In fact, it takes a long time for a family to put up with each other's personality defects and casualness-especially, especially the person who doesn't like to get up and study. ...
A family under the epidemic, one floor, one roof, a bed (husband and wife, grandpa's milk), a dining table, a ray of light, really look up but don't look down, and 12 hour, 24 hours, 48 hours ... endless cycle, cycle and cycle. Teeth and tongue will be accidentally injured, not to mention a family that crosses at close range and won't tie a knot?
Don't talk about the knot, fight, have a plenty of people! How many people who used to be close to each other parted ways because of an epidemic, showing their true colors and turning against each other?
Not only husband and wife, mother-in-law, parents and children are going through a severe test.
It turns out that when I was at school, I didn't need to meet each other for six or seven hours a day. Holidays, relax, relax, it's easier said than done; It's hard to say that it's your turn to sit down and study seriously every day in the online class under the epidemic. For a group of "monsters", if they can "play", they will take turns to perform 18 kinds of martial arts. For parents, it is simply the helplessness and suffering of "cooking beans and burning beans, and beans crying in the pot"!
Under the epidemic, how many parents are not so "bored" with their unconscious and self-disciplined babies? In fact, whenever the baby is unconscious and self-disciplined, I am afraid that there is no parent who does not "hate" or "hate"! It's just that during this epidemic, it's repeated, day and night, all the time, or even worse!
For example, an early reader knows that the sound of books on the computer has long been loud, and the people at the other end of the bed are still snoring like cats! What kind of parents can still love calmly like Buddha at this moment? However, if you don't calm down and shout, how can you control a few big ones? Hi! This is a warm nest home, this is not a classroom with three rules and five appointments! He is afraid that you will scold him for breaking his skin. He's afraid you'll smash his face? He is also afraid that you will be punished for standing on your back and copying prose? Come on, turn over and sleep first!
For example, during lunch break, he doesn't take a lunch break, but he can't "hang his head and poke his head." Instead, he laughed his head off in front of one funny video after another. The class finally started, and suddenly "Duke of Zhou" floated like a fairy! Which parents, at this moment, can still love each other like Guanyin? However, if you don't take a pleasant glance, you will wake up the dreamer with a muffled thunder. Instead of waking him up to listen carefully and take notes carefully, you will inspire him to be "high-spirited"-flying "Guan Yu" and "Zhang Fei" on the table, releasing thousands of people's sulks!
For example, a person who takes a night course wants to turn on the video and aim it at a person's upper body to take an exam, but he points the video at the ceiling, claiming that it is because of the exam that he wants to point the video at the ceiling so as not to disturb his meditation during the exam! Excuse me, which pair of parents, at this moment, can still love any "monster" like Tang Yan? But if you are not calm and angry, it will only "add fuel to the fire" and help him "lend a helping hand"-you won't hand in this paper tonight, so you just don't take the exam. ...
Alas! To put it bluntly, isn't it "the road to the enemy is narrow", "enemies don't get together" and "enemies don't get together"? If I can, I don't want to be the mother of this baby anymore! I'm dreaming, I just want to be a self-disciplined, studious and enterprising baby!
In fact, most parents don't want to be their own parents, otherwise "other people's babies" will become a mantra! There are really few parents who don't "hate" or "hate iron and not produce steel"! Even Professor Ding (real name) from Peking University can be found in Baidu! Professor Ding talked about his daughter, just like us ordinary people, scratching our heads anxiously and sighing helplessly: "My daughter is so far away from me! This is heaven, there is no way, we must accept it, what can we do if we don't accept it? She is like this! "
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Listen to this tone: "She is like this!" -How many old parents are tossing and turning, sleepless all night, heartbroken and helpless! "What if I don't accept it?" -how much wind the poor man inherited!
Listen, this is the chorus of parents! The other side of love is endless "hate", "disgust" and sighs!
However, there are always people who love our baby, neither pain nor hate, and are selfless. They, like us, long for her to become a phoenix and love her deeply. But the difference is that they don't love half and hate half, like half and hate half, encourage half and suppress half like our parents. Their love is complete, love is all, and encouragement is-complete! They are committed to answering questions for children, "helping the poor", filling ditches and bridging by ladders. They are our beloved teachers!
In the online classroom of epidemic situation, if there are people close to us besides computers and mobile phones, it is teachers.
Especially in junior high school, they have long been like Wukong's nagging Tang Priest. After several rounds of epidemics, they and their parents had already been the initial "break" between Wukong and Tang Priest-they went back to Huaguoshan in a rage and were called Wangdaoba when they were free, and they were too lazy to listen to Tang Priest's grinding and rules. But the teachers-"Tathagata, Guanyin", they are absolutely awed, loved and convinced from beginning to end!
They may not listen to their parents' 10 thousand words, but a teacher's criticism or praise may change their lives. The online classroom under the epidemic situation has its own rare advantages. For example, across the mountains and seas, across the screen, across the fear, shyness and embarrassment of facing the teacher. The introverted baby who used to be in school suddenly boldly opened the teacher he wanted to ask for help, including the English subject he had been avoiding! Teachers love "curious" students, even if you are the worst poor baby, parents "dislike" you, but teachers love you! -This is the greatness of teachers! Look! This kind of interaction with the teacher, isn't it, is far better than the interaction with my mother! I am 14 or 15 years old, and he in my forties can only be described as "rebellious to menopause", while he and his teacher can be described as "teachers and friends, mother and son".
In Chinese class, he got high marks in his composition. It turned out that the teacher informed him in advance that he wanted an electronic manuscript to show and comment in class. However, due to the failure to show and comment on the electronic manuscript in time, he was instantly lost like a defeated lion, so he immediately sent it to the teacher separately after class and asked the teacher for guidance and guidance. Excellent teachers pay attention to the growth of every sapling, the demands of every soul, and give her serious guidance and encouragement. She was greatly encouraged and misled, and jumped up like a little lion in an instant. ...
This is the phone call from the head teacher and the physics teacher: two words! -How kind, natural, warm and moving! But like a flash of lightning, it surprised my mother's eyes! Because as a mother, I always call her by her full name. I don't call her by her two words, she speaks loudly and quietly. In addition to scolding or blaming, I also asked her to correct her mistakes, but the teacher changed it into a picture of her mother's kindness and filial piety!
There are still people who are constantly correcting your baby's mistakes in the early morning, which breaks your heart. Are you directly confused: is this baby yours or the one who has broken his heart? Is god holding it wrong or is the baby born wrong? All right! The baby is yours and your family name is yours, but some teachers really "hug" your baby into her own baby!
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This is our teacher's "smiling face" under the epidemic-really amiable and respectable! How many difficulties are there under the epidemic? It is difficult to be scolded by the supervisor, to resist temptation and to learn self-discipline; Parents are hard and can't make money, but they still have to support their families as usual, and they must always guard against death and fight their own "monsters"; But what is more difficult is the teacher! They couldn't see the true face of a group of "monsters" and had to use the trick of "fighting from a distance". If screaming at the top of your lungs is the second, then "stabbing blind" is definitely the first. Changing an assignment online is more eye-catching, and dozens and hundreds of copies are more eye-catching! The white screen is black and blue, and the word "running" is scratching the teacher's eyes! "Many teachers change their homework by dropping eye drops while surfing the Internet ..." Teachers feel the same way, but we do. ...
Some parents blame the epidemic, and teachers take online classes, which make their children decadent. ...
I want to say that for teachers, we only have gratitude, respect and love! Parents and teachers who blame the epidemic are just making excuses and excuses for their laziness or improper education! They blame anyone and everything except themselves!
Although the epidemic has brought us troubles and inconveniences, there are always people, in the same panic and anxiety, who take this opportunity to create achievements that attract worldwide attention, such as Newton. 1665, a terrible plague swept through many parts of Britain. The plague killed 80 thousand people, accounting for one-fifth of the population of London at that time. Newton, who was studying in college at that time, left Cambridge University like most students and returned to his hometown of Lincolnshire to escape the plague. At this time, most people felt fear and anxiety, but Newton was just the opposite. He regarded this leisure as a precious opportunity and devoted his rare leisure and energy to academic research, which laid a solid foundation for his great theory in the future and became a legend of an era.
It's hard to have a family under the epidemic, but there are always blue and white soldiers fighting for us. It is even more difficult for families under the epidemic to raise a baby, but there are always teachers who "hold" our baby as their own!
Parenting has never been easy, and it is even harder to raise it under the epidemic. But what about the "25,000-mile long March"? Didn't you finally walk out of the snowy swamp bit by bit with the confidence and efforts of "firm revolution"? Insist on "being a good parent" and don't want to "exchange civet cats for princes". Don't be afraid of complexity and fatigue. Even if it is impossible to raise a Newton, you can always expect to rush out of a "dark horse" under the siege of the epidemic. ……
Thanks to the teacher in the cloud! Pay tribute to the soldiers dressed in white and blue! Thank ourselves! There is no longer road than feet, and there is no greater disaster than heart! No matter how difficult the epidemic is, it is also difficult for Qi Xin to work together to fight the epidemic! Victory is in sight. Come on, you and me!