After the death of Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman was criticized and accused. Why?

Before talking about them, please realize that at that time, western values such as anti-tradition and pursuit of "individuality" prevailed. Lin is a woman with both talents and looks, and is known as "April Day on Earth". (1 June 90410-1April 9551,a famous architect, poet and writer in China. )

Steamed bread will cause a bloody case, and it is only natural that beautiful women will cause a storm. 192 1 year, 16-year-old Lin traveled in Europe and met Xu Zhimo, who was studying in Britain at that time.

Xu Zhimo (1897 65438+1October 193165438+1October19) is unavoidable in the history of modern literature in China. When they met, Xu Zhimo had a wife, Zhang Youyi, who was the father of a two-year-old child. However, talented people must be romantic. He fell in love with Lin at first sight, but fell in love with her after seeing her again, so he abandoned his wife and children (later divorced) to pursue "true love".

After that, they organized the activities of the Crescent Society, performed together, and often wrote to each other. It was very popular at that time, but Lin just didn't accept Xu Zhimo. It is estimated that she is a very rational person and knows that love is not everything. So I finally chose Liang Sicheng, who is honest and steady.

It is said that on their wedding night, Liang Sicheng asked her, "I will only ask this question once and never mention it again. Why did you choose me? " Lin said, "I want to answer this question all my life." Are you ready to listen to me? " What a touching answer, praise one. )

It is said that many years later, Lin once said to his children, "Xu Zhimo didn't really love me at first, but Lin in his imagination had the romantic feelings of a poet, but in fact I am not that kind of person."

Lin and Liang Sicheng hold salon parties at home almost every week, and Jin has always been a frequent visitor to Liang Salon. They have the same cultural background, similar interests and deep friendship. For a long time, they lived next to each other. Even when Liang Sicheng and Lin quarreled, they all looked for rational and calm gold for arbitration. (Similar to the legendary Three Heroes. )

Kim controlled his feelings with the highest reason from beginning to end. He never married all his life, but he loved Lin. A year after Lin's death, Mr. Jin invited a guest to Beijing Hotel. When the old friends received the notice, they all wondered: Why did Laojin treat him? Upon arrival, Mr. Jin announced: "Today is Yin Hui's birthday."

Xu Zhimo is a poet who wrote Farewell to Cambridge. The content of this poem expresses his longing for his past life. This poem was written in 1928. Regarding Cambridge, there is a love that he will never forget, and the object is the talented woman Lin. When talking about love, he went on to talk about marriage. At the same time, Xu Zhimo filed for divorce with Zhang Youyi (his best friend's sister), and Zhang Youyi married him in China and was pregnant. Zhang Youyi agreed, and Lin chose to leave Xu Zhimo for this reason.