Mr. Wang Zengqi said: "I don't like novels with strict layout, and I advocate that there is no horse to follow."
Indeed, in addition to flowing, good books often have a kind of simplicity and purity that is not bound, especially in books that express love.
In fact, most people can't define love accurately, because love is not bound in a framework, but exists in various forms. As Mr. Wang Zengqi said:
"Love is a non-professional thing, not a skill, not an ability, not a technology, not a commodity, not a performance, it is the growth of flowers and trees, and there is a love for time and season. People always have to love, which makes us tough, inclusive and full. "
Love is not a substantive thing, which can neither be eaten nor driven, but if a person's heart can be filled with love all the time, then he will treat life with innocence and happiness.
Because love is an infectious thing from beginning to end, it can make us full of enthusiasm and make us strong.
Being loved is lucky, and taking the initiative to love is happy. Whether it is true love or not depends on whether you can become better and happier.
One: be kind to everything in front of you, and you can have love in your eyes.
Love is not a professional thing, but you can treat everything in front of you with your own love, because it is a passion for life and a persistence in feelings.
People with loving eyes can not only feel the fullness of feelings, but also be treated gently by life.
Many times, love is a subjective emotion. If you want to change your life deliberately, you might as well enrich your love first.
Enthusiastic enjoyment of life, optimism and joy of everything can always make us feel gratified.
Mr. Wang Zengqi is also an optimistic person about life. In his book, there is such a sentence:
"That year, flowers were not the best, but fortunately, I met you; That year, the flowers bloomed very well, as if they were specially for you; That year, the flowers bloomed very late, but fortunately you were there. "
At any time, people can feel their gains, see what they have and ignore what they have lost. Such people can live happily. People who can enjoy the present anytime and anywhere and live for love can also live happily.
Let love be my own safe haven, so that I will not be displaced. This is a lasting force of emotion.
People in love are easily shaken by meaningless and unimportant things. But even if love is inherently fragile, it must be maintained by two people, one working hard and one persisting, loving the process and being grateful for the experience. Only in this way can we make each other more persistent.
Treat everything in front of you and make your eyes as full of love as possible. Even if life is cruel and our feelings are bumpy, as long as we can't treat ourselves badly and don't lose our faith in love, we can have a thorough and persistent love.
After all, it is better to be more calm than to face life with a bitter face and sadness.
Two: Let love change itself from the inside out.
Love can not only bring us warmth and sense of belonging, but also make us stronger and more tolerant.
It makes us understand the responsibility and the responsibility in different emotions. Therefore, love can bring about an obvious change and inspire us to change ourselves from the inside out.
Love makes us tough, because with love, we will not be shaken by the cynicism of others, and will not be dumped by sudden storms. As long as you have peace of mind, you can accommodate countless twists and turns in your life; As long as the heart is tolerant, you can be broad-minded and not be disturbed by trivial matters.
There is a story that an orphanage in Vietnam was bombed in the war, and a little girl was injured and bleeding profusely.
The little girl needed blood transfusion because of excessive blood loss, but only one nurse knew Vietnamese, so she asked all the children present in clumsy Vietnamese if anyone would like to give some blood to her friend. But no one responded, and finally several children raised their hands trembling.
Without much thought, the nurse immediately took the child to draw blood. Afterwards, she asked the child, is it difficult to donate some blood to friends? The child faltered and said, "We all heard wrong, thinking that saving her would drain our blood."
Think about it carefully, even if it is drained, there are children who are willing to save their friends. This kind of responsibility and responsibility is owned by a person who always has love in his heart. No matter what kind of storm you face, you can stand up and bear it for the first time. This is a valuable quality.
So are friends, and so are lovers. Two people who love each other, with the determination to pay for each other, go on without hesitation. What love teaches us is a unique strength and a sense of responsibility as important as belonging.
Love can bring us too much, and the lessons that love can give us can also make us understand a lot. A person becomes calm, tough, responsible for everything and needs the support of love. It is also because of love that a person will not suffer all the time.
Treat life with enthusiasm and joy, enjoy every inch of time and appreciate the colors and scenery brought by each season; Treat feelings, keep persistence and persistence, grasp every emotion that should be preserved, and cherish everyone you like.
Always cherish the present, enjoy the present, and be passionate. This is love.
We must love something, because love can bring us too much, but true love is the power to make us better, more responsible and more responsible.
If you are hesitating about whether your feelings are right or not, let go of your obsession and see if you have become better in this relationship.
Let you enjoy the present and want to create the future, which is the best feeling. And in such feelings, we can also become more comfortable and comfortable.
So if you are confused, it is better to read Mr. Wang Zengqi's simple language, to experience the purity of Mr. Wang Zengqi's words, and to understand the true meaning hidden in it.
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Today's topic:
What do you think true love is in real life?