"The deceased is like a husband, not giving up day and night." How time flies! Suddenly, the autumn wind with the autumn days, day by day quietly slipped through the scenery of the years, leaving some traces in the changes, leaving people with a melancholy when looking back.
The weather has become warmer in recent days. Even so, the leaves kept falling, and some trees almost lost all their leaves, which also ended their life stories. The deep memories left under the tree are the roots of life and the feelings of falling leaves.
0 1, people in middle age also know how the four seasons are warm and cold.
Everything in the world is spiritual and experienced, as if the four seasons change overnight. Perhaps, the mind is still wandering in autumn, but it is already the scene of early winter.
Falling leaves and autumn are paving the way for a poetic winter with the most beautiful life. The scenery has changed. I don't know when, the years are getting thinner and the moon is getting thinner. Occasionally, geese fly by, leaving lingering shadows and autumn waters, and the wind makes several unpleasant calls.
It's getting late and it's cold in winter. Time has blown away all your past things with the wind, but it has given you new hope and started a new journey in helplessness.
Even though years have changed our appearance, they have increased my wisdom. Although the cold winter is coming, we can still walk and write in the snow in Xun Mei.
Put aside worldly troubles, wash away the sadness of the years, follow the daily sunrise all the way, regardless of the snow ahead, I believe that beauty will eventually meet beauty, and spring will never be absent.
Although, at this moment, flowers bloom and fall, frost and snow fly, and the years are not born, which promotes the cycle of the four seasons, makes the old things quiet, and gives hope new expectations.
With a long winter rhyme, middle-aged us hope to be gentle with time and live in peace in the next days. In the fireworks and dust, we will have memories to cook wine. In the fleeting season, we will be happy poetically, and we will bless ourselves with a cool summer and a warm winter.
02. Now, is this the life you want?
The so-called sad reminder of middle age, what really makes people anxious is not loneliness, poverty or aging.
It is not until you reach middle age that you realize that the saddest thing is that you have never lived your life the way you like.
A sea of people. Everyone is on the stage of life, trying to interpret his own life.
"Hundred years old is like a dream butterfly. Looking back is really shameful. " Life is like a dream. Life is like a play, it is broadcast live all the time, and the play is like life. Every minute is a real life, but what about the result?
Life is a pursuit and an understanding. There is no untroubled road, and there is no ungrateful flower. Perhaps, middle-aged you are still struggling in the mire, perhaps, you have stepped into the plain scenery, but is this the life you want?
Learn to change yourself and have a free and easy heart, and you will be happier; Learn to accept yourself and have a heart of practice, and you will be smarter. Learn to self-puzzle, quietly taste the wind and rain of the years, and lightly read the time.
The wisdom of life needs to be experienced, and the best self needs to be pursued. In my life, I keep my inner peace, know how to be kind and beautiful, be compassionate, and be willing to taste the ups and downs.
Life, for middle-aged people, is not a real happy experience, mixed with various pressures, responsibilities and burdens. We must constantly play one role after another in the narrow living space.
Life is like a play, "when it is false, it is true, when it is false, and inaction is everywhere." Each of us is in our own role, whether true or false, we are all happy, we are all crying, and we are all interpreting our own scenery.
Anyway, don't indulge in fantasy. Life is an illusion. You don't have to lose heart because of the suffering in life. Don't lose your mind because of the troubles and anger in life.
Learn to treat life peacefully, whether it is the life you want now or not, accept the reality first, then try to change yourself and promote a new way of life with your own mood and mentality.
03. For the rest of your life, change yourself and meet your true self.
Therefore, it is really up to you to change your destiny, learn to change your situation from the heart, and learn to adjust your mentality. This is the greatest wisdom in life.
A hard-working life and a beautiful life are never limited by age. It's never too late to start changing yourself. Middle age is the beginning of a new life.
As long as there is hope, don't relax, don't be decadent, the scenery of life is always on the road, don't give up, don't give up, and dare to change yourself, which is the winner of life.
As long as you have a kind heart, don't envy others, don't sell yourself short, and don't be arrogant. Since you are not satisfied with your present situation, it is never too late to try to change. What the heart wants, with the past.
As long as we are grateful and kind and don't compare ourselves with others, everyone's starting point and living environment are different, their background is different and their pursuit is different. We compare ourselves with ourselves, just making ourselves better today than yesterday is victory.
As long as you are willing to endure hardships, hard work and patience, one day, you will stand at the highest point of your life, the way live high likes and the life that live high likes.
Change yourself in a better direction, change yourself for your life, and change yourself for the rest of your life. You will definitely meet a better self, a truer and purer self.
"Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he likes, and never point his golden cup at the moon empty! "Life is too short to eat, drink and be merry. Life is to gradually make yourself happy in your own way.
Especially after middle age, I gradually learned to cherish what I have, learn to be content with what I have, not to suffer from loss, to suffer for loss, and to be intoxicated with possession, because loss is another kind of gain, and loss is also a kind of possession.
To change one's intelligence is to know how to give up, change oneself, gain and loss, give up, and get rid of triviality.
"Huaying is still afraid of old spring, how can she teach people to waste spring?" It is the meaning of life to be satisfied with a sunny day and stick to a beautiful day.
Life is about picking up and putting down. We should be able to afford it and let it go. Don't let unhappy feelings affect your life, delete unnecessary troubles, renew your good mood every day, live a Buddhist life and be kind to yourself, then whatever you want and what you should come will come.
04. Life information
Once the youth is gone, it will never come again, and you will never see the arrival of the next day. It's time for people to encourage themselves when they reach middle age. Time goes by and waits for no one.
Every beautiful tomorrow begins with cherishing today, and every today is to pave the way for tomorrow. All we can do is work hard, that is, seize every day, change and make it better.
From now on, don't worry about the past, don't be afraid of the future, and be the truest and best self. Keep your original mission, be a wise person, enjoy the sunshine and warmth that life gives us, draw a beautiful picture of life, and don't let yourself regret, disappointment and regret. "Don't be idle, grow old together and be unhappy."
Put aside all the complexity, keep a quiet in the world of mortals, and move towards the life you want indifferently.
Say what you should say in your own way, do what you should do according to your own ideas, and follow the right path according to your own choices.