompanied and encouraged her in another capacity, and spent many lonely and difficult times with her. In real life, although he is a good friend, Ding Jun has always disliked Chen Xiaowu and disliked him in all aspects. Even so, Chen Xiaowu didn't stop liking it.
Chen Xiaowu told Liu Dazhi the secret that he was Ding Jun's pen pal. Liu Dazhi suggested that Xiaowu never tell Ding Jun, otherwise they wouldn't even become friends. But wholeheartedly, Chen Xiaowu showed his identity to Ding Jun without regret for his youth, and finally got an unexpected surprise: he not only had feelings with Ding Jun.
Some people have a secret crush. Chen Xiaowu bravely acted to win the beauty, while Liu Dazhi could only watch Nuo Nuo miss his love for many years. It's easy to move, but difficult to move. To treat love, we should express our hearts bravely like Chen Xiaowu. If we don't get it, we don't have to be afraid of losing it and leave regrets for our youth.
2. Courage is not fearlessness, but fear and move on.
Chen Xiaowu, who dropped out of school and went home to sell bean sprouts, met a bad young man who collected protection money. He was afraid to deal with it, and at the same time he racked his brains to find a way to deal with it. Although he is afraid of them, he still doesn't want to let his efforts go to waste or live under the control of others all the time. So he bravely stood up and encouraged the vegetable vendors to deal with it together, collect their criminal evidence and bring them to justice.
Although Xiaowu's behavior is because he is full of blood and vigor, he can bravely stand up and fight against evil forces and defend the legitimate rights and interests of himself and the vegetable vendor. Such a brave young man deeply infected the vegetable vendors and finally stood up and took up arms to defend rights with Xiaowu.
In the end, Chen Xiaowu not only defended his legitimate rights and interests, but also won the support of vegetable vendors, which laid the foundation for him to become the boss of Xiangnan farmers' market in the future.
As we get older, we worry about and take care of more and more things. Actually, we have nothing. Why can't you be brave for your dreams? Bravely pursue, bravely struggle, bravely seek, bravely struggle.
3. Friendship also exists? Jealous? It's better to be calm than miserable, relatively speaking.
Many times, making friends is the same as falling in love. There must be a light bulb in a threesome, and there is always an unfairness in the friendship between three people. At first, Chen Xiaowu and Liu Dazhi were good friends, because Chen Tong became a threesome. Later, because Xiaowu dropped out of school and couldn't be with them every day, Xiaowu would inevitably join Chen Tong's jealousy after dinner.
Because my friend was suddenly divided into half, what I once did with my friend became another person's, and I felt lost and sad when I thought about it. Some people will feel embarrassed and choose to bear it silently, while straightforward Chen Xiaowu bravely expressed his concern for friendship.
When leaving the campus, Xiaowu told Liu Dazhi? Emotional confession? Warning ambition not to repeat the mistakes of Chen Tong. Although all three of them are good friends, I was the first to arrive. I wish I was that special person.
After Chen Tong helped him fight, Xiaowu also opened his heart to Chen Tong to show his jealousy. Because Xiaowu bravely and frankly expressed his ideas, the friendship between the three people became stronger.
Jealousy has always been a gender-neutral, gender-neutral and age-neutral thing. Even between families, when parents are jealous of their children, they are jealous because they care. Courageously expressing your jealousy is not embarrassing, but also sublimates your feelings.
Between friends, it is inevitable that they will be full of jealousy because of some small things. If you don't reverse your conviction in time, your friendship will deteriorate after a long time. Therefore, if you express your jealousy bravely like Chen Xiaowu, you will not lose a friend, but gain more friends.
4. bravely assume the responsibility of the family.
I always wanted to grow up when I was a child, but when I really wanted to grow up, many people didn't want to grow up. They all want to live in the castle built by their parents and don't want to go out.
At first, we all thought that people would grow up when they reached a certain age. Later, we found that growing up has nothing to do with age, but with courage. A boy will grow into a man, not when he is in love or married, but when he bravely assumes his own responsibilities and family responsibilities.
When his father was ill, Chen Xiaowu grew up overnight. Although he still had nothing to do with society at that time, he was still confused about the future. But he bravely shouldered the responsibility of family and became a man with indomitable spirit.
At first, when Chen Xiaowu liked Ding Jun, we might laugh at him for not recognizing himself, but as the plot progressed, we found that Chen Xiaowu overcame all obstacles with his brave and fearless spirit.
With the courage to dare to fight and rush, he worked hard towards his goal and realized his dream step by step. Finally, he became the owner of the largest farmers' market in southern Hunan, married the person he liked and became an enviable winner in life.
Chen Xiaowu's story tells us that success belongs to brave and determined people.