What is the root cause of not seeking, not giving up, and not getting what you want?

"I can't ask, but I can't give up, but I will get it without hesitation." I want to give up, but I can't. Finally got it but didn't know how to cherish it.

This sentence comes from Cang Yang Jia CuO's Whole Poem.

"Buddha said that there are eight difficulties in life: birth, old age, illness, death, love to leave, and everlasting regret. I can't let go."

These three life forms may be sad, but they should also be caused by human desires. If there is less desire and less pursuit, there will be no pain between seeking and getting. Cherish, always with a grateful heart, learn to be grateful, so that there will be endless regrets.

No matter what you gain or lose, you should continue to fight for it. Give up what you should give up and cherish what you already have.

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Excerpts from "Asking Buddha" in Cang Yang Jia Cuo's Complete Poems

I asked Buddha Zu: Why don't you give all women the face of being ashamed of flowers and closing the moon?

Buddha said: it was just a flash in the pan, used to blind the secular eyes.

There is no beauty like a pure and loving heart.

I give it to every woman.

But someone covered it with dust.

I asked Buddha: Why are there so many regrets in the world?

Buddha said: This is a whirling world, full of regrets and no regrets. No matter how much happiness I give you, I won't feel happy.

I asked Buddha Zu: How to make people no longer feel lonely inside?

Buddha said: Every heart is born lonely and incomplete.

Most people carry this disability all their lives.

Just because when you meet the other half who can make it perfect.

Either I missed it carelessly, or I lost the qualification to own it.

I asked Buddha Zu: What should I do if I meet someone I can love, but I'm afraid I can't grasp it?

Buddha said: Leave a lot of love in the world, meet the vicissitudes of life, have a lover and do happy things.

Don't ask if it's robbery or life.

I asked Buddha: How can I be as wise as you?

Buddha said: Buddha is the past experience, man is the future Buddha, and Buddha divides everything in the world into ten realms of Buddha and Bodhisattva.

Hearing, feeling, heaven, Asura, man, beast, hungry ghost, hell;

Heaven, Asura, man, beast, hungry ghost and hell are six sentient beings;

All six sentient beings have to go through the cycle of cause and effect, from which they can experience pain.

In the process of suffering, only by understanding the true meaning of life can we achieve eternal life.

Phoenix is nirvana.

Buddha said that life has eight sufferings: birth, old age, illness, death, love of parting, long-standing resentment, lofty aspirations and letting go.

Buddha said: life is made by oneself, and life is born by heart. Everything in the world changes, the heart does not move, everything does not move, the heart does not change, and everything does not change.

Buddha said: meditation, meditation. A flower is the world and a leaf is the Buddha. In spring, flowers are green, and in autumn, leaves fall. Infinite prajnaparamita is free, and words are silent and natural.

Buddha said: All Dharmas are born of life. Accidental meeting and sudden looking back doomed each other's lives, just for the moment when their eyes met.

Origin and extinction, fate is empty.

I am as naive as you.

Buddhism says that a person has three stages of enlightenment: "exploration, letting go and being at ease." Indeed, a person must let go before he can feel at ease.

I asked Buddha Zu: Why does it always snow when I am sad?

Buddha said: winter will pass, so leave some memories.

I asked Buddha Zu: Why is it that every time it snows, it is a night I don't care? Buddha said: people always miss a lot of real beauty inadvertently.

I asked Buddha Zu: Will it snow in a few days?

Buddha said: don't just stare at this season and miss this winter.