Love is a strong pure and single-minded feeling between men and women based on a certain social foundation and the same ideal of life, which is formed in their own hearts and longs for each other to become their lifelong partners. Sex, ideal and responsibility are the three basic elements of love.
Love in a broad sense: all emotions related to love are called love. The affection between father and son, relatives and friends, teachers and students, etc.
Love in a narrow sense: usually refers to love between men and women.
Love is a kind of mutual snuggling, giving rather than one-way taking.
The process of love: 1. The gradual transition from friendship, affection and other feelings to love II. You had me at hello.
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Love and liking
There are four differences between love and liking:
Love has more fantasies; Like is not aroused by others' fantasy, but by others' realistic evaluation; Love is not as fanatical, intense and urgent as love, but always stable, quiet and objective.
② Love is associated with many conflicting emotions; Liking is a simple emotional experience.
③ Love is often related to sexual desire; And like does not involve this demand.
Love has exclusivity and exclusivity, while love does not.
Some social psychologists have designed love scale and liking scale to measure the degree of love and liking between individuals.
Some items in the Love Scale are:
If I can't be with him (her) forever, I will feel distressed;
I will forgive him or her anything;
I think I will believe everything about him (her).
Some items I like about scales are:
I think he (she) is easy to get along with;
② After getting to know each other, most people have a good reaction to him or her;
He (she) is the kind of person I want to be.
Using these two scales, we can not only roughly reflect whether the attraction between individuals belongs to liking or liking, but also reflect the degree of liking and liking.
The perfect difference between love and liking.
There is an emotion in the world called "like" and the other is called "love".
Love is when he is around, he is the only one in his eyes; Everything has his shadow when he is away.
I like reading in the middle of the night and suddenly think of him. I imagine what he is doing now, and I feel a faint warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him. After a few minutes, the attention was attracted by the plot in the book again!
Love is in a lonely night, when thoughts pour in, but you can't finish reading the books in your hand, thinking about whether he is still working overtime, whether he has had dinner, and whether he is thinking about himself like he is.
Love is arguing with him and sticking to him like a hedgehog, but in my heart I have secretly admired his insight and talent.
Love wants him to keep pace with himself and connect with his heart. A joke he accidentally said can make him depressed and even burst into tears in an instant. In front of him, he is never defenseless.
I like to send him short messages when I go out, telling him that the weather here is fine, then turning off my cell phone, playing alone in a strange place for a week, and suddenly appearing in front of him to scare him after being tanned.
Love is wanting to be with him wherever you go. You can call him at the seaside and let him listen to the sound of the waves; You can also stay where you are for a long time because you see a figure exactly like him on the street in a foreign land.
Love is that he simply said "bon voyage" before going on a business trip. Looking at the back of his departure, he felt a little reluctant, but he didn't say anything, just silently waiting for the news of his return.
Love is telling him before going on a business trip, stuffing clothes and food into his backpack and not leaving until the train arrives at the station. And in the days after he left, he was uneasy every day, praying over and over again that he could return safely.
Love is when you are hurt, you don't want him to see your fragile side, quietly wipe away your tears in front of him, and turn your head and still look happy and strong.
Love is crawling on his chest and crying when he is wronged, telling him all his troubles without hiding or worrying, eager to get comfort from his arms.
I like to eat KFC with him when he is tired of shopping on weekends. Is to grab a cup of hot coffee with him in the cold winter; Is to walk side by side with him in the street, always separated by half a meter; I played games with him in front of the computer, and they laughed like children.
Love is cooking a few good dishes for half a day at the weekend and watching him eat contentedly; It is in the cold winter that the water is continuously heated for his coffee cup; Is to walk with him in the street and let him hold his hand tightly; I sat quietly next to him and watched him concentrate on his work in front of the computer happily.
What I like is to listen to his funny stories when I was a child, and then laugh, which makes me feel inexplicably moved.
Love is listening to him tell interesting stories about his childhood, and then smiling, showing more pity for this once naughty man.
I like to meet him in the corridor, greet him happily, and then exchange a few simple greetings. When I passed by, I saw the bright sunshine outside the window, and my mood was inexplicably better.
Love is seeing him in the corridor, pretending not to care about his face, but feeling the trembling air around you carefully when passing by, so I can't help looking back.
I like to see him walking hand in hand with another girl. My heart hurts a little, but I will soon raise my smiling face again in Chaoyang.
Love is a game that you can't afford to lose. What you left behind may just be a scar engraved in your heart.
If you like a person, you want him to be your own, so you can like many people and hope many people are your own.
Love is obviously inseparable from him, but I want to give him up, because he wants happiness, maybe I can't give it. Dare not possess him, I hope to see him find happiness, even if that happiness is not shared with me.
I like it. When I am lonely, bored or sad, I hope I can talk to someone.
Love is that you want to share with him at any time, and even want to give him all the happiness when you are happy.
I like to hear from him when I haven't contacted him for a long time, and then listen to him with a smile.
Love is to call him in a hurry after a few days of no contact, and then hold back tears and smile.
Yes, only when we are together will we think of each other.
Love, even when we are together, misses him every second.
If you like someone, most of your friends will feel happy.
Loving one person is a world of two people, and one more person will feel uncomfortable.
It is sweet to like someone. Love a person, is bitter or sweet.
If you like someone, you will be very happy when you are together.
If you love someone, you will be inexplicably lost when you are together.
If you like someone, you won't think about the future.
If you love someone, you often look forward to tomorrow together.
If you like someone, you will always be happy together.
If you love someone, you will often cry.
Like a person, when I haven't seen him for a long time, I will suddenly think of him.
Love someone, when you haven't seen him for a long time, you will think of him every day.
If you like someone, you will smile when you think of him.
If you love someone, you will stare blankly at the sky when you miss him.
If you like someone, you will think that if he has children, you will like them.
Love someone, and one day, you will suddenly wonder: what will our children look like in the future?
To like someone is to hope everyone is happy.
Love a person and hope he is happier.
If you like someone, all you want is today.
Love a person, what you expect is forever.
To like a person is to look at his merits.
To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings.
When you stand in front of the person you love, your heart will beat faster.
But when you stand in front of the person you like, you will only feel happy.
When you meet someone you love, you will be shy.
But when you stare at the person you like, you only smile.
When you talk to someone you love, you will feel embarrassed.
But if you talk to someone you like, you can speak freely.
When the person you love cries, you will cry with her.
But when the person you like cries, you will comfort her skillfully.
When you don't want to love someone anymore, you should close your eyes and hold back your tears.
When you don't want to like someone anymore, you just have to cover your ears!
Like is a kind of mood.
Love is an emotion.
Like, it is an intuition.
Love is a feeling.
You can stop if you want.
Love is endless.
It's natural to like someone.
Love a person, especially calm.
Like a person, sometimes I wish I could be with him.
Love a person, sometimes afraid to be with him.
Like someone and argue with him constantly.
Love a person and always pay for him.
Like a person, I hope he can find himself at any time
Love someone and hope to find him at any time.
Like a person, always smile for him.
Love a person and always cry for him.
Love is persistence.
Love is worth it
Like is like, very simple.
Love is love. It's complicated
I like you, but I don't necessarily love you
If I love you, I must like you very much.
In fact, like and love are only one step away.
But I want to take this step.
It depends on you.
I like to take this step
Still love to take this step
Like is light love, love is deep love,
Love is a kind of dependence, a kind of responsibility, and a kind of mutual snuggling.
Love is a faint, inexplicable affection, a sudden impulse, and an idea that flashed through my mind. Love is a kind of thread buried in the heart, which can't be replaced by any love. It is a kind of strength!
If you like someone, you don't have to love him. But the premise of loving someone is to like him.
Love can easily be transformed into love, but it is difficult to say it after love, because love is inclusive; Love is selfish.
Like is a relaxed and indifferent state of mind. But love is too heavy.
When love is spoken, it becomes an oath and a promise. "Hold your hand and grow old with your son", but how many ups and downs do just eight words contain!
There is no mausoleum in the mountains, the sea is dry and the rocks are rotten, and the winter thunder thunders, but I dare to say goodbye to you! This is love.
Love is a double-edged sword. If you pull it out, you will hurt others and yourself if you are not careful.
"Once the sea was difficult for water, it was always amber." People who have been hurt by love always have an unhealed wound in their hearts.
Yamashita, I miss you and you in the distance. If there is only a faint joy and warmth in my heart, it is love.
If there is still a dull pain, it is love.
Have a deep understanding,
When you stand in front of the person you love, your heart will beat faster;
But when you stand in front of the person you like, you only feel happy;
When you meet the person you love, you will be shy;
But when you stare at the person you like, you only smile;
When you talk to the person you love, you will feel embarrassed;
But when talking to the person you like, you can speak freely;
When the person you love cries, you will cry with her;
But when the person you like cries, you will comfort her skillfully;
When you don't want to love someone ... you should close your eyes and hold back your tears. ....
But when you don't want to like someone anymore ... you just need to cover your ears.
On the same theme, someone replied, "Like is light love, and love is deep love." -
There is no limit to the number of people you like, but there can be many at the same time. But if love is different ... love ... you can only love one, and you will be dead set on love.
Just like swinging, one can enjoy it to the fullest.
Love is a seesaw, and two people must be together to enjoy sweetness and happiness.
Have you found anyone to play on the seesaw with?
[Edit this paragraph] Classification
Impulsive love
Impulsive love is also called romantic love. Being directly and strongly attracted by each other's body, always thinking about each other, always trying to be with each other as much as possible, and often evaluating each other objectively. The conditions are as follows: a certain cultural background provides an individual with a real or fictional model of loving each other; Have a love object; Have your own emotional stimulation, and understand that this emotion is caused by the object of love. Researchers have different views on whether this kind of love can last.
Self-centered love
Self-centered love. The individual who loves does not want to be bound by the object of love, nor does he want the object of love to be bound by himself. He regards love as a series of challenges, solving problems to avoid the burden of commitment.
Rely on love
By love. People who have this kind of love often show anxiety, sleepless nights and strong jealousy, and the ending is mostly tragedy.
Actual love
Actual love. Lovers look for lovers who match each other in personality, religious beliefs, interests, background and other conditions, hoping that once they find the right lover, their feelings can be further developed. This form of love is more common in marriages arranged by parents.
Companion love
Love in the company. Different from impulsive love or dependence on love, the two sides are friends at first, have the same hobbies, work together and gradually develop into love. The two parties who have this kind of love relationship may still be friends even if they break up later.
Selfless love
Selfless love. A typical Christian concept of love, patience and kindness, does not need to be reciprocated. This kind of love is often difficult to achieve in real life.
Platonic love
Platonic love, named after Plato, a western philosopher, is a kind of spiritual love between the opposite sex, which pursues spiritual communication and rejects sensuality. It was first put forward by Marsilio Ficino in15th century. As a synonym of Socrates' love, it is used to refer to the love relationship between Socrates and students.
Plato believes that when the mind abandons the body and yearns for the truth, then thought is the best. When the soul is infected by the sins of the body, people's desire for truth will not be satisfied. When human beings have no strong demand for sensuality, their mood is peaceful. Carnal desire is the expression of animal nature in human nature, and it is also the nature of every creature. People are so-called higher animals because human nature is stronger than animal nature, and spiritual communication is beautiful and moral.
Platonic love has the following meanings:
Ideal view of love (metaphor is extremely romantic or impossible to achieve)
Pure spiritual love, not physical love.
Love concept of equality between men and women
There is only one person in this world, and she (he) is perfect for you, only for you (you). In other words, everyone has his perfect partner, and there is only one.
The first meaning is the most commonly used, but it is actually a misunderstanding. But since everyone uses it this way, it's another meaning. This misunderstanding comes from Plato's masterpiece The Republic. This book discusses how to build an ideal country, because it may be too idealistic to be realized, so some people use it to explain what Platonic love is.
The second meaning is often used, but it is basically a misunderstanding. This misunderstanding comes from Plato's metaphysics. He thinks that what we think is true, and the "real world" we see is not true.
The third and fourth meanings are really Plato's view of love or gender.
Plato believes that people are in the most real conceptual world before and after death, where everyone is a complete man and woman, and in this world we are all divided into two. So people always feel that if they lose something, they will try to find their own "other half" (this word also comes from Plato's theory). Plato also used this to explain why people have "relationships".
In his theory, no half is more important, so men and women are equal. Moreover, your original half in the conceptual world is your perfect object. He (she) is somewhere in the world and is looking for you.
[Edit this paragraph] Education
IQ, EQ, FQ and AQ can all be improved through guidance, so can love quotient. Unfortunately, parents and schools rarely educate their children to correctly face the attitude towards love or dating, and let them seek help from peer media temporarily or afterwards.
In recent ten years, people began to write books to guide the improvement of love quotient. For example, when guiding blind date, we should make clear the degree of cooperation and various potential problems; Correct progress, correct attitude, strategy and so on.
There is also a semi-educational and semi-entertaining pursuit of game love in the form of computer games.
Some people with low IQ in love beg for death or hurt others as soon as they are lovelorn. If we can allocate time and energy to various things, we can reduce the occurrence of tragedies and help love, such as:
Personal appearance, health knowledge, wisdom, career and entertainment, hobbies and love, and the reflection of partners and relatives all contribute to social beliefs, beliefs and religions.
reality
In today's life, pure love is as impossible as pure gold, but whether it is a student who has not been deeply involved in the world or a person who has entered the age of no doubt, there is always fantasy and yearning for ideal love in his heart.
religion
Christianity
"(the original Bible) Love is patient and kind; Love is not jealous, love is not boastful, not arrogant, not doing shy things, not seeking its own benefits, not getting angry easily, not being evil, not liking injustice, only liking truth; Everything is inclusive, ...) "
[Edit this paragraph] Dictionary Interpretation
Love: love
Love Italy
French love
Amor Spain
Amor, Portugal
Japanese love (ぁぃ)
Russia любов
Liebe, Germany
Korean
Arabian
Love (narrow sense): The feeling of love between men and women is supreme, pure and beautiful aesthetic feeling and emotional experience.
Love (in a broad sense): feelings of mutual admiration between people (homosexuality, etc. )
Love (legal definition): It is a strong, pure and single-minded feeling that men and women form mutual admiration in their respective hearts based on the same ideal of life and desire each other to become their lifelong partners.
Love (definition of good or bad): Good love is free and easy for both parties with freedom as the highest gift, and this freedom will never be abused.
True love: Know the meaning and value of love!
[Edit this paragraph] Famous Quotations
Love always exposes the selfish side of human beings;
Love, always ups and downs in the blue clouds of concern;
Love is not a full bottle of champagne, its intensity needs time to reconcile;
Love is not coffee with sugar, its bitterness needs to be savored;
Love is not a grateful gaze, it takes a long time to grasp it personally;
Love is not a short-term preference, its pursuit needs a lifetime of happiness;
Love sometimes needs to wait, but it is by no means an empty heart;
Love sometimes needs to float, but it is by no means a wandering with surging emotions;
Love is different from friendship. You should not only share her happiness, but also comfort her sad tears.
Love is different from friendship. You should not only help her overcome the immediate obstacles, but also snuggle up to the distant future with her.
1 Love has no logical development, so we should always pay attention to its changes. Love is not eternal, so it must be pursued constantly.
-Poplar
2. When you really love someone, you will forget your own joys and sorrows and only care about the other person's joys and sorrows.
-Roland
Love is like Zen Buddhism-you can't say it, you can't say it, and it's wrong to say it.
-San Mao
4. Who is a young man who is not good at love? Who is the young woman who is not good at love? This is the most sacred part of our humanity.
-Goethe
Love does have a noble quality, because it doesn't just stop at sexual desire, it also shows a rich and noble mind, which needs to be integrated with another person in a lively, brave and sacrificial spirit.
-Hegel
6. Love is the laurel of life. Swinging around will make it fall to the ground, because without love, our souls will be depressed. Therefore, if you want to correct your personality and hold your head high, you will naturally love the person you love from time to time. Love is the spark between two hearts, the law of love is dedication, the bridge of love is loyalty, the beacon of love is eternity, love is the highest art of wisdom, and the pace of love is unstoppable!
-Zhang Ronghuan
7. True love can inspire people and awaken their sleeping strength and hidden talents.
Boccaccio
Love, your words are my food, and your breath is my wine.
-Goethe
9. Love sublimates people's desire to perfection.
-Dante
10 Only when people forget themselves and love others can they be quiet, happy and noble.
Leo Tolstoy
1 1. If love is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with itself, it is not true love.
-Shakespeare
12. Love is real and lasting, and it is the sweetest and most bitter thing we know.
charlotte brontexq
13. Love can only be produced and existed in a profound and mysterious intuitive world. Having children is not a problem of love itself.
-Soloff
14 People have many definitions of love: love is a poem and the sun in life.
-belinsky
15 boundless love is impermanent and loves the sea impermanently. The sea and sky are irregular, and it is difficult to explain the gathering and dispersion.
-Shen Baofeng
16 Love is another name for understanding and consideration.
Tagore
17 What does it mean to love someone? This means being happy for his happiness, doing everything that needs to be done to make him happier and get happiness from it.
Chernyshevski
18. True love can only come into being after giving up personal happiness.
Leo Tolstoy
19 love is a great teacher who teaches us to turn over a new leaf.
-Moliere
20. True love is like a beautiful flower. The more barren the empty land is, the more pleasant it looks.
-Balzac
After all, love is the embodiment of one's self-worth in others.
Emerson
22. People who know how to love often have a firm upward will and enterprising spirit because of the sublimation of love.
bacon
Believe in love, even if it brings you sorrow.
Tagore
24. Love gives nothing but itself and accepts nothing but itself.
Gibran
25. When love taps the shoulder, a person who doesn't even care about poetry and painting will become a poet.
-Plato
26. Love for marriage keeps mankind moving forward; The love of friends makes mankind reach a more perfect state; Sex corrupts and deprives human beings.
Emerson
27. To love someone is to help him return to himself and make him more himself.
-Mel Thain
28. Love is not about who sacrifices for whom and who does what for whom. Once love becomes like this, it is not love.
-Mel Thain
29. Love is essentially giving, not receiving.
-Fromm
30. Trust, seriousness, tolerance, pertinence, modesty and reason.
-Love Six-Part Series
3 1。 Marriage is the grave of love, but without marriage, love will not have a good end.
-Cao Shizhen
32。 Once someone objects, love will become as valuable as forbidden fruit.
-Li Pan will.
Celebrities talk about love
Love is a simple thing. It comes and goes in only three words, either "I love you", "I hate you", "Forget it" or "How are you?" I'm sorry.
I also believe that love can overcome all difficulties; However, difficulties are difficulties after all. This is what I believe.
The essence of love is only tolerance and understanding, but it is more eager than ordinary people.
Your heart is a corner of my sea, the end of the world, and I can't walk. We have traveled to the ends of the earth in this life, not halfway around the world, but accompanied by human beings.
Do you love me? I have fallen in love with you dangerously. How dangerous is it? I can't live alone anymore.
Meet, either hate late or hate early.
If you can't forget him, don't forget him. True forgetfulness requires no effort.
In the world of love, there are always some ridiculous things happening. When a person thinks that he can pay off his regrets and live with a clear conscience, it has come to an end. It is not only love but also life that is so unbearable.
Love is a romantic thing, and frustrated people can't afford it.
If you love someone, you will love yourself.
Commitment is a wrestling match between men and women. Sometimes everyone is happy, but in most cases, both sides lose.
Love is not a refuge. If you take refuge in it, you will be thrown out.
The worst viruses are love and lies.
Love should not be rekindled. Once rekindled, those good memories of the past will go up in smoke. If we don't meet again, maybe I will miss him deeply and live together until my body rots; However, at this moment, I hate him. All the good days are gone forever.
Love without love, love without love.
Why is it so painful to forget someone? Time will make you forget. If time can make you forget people you shouldn't remember, what's the point of our lost years?
If emotions and years can be gently torn apart and thrown into the sea, then I would like to be silent at the bottom of the sea from now on ... I like what you said, but I don't understand. I want to see my silence, but I don't understand. ...
Love is not just about two people. You love me and I love you. Those fairy-tale loves are found in novels and TV plays. Perfect love needs two people to create together, and watching too many novels and TV plays will only corrode the brain. True love is like a pyramid, with food at the bottom, followed by money, energy and emotional contribution. All's well that ends well for lovers, only by accumulating to a certain extent. ...
[Edit this paragraph] Art and life
Love is often the theme of all kinds of works of art.
Love classics handed down from ancient times in China, such as the love stories with Shi, Lu Bu and The Story Of Diu Sim, Yu, Chen Yuanyuan and Wu Sangui and Li Zicheng. In today's popular culture, whether it is movies, TV plays or pop songs, love is still an important theme.
Modern science fiction stories are also used to make people think about what love is.