Gestures while talking. Some people like to play tricks in conversation. In the process of communicating with people, it is often found that people occasionally make some small moves, but many people don't know what these small moves mean. Let's look at the gestures when we speak.
Gestures when talking 1 What is the psychology of playing with fingers when talking?
People who hold hands together are mostly nervous people. When they talk to each other in a serious manner, subconsciously, this kind of action may occur. Holding hands, or fiddling with each finger, fidgeting with a key ring or winding a watch, all these actions can show that this person lacks self-confidence, looks inferior when facing each other, and is too nervous because of timidity.
Gestures are often made. When gesturing, open your palms and put them up. Such people are honest, frank and easy to trust others. They look naive at ordinary times, but they show maturity when they encounter great events. They are affable and easy to satisfy, instead of making further efforts. People who speak with gestures, if male, are somewhat proud and self-reliant. Once others hold the opposite opinion, they get angry easily. A woman likes to use gestures, which shows that she is lively and likes to take care of others.
Pointing at each other while talking, pointing at each other while talking. Such people may be conceited. He always looks like a leader, ambitious and sometimes daunting. He always insists on showing his position in front of others. People are jealous and have the desire to dominate others.
Gestures when talking
Gestures are not only embellishments of language, but also play an important role in human language. Studies have found that gesturing while speaking is helpful for thinking, expressing and remembering. There is a close neuronal connection between the language center and the motor center of the brain. The part of the brain that becomes active when talking,
Gestures are also very active. Scientists also found that the areas in the brain that control hand activities are distributed in several different parts of the motor center, with an area of 1/4 of the cerebral cortex. A simple hand movement, such as holding a glass of milk to your mouth, will cause a particularly strong excitement in the cerebral cortex, which has always been a mystery to neuroscientists.
Basic etiquette in contact and communication
In modern society, shaking hands is not only the most basic etiquette in people's contact and communication, but also the best opportunity to observe other people's inner activities and accept other people's information. When shaking hands, people with dry palms are more cheerful, but they may also indicate that they are not particularly interested in this meeting. People with wet palms are introverted or very nervous and scared at this time. People with upward palms are softer and easier to get along with, while those with downward palms are more competitive and unwilling to convince others.
Hand movements when talking.
1. Cover your mouth with your hand from time to time when you are talking.
Usually, such people are weak and introverted and can't share their inner secrets with others. In addition, some women like to cover their mouths with the back of their hands, indicating that they have a good impression on the people in front of them. If this action frequently appears on a man, it means that he is a bit "sissy".
Touch your nose when you speak.
If you keep touching your nose when you are talking, you may be lying. When people lie, the nasal cavity tissue will swell and expand because of congestion, and the liar will keep touching because of itchy nose.
Touch your eyes with your hands when you speak.
Statistics show that most people touch their eyes at least once an hour. If you keep touching your eyes when you talk, there are two meanings: first, you feel very tired; Second, I don't agree with each other's views and want to express my own views.
4. Scratch your hair or touch your ears when you are talking.
People who like this when they speak are usually super delicate and even a little sensitive. Sometimes what others think is a small matter is a big deal to them.
Put your fingers between your lips when you speak.
This may indicate that he is thinking carefully and talking at the same time, rather than talking nonsense.
Common gestures when speaking
1, affectionate gesture
Mainly used to express the speaker's feelings. For example, he said in his speech, "We must turn losses into profits!" It is pointed out that in phonetic language, his right hand is split from top right to bottom left, and the word "should" at the end of the sentence is clenched into a fist, which is powerful and decisive, giving people confidence and strength.
Step 2 indicate gestures
Used to express people, things, things, directions, etc. As a country, one of the ways to revitalize China is to build socialism with China characteristics. With the sound language, the right hand is raised on the side of the head, and the index finger is extended, which arouses the listener's attention to this sacred choice.
3. Pictographic gestures
Used to describe and express the appearance of a particular thing or person. What is love and "love, if you can't get it, you have to pay!" " "With audio language, the arms are straight and flat on the chest, the arms are slightly bent, and the palms are facing up, simulating the shape of the sacrifice will deepen the understanding of love.
What psychology is it to play with fingers when talking? What do common gestures imply when speaking? Playing with your fingers in different ways represents different personalities, but some behaviors are impolite, such as pointing at others, and it is best to avoid them. In addition, when people speak, different gestures also imply different psychology, which we need to know.
Gestures when talking 2 1. The use of gestures should conform to convention.
When using gestures, you must pay attention to the fact that the gestures you use are recognized and known by everyone, so that you can accurately convey what you want to convey with gestures. Otherwise, others can't understand your gestures. Not only can you not convey your meaning to the other party, but it may also lead to misunderstanding and unnecessary trouble.
Such as introduction gesture, direction gesture, invitation gesture, clapping gesture and so on. , has its established actions and requirements, can't take it for granted. Under normal circumstances, most people will keep silent when they see gestures they don't understand, wait for observation, or get corresponding information from each other's spoken language.
2. Use gestures moderately.
Some people are always quiet and motionless when chatting with others, giving others an uncomfortable feeling. In fact, when people are chatting, they will observe your body language, not only your eyes, but also your hands. Therefore, when socializing, we should use sign language appropriately. Of course, it cannot be abused or misused.
No matter what you do, there must be a limit. If you overdo it, it will bring pressure to others. Similarly, using sign language is the same. For example, shaking hands is welcome, but some people shake hands with you as soon as they meet, and don't let go. Imagine a person seeing you three times a day, shaking your hand three times and holding it tightly every time. Who can stand it?
3. Use gestures to avoid the "thunder" area.
There are also many taboos in the use of sign language. If you don't understand, it will bring a bad impression to others and cast a shadow over interpersonal communication. For example, when introducing or guiding people, you should use your palms, put your four fingers together and put your palms up, which will give others a sense of respect. Of course, you can't point fingers at others.
In life, many people always inadvertently point their forefinger at others, which is very impolite. When chatting with people, the amplitude of gestures should not be too big, let alone dancing. Generally speaking, the upper limit of gestures should not exceed the line of sight of the other person, and the lower limit should not be lower than one's chest area.
The amplitude of the left-right pendulum should not be too wide, and it should be done on the person's chest or right side. When meeting and chatting with each other for the first time, avoid rude gestures such as scratching your hair, playing with ornaments, picking your nose, picking your teeth, looking up at your watch and pulling your sleeves when you are happy. In short, when using sign language, we should know more about some taboos to avoid misunderstanding because of our ignorance.
Gestures when talking. A symbolic gesture
Used to express "classmates, let's go where the motherland needs it most!" " "With the sound language, the right hand stretches forward, symbolizing the places where the frontier, countryside, mines and so on are most needed.
Second, pictographic gestures
Used to describe and express the appearance of specific things or people, such as "what is love?" Love is not taking, but giving! "With audio language, the arm is straight and flat on the chest, the arm is slightly bent, the palm is up, like a sacrifice, which will deepen the other party's understanding of love.
Third, gesturing.
Used to express people, things, things, directions, etc. To say, if we want to revitalize China, there is only one choice, that is, we must take the road of construction with China characteristics. With the sound language, the right hand is raised to the side of the head, the fist is clenched, and the index finger is extended, which causes others to pay attention to this sacred choice.
Fourth, affectionate gestures.
Mainly used to express the speaker's feelings, such as saying in the speech: "We must persist in reform and opening up!" Raise the palm of your right hand with audio language, chop from the top right to the bottom left, and make a fist with the word "go" at the end of the sentence, which is powerful and decisive, giving people confidence and strength.
Gestures can be divided into three areas according to the range of hand movements: the upper area is above the shoulder, which shows grand, positive, publicity, momentum and inspiring content and feelings, and is widely used in speeches and lectures. The middle area is from shoulder to waist, which is mostly used to describe and explain things in general, showing neutral meanings such as frankness, calmness and friendliness. This is the most used area. The lower area is below the waist, representing hatred, unhappiness, contempt, contempt, rejection, denial and depression.
Gestures are used in many situations. In daily practice, gestures include shaking hands, handing, waving, waving, waving, and extending arms or fingers.