1: Although I am a young post-80s generation, I personally agree with your parents that love can stand the test of where you will go, but the accumulation of small contradictions over the years is hard to bear. Although parents are traditional and rigid, they are rich in life experience after all. They should attach importance to the concept of marriage, and parents always think of their children.
2. What does cohabitation mean? It is impolite to ask, do you have that? If there is, then your boyfriend is a false believer, and Christians can't "that" before marriage. Do you think it is worthwhile to change your faith for a false believer? Of course, this passage of mine is based on the premise that you have the "that" hypothesis. If you don't do this, I'll think it's nonsense. )
Personally, I think that for a person who really has faith, faith should be higher than love. Love is great, but it only lasts a lifetime, and faith is about eternity before and after death. If you are willing to change your faith for your boyfriend, it can only show that you are ungodly. Since you don't respect God, why bother?
If you can't accept Jesus Christ as your faith and savior from the bottom of your heart, then you can never become a true Christian. If you are not a true Christian, if your boyfriend is a loyal person, he can't marry you unless he is a nominal Christian.
If you really accept the Christian faith, then you should believe that your parents don't need you to burn incense after a hundred years. They are either in hell or in heaven. It is impossible to wait for you to burn incense somewhere in a pagan concept.
So the question is simple:
The point is, do you accept Christ as your savior?
If you accept it, then you will marry your boyfriend and preach the gospel to your parents after marriage, leading them to believe in the Lord.
If you don't accept it, and your boyfriend is a devout believer, it's not a question of whether you will marry, but that he won't marry you at all.
If you don't accept it, and your boyfriend is not so devout, then you don't have to care about a nominal Christian's conversion request at all. He is in ungodly, so who is qualified to ask you to change your faith? Faith is just an ornament of your life and marriage.