1. Classical Chinese essays on the love between husband and wife
Letters to Wife (Excerpt)
Lin Juemin
I wish you could meet each other: I Now I bid you farewell forever with this book! When I wrote this book, I was still a human being in the world; when you read this book, I have become a ghost in the underworld. I wrote this book with both tears and pen and ink. I couldn't finish it and wanted to put it down. I was afraid that you wouldn't understand my feelings, so I couldn't bear to die for you. I didn't know that you didn't want me to die, so I endured my sorrow for you. In other words.
I love you so much that the thought of loving you makes me brave enough to die. Ever since I met you, I have always wished that all lovers in the world would get married. However, the land is filled with fishy clouds and the streets are full of wolves and dogs. How many people can satisfy your wish? Sima Chunshan, I can't imitate the Supreme Being's forgetfulness of love. As the saying goes: A benevolent person "takes care of the old when he is old, and takes care of the young when he is young." I fulfill my love for you and help people in the world love what they love, so I dare to die before you and ignore you. You understand my heart, and when you cry, you also think about the people of the world, and you should be willing to sacrifice the welfare of my body and yours to seek eternal happiness for the people of the world. Don't be sad!
Do you remember? One night four or five years ago, I said to him: "If you want me to die first, I would rather you die before me." You were angry at first when you heard this, but I later interpreted it politely. Although you did not say that what I said was true, No words to answer. My intention is that because of your weakness, you will not be able to withhold my sorrow. I can't bear it if I die first and leave you suffering. Therefore, I would rather ask you to die first, because I bear the sorrow. Sigh! Who knew that my soldier would die before you? I really can’t forget you! Sigh! The sadness I felt at that time was beyond words.
I sincerely wish to stay with you until death. Judging from today's situation, you can die from natural disasters, thieves, the day of partition, and treacherous officials. You can die if you abuse the people. We live in China today, and there is no place in the country where we cannot die. At that time, I can watch you die, or you can watch me die, what can I do? Can you suppress it? Even if they are immortal, they are separated without seeing each other, and the eyes of the two places become pierced and the bones become fossils. How many times in ancient times have broken mirrors been reunited? It is more painful than death, so what can be done? Today, you and I are both in good health. There are countless people in the world who don’t want to die but don’t want to die and who don’t want to leave. How can those who love me as much as me endure it? This is why I dare to die and ignore you. I will die without any regrets. The success of national affairs depends on my comrades.
I have never told you what I want in my life, but I am not in the right place. However, I am afraid that you will worry about me every day. I will sacrifice a hundred lives without hesitation. And to make you worry is beyond my tolerance. I love you so much that I am afraid that those who plan for you will not be finished. You are lucky to have met me, so why are you so unfortunate to be born in today's China! I am lucky to have you, so why am I so unlucky to be born in today's China! The soldier cannot bear to be left alone. Sigh! The scarf is short, the love is long, and there are still thousands of things that have not been exhausted. You can imitate them. I can't see you now! You can't abandon me, you always have me in your dreams! A sorrow!
In the third month of the Xin Dynasty, I recited the four drums for six nights and wrote them in Yidong’s handwriting. 2. What are the ancient poems that express "a wife loves her husband deeply"
1. "Drunken Flowers, Thick Mists, Thick Clouds and Worry of Everlasting Days"
Song Dynasty: Li Qingzhao
< p> Thick mist and thick clouds keep melancholy forever, and the auspicious brain disappears the golden beast. It’s the Double Ninth Festival and the Double Ninth Festival. Jade pillows and gauze kitchens make it cool in the middle of the night.After dusk when I drink wine in Dongli, there is a faint fragrance filling my sleeves. There is no way that I am not in ecstasy. The west wind blows behind the curtain, and people are thinner than yellow flowers.
Translation: The mist is thick, the clouds are thick, the days are sad, and ambergris is lingering in the golden beast incense burner. It's the Double Ninth Festival again, and I'm lying in a gauze tent with jade pillows, and the cool air in the middle of the night has just soaked my whole body. I drank by the east fence until dusk, and the faint fragrance of yellow chrysanthemum filled my sleeves. Don't say that Qingqiu is not depressing. The west wind rolls up the bead curtain, and the people inside the curtain are even thinner than the yellow flowers.
2. "Magpie Bridge Immortal·Xianyun Makes Clueless"
Song Dynasty: Qin Guan
Xianyun makes tricks, flying stars spread hatred, and the distance between Yin and Han is dark .
As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will defeat countless people in the world.
Tenderness is like water, good times are like dreams, and I can’t bear to look at the magpie bridge on my way back.
If the love between two people lasts for a long time, how can they be together day and night?
Translation: The thin clouds are changing in the sky, the shooting stars in the sky convey the sadness of lovesickness, and I quietly pass through the distant and endless Milky Way tonight. Meeting on the Chinese Valentine's Day in the autumn wind and white dew is better than those couples in the world who stay together forever but seem to be inseparable.
*** tells of lovesickness, tenderness is like water, the brief meeting is like a dream, and when we part, I can't bear to look at the Magpie Bridge Road. As long as our love lasts until death, there is no need to covet the happiness of each other.
3. "Moyu'er·Yanqiu Ci"
Jin Dynasty: Yuan Haowen
Asking what love is in the world, it teaches us about life and death. ?
Traveling all over the world, Lao Wing has been experiencing the cold and heat several times.
Happiness is fun, parting is painful, and there are even more idiotic children in it.
You should say:
Who are the shadows going to in the misty clouds and dusk snow on thousands of mountains?
On Hengfen Road, the loneliness was like the flute and drum, and the desolate smoke was still plain.
How come the ghosts of the mountains cry secretly in the wind and rain?
The sky is also jealous. If you don’t believe it, the orioles and swallows are all in the dust.
For thousands of years, in order to entertain the scholar, he sang and drank wildly and visited Yanqiu.
Translation: Oh my God! I would like to ask everyone in this world, what is love that makes these two flying geese treat each other in life and death? Flying south and returning to the north, we have flown together with each other. No matter how cold the winter or the summer, they still love each other and depend on each other. Although we are happy to fly together, parting is really painful and uncomfortable.
At this moment, I realized that these infatuated geese are even more infatuated than the infatuated children in the world! The lovers who depended on each other and were inseparable have passed away. The sincere Yan'er should know in her heart that she has traveled thousands of miles and is alone, with a long and uncertain future. Every year in the cold and summer, she flies thousands of miles over thousands of mountains, the morning wind and dusk snow, she has lost the love of her life and is alone. , what’s the point of just surviving?
This Fenshui area was originally a place where Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty visited for pleasure. Whenever Emperor Wu went on tour, there would always be noisy flutes and drums, and singing and singing everywhere. It was so lively. But now it is a place of cold smoke and decaying grass. Depression and neglect.
Emperor Wu is dead, and summoning his soul is of no avail. The female mountain goddess cried in vain because of this, but the deceased will never return! The deep love between the two geese in life and death is even jealous of God. The wild geese that die for love will never turn into a handful of dust after death like the orioles and swallows. He will leave a name that will last forever in the world. Singing and drinking wildly, they visited the hometown of Yanqiu Tomb to pay homage to the deceased couple.
4. "A Cut of Plum Blossoms, The Fragrance of Red Lotus Roots and the Jade Mat in Autumn"
Song Dynasty: Li Qingzhao
The fragrance of red lotus roots and the jade mat in autumn. He undressed Luo Shang lightly and boarded the orchid boat alone. Who in the clouds sent a brocade book? When the wild goose returned, the moon was full on the west tower.
The flowers float and the water flows. One kind of lovesickness, two places of idle sorrow. There is no way to eliminate this feeling, so I just frown, but it is in my heart.
Translation: The lotus has faded, the fragrance has faded, and the bamboo mat is as cold as jade, revealing the deep cool autumn. He gently took off his silk coat and lay down alone on the bed. Where the white clouds are rolling, who will send the brocade book? It is the time when the wild geese form the character "human" and return south. The moonlight is bright and immersed, filling the pavilion leaning against it in the west.
Flowers drift by themselves, and water drifts by itself. A kind of parting lovesickness affects the sorrow of two places. Ah, what cannot be ruled out is that - this lovesickness, this sorrow of separation, just disappeared from the slightly frowning eyebrows, and faintly lingered in my heart again.
5. "Five Poems on Lisi·Part 4"
Tang Dynasty: Yuan Zhen
Once upon a time, there was no water in the sea, except for Wushan, it was not clouds.
Take the flower bush to look back lazily, half destined to practice Taoism and half destined to be a king.
Translation: If you have been to the sea, you won’t care about the water elsewhere; except for Wushan, you won’t call the clouds anywhere else clouds. I walked through the flowers in a hurry, not bothering to look back. The reason for this is partly because of the asceticism of the monks, and partly because of the you I once had. 3. What is a classical Chinese text that can describe the love between husband and wife?
Classical Chinese texts that describe the love between husband and wife include: "The Peacock Flies Southeast", "Shangxie", "Zhuangzi·The Great Master", "Huaixiang Ji·Feng Zhao" "Class Teacher" and "Zuo Zhuan: The Twenty-Two Years of Duke Zhuang".
1. "The Peacock Flying Southeast" (Han Yuefu) Original text: Preface: In Jian'an at the end of the Han Dynasty, the wife of Jiao Zhongqing, a minor official in Lujiang Prefecture, was sent by Zhongqing's mother, and she swore not to marry. Forced by his family, he drowned himself.
When Zhongqing heard about it, he also hanged himself in the courtyard tree. Interpretation: During the Jian'an period at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Liu, the wife of Jiao Zhongqing, a minor official in Lujiang Prefecture, was driven back to her natal family by Zhongqing's mother. She vowed not to remarry.
But her family members kept forcing her to remarry, so she had no choice but to commit suicide by drowning. After hearing the news of his wife's death, Jiao Zhongqing also hanged himself from a tree in the courtyard of his home.
2. "Shangxie" (Han Dynasty Yuefu) Original text: Shangxie, I want to know you, and live forever. The mountains have no mausoleums and the rivers are exhausted.
Thunder thunders in winter and rain and snow in summer. When heaven and earth are united, I dare to be with you.
Definition: God! I long to know and cherish you, and my heart will never fade away. Unless the towering mountains disappear, unless the surging rivers dry up.
Unless the thunder rolls in the cold winter, unless the snow falls in the scorching heat, unless the heaven and earth intersect and connect, until all these things happen, I will not dare to abandon my love for you. 3. "Zhuangzi·The Great Master" Original text: "When the spring dries up, the fish and the fish are on the land. It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes than to forget each other in the rivers and lakes.
Instead of praising Yao instead of Jie, it is better to have two "Forget it and change it." Explanation: The spring water dried up. In order to survive, the two fish fed each other with the moisture in their mouths to survive.
But instead of supporting each other like this on the verge of death, it would be better for everyone to return to the sea peacefully and not know each other. 4. The original text of "Huaixiang Ji·Fengzhao Class Teacher" by Lu Cai of the Ming Dynasty: "My child, your mother and I grow old together, and we are both precious."
Definition: refers to a husband and wife who love each other and live together for a lifetime. , used to praise single-minded love and faithful married life. 5. "Zuo Zhuan·The 22nd Year of Duke Zhuang" Original text: "It means that the phoenix is ??flying and singing in harmony."
Interpretation: The phoenix and the phoenix are singing in harmony with each other. It is a metaphor for the harmony of husband and wife.
4. The story of a wife educating her husband in classical Chinese
The story of a wife educating her husband in classical Chinese
This article is selected from "Yanzi Chunqiu·Neipian·Miscellaneous"
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Yanzi's Imperial Majesty
Yanzi came out as Prime Minister, and the wife of his imperial charioteer peeked out from the door. Her husband was in charge of the prime minister, supporting the big canopy, riding the four horses, and was full of energy and contentment. After returning home, his wife was invited to go. The husband asked why. The wife said: "Yanzi is less than six feet long. He is the equal of the country, and his name is prominent among the princes. Now I watch him come out, and his ambition is deep. There are always people who want to get down. Now my son is eight feet long, and he is a servant for others. However, your son I thought I was satisfied, so I asked for it. "Then my husband restrained himself. Yanzi asked about it strangely, and he answered truthfully. Yan Zi recommended him as a doctor.
Translation as follows
When Yanzi was the Prime Minister of Qi, when he was going out, his coachman’s wife secretly watched through the crack in the door. (Seeing) His husband was driving the chariot and horses for Yanzi. He was holding the big round chariot cover and driving four big horses. He was high-spirited and very proud. After a while, (the coachman) came back, and his wife asked to leave. The husband asked the reason, and the wife said: "Yanzi is less than six feet tall. He is the prime minister of Qi and is very famous among the princes. I just saw him going out. His ambitions and considerations are very far-reaching. He often thinks that he is not as good as others." Now you are eight feet tall, and you are my coachman, but you are very satisfied with your performance. That's why I asked to leave." After that, the coachman gave in humbly. Yanzi felt strange and asked him why. The coachman told him the truth and Yanzi recommended him to become a doctor. 5. An ancient Chinese poem to express lifelong love for your lover, used at weddings
Who will hold my hand and hold me for half my life? Madness;
Who kisses my eyes and covers my half-life wandering;
Who touches my face and soothes my half-life sorrow;
Who carries me My heart melts the frost of half my life;
Who can support my shoulders and drive me into silence for the rest of my life.
Who can call my heart and cover up the misfortune of my life.
Who can abandon me and leave me alone for the rest of my life;
Who can understand my intentions and make me have no regrets in this life;
Who can Help me with an arm that is unparalleled for thousands of years;
Who can pour my heart, an inch of earth is like a void;
Who can bury my sorrow, laugh at the vain world, and my heart is crazy.
Yi, cover my lips and remove the wanderings of my previous life;
Yi, hold my arms and remove the frivolity of my previous life.
Holding my hand, I will accompany you for thousands of crazy lives;
Kissing your eyes deeply, I will accompany you for endless reincarnations.
Holding my hand, I will protect you from all the hardships of your life;
Kissing my eyes, I will give you a lifetime of affection.
I, holding your jade hand, will take everything you have in this life;
I, stroking your beautiful neck, will protect you from the wind and rain in this life.
Yu, holds the child's green hair, holding the child's love for a lifetime;
Yu, holds the child's hand, and goes to love forever;
Zeng, with The name of my father saves you from sorrow in your life;
Zeng, out of pity for your son, wishes you a safe life! 6. Classical Chinese articles about husbands thanking their wives in ancient times
There are, but they are just farewells. Huanghuagang martyr, Lin Juemin’s "Letter to His Wife" The following is the detailed "Letter to His Wife". It means that we meet each other, and I Now I bid you farewell forever with this book! When I wrote this book, I was still a human being in the world; when you read this book, I have become a ghost in the underworld.
I wrote this book with tears and pen and ink. I couldn’t finish it and wanted to put it down. I was afraid that you wouldn’t understand my feelings, so I couldn’t bear to die without you. I didn’t know that you didn’t want me to die. , so I endure my sorrow and speak for you. I love you so much that even the thought of loving you makes me brave enough to die.
Since I met you, I have always wished that all lovers in the world would get married. However, the land is full of fishy clouds and the streets are full of wolves and dogs. How many people can satisfy your wish? Sima Chunshan, I can't imitate the Supreme Being's forgetfulness of love. As the saying goes: A benevolent person "I am an old person, and I am an old person, and I am a young person, and I am an old person, and I am a young person, and I am an old person, and I am an old person."
I fulfill my love for you and help people in the world love what they love, so I dare to die before you and ignore you. You understand my heart, and when you cry, you also think about the people of the world, and you should be happy to sacrifice the welfare of my body and yours, so as to seek eternal happiness for the people of the world.
Don’t be sad! Do you remember it? One night four or five years ago, I said: "If you ask me to die first, I would rather you die first." You were angry when you heard the words at first, but I later interpreted it politely. Although you did not say that what I said was true, it was true. No words to answer.
My intention is that because of your weakness, you will not be able to withhold my sorrow. I will die first and leave you suffering. I cannot bear it, so I would rather ask you to die first, because I bear the sorrow. Sigh! Who knew that my soldier would die before you? I really can’t forget you! Recalling the house on the back street, there is a corridor at the entrance, and after passing through the front and back halls, there is a small hall and a room next to it, which is a place for you and me to live.
Three or four months after my first marriage, around the time of winter, the moonlight was dimly obscured by sparse plum blossoms outside the window. (You) and I were holding hands side by side, in low tones, why were we silent? Why not complain? Thinking about it now brings tears to my eyes. I also recalled that six or seven years ago, when I returned home after running away from home, you cried and told me: "I hope that I will travel far in the future, so I will tell my concubine that I am willing to accompany you.
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I also promised you. I went home more than ten days ago, and when I wanted to take a ride, I said this to you, and when I met you, I couldn't speak, and you were pregnant. , I am even more afraid of being overwhelmed with grief, so I just drink and get drunk every day. Sorry, I can't even describe the sadness in my heart at that time. I sincerely wish to stay with you until I die. Judging from the situation, one can die from natural disasters, thieves can die, one can die on the day of partition, and one can die from traitorous officials who abuse the people. We live in China today, and there is no place in the country where we cannot die. When that happens, I will be blinded. I can watch you die, or make you watch me die. What can I do to restrain you? I can not die, but become separated and not see each other, only to make the two places become bones and fossils. How many times have I seen this in ancient times? If the mirror can be reunited, it will be more painful than death. What can I do?
There are countless people in the world who do not want to die and who do not want to leave. How can people like me endure this? That’s why I dare to die without caring about you. I will have no regrets in my death. Whether the country will succeed or not will depend on my comrades.
Yi Xin is already five years old. In the blink of an eye, if you caress her well and make her resemble me, I doubt that she is a woman. She will look like you, and I feel very relieved.
Or maybe she is a man. Teach him to take his father's ambition as his ambition, so that I will still have two minds after my death. How lucky, how lucky! My family will be very poor in the future, and I will live in peace without suffering.
I have nothing to say to you now. I live under the Nine Springs and hear your cry from afar.
I usually don’t believe in ghosts, but now I hope they are real. I feel that there is a way, and I also hope that what he said is true, so when I die, my spirit will still be with you, so you don't have to be sad.
I have never spoken to you with my ambition in my life. I am not here; however, I am afraid that you will worry about me every day. I will sacrifice a hundred lives and make you worry, which is beyond my tolerance.
I love you so much, so I do this. You are afraid that your plans are not over yet. You are lucky enough to be born in China today! How lucky you are to be born in China today!
What a shame! There are still thousands of things that have not been exhausted. You can imitate them. I can't see you now! You can't let me go in my dream! It's the 26th night of the third month of Xinwei. Gu, written in Yidong's handwriting.
All the mothers in the family are literate, and if I have any questions, I would like to ask for their advice. [Edit this paragraph] I am lucky that the meaning of the translation reflects my beloved wife. Rumian: I use this letter to say goodbye to you forever! When I wrote this letter, I was still a human being; when you read this letter, I have become a ghost in the underworld.
As I write this letter, tears and pen and ink fall together. I can't finish the letter and want to put down the pen. I am afraid that you will not understand my thoughts and say that I have the heart to abandon you to die, saying that I don't know that you don't want me to die, so I hold back my grief and say these words to you. I love you very much, and the thought of loving you makes me die bravely.
Since I got to know you, I have always wished you the best in the world. Lovers can get married; but how many people can be satisfied with the bloody clouds and ferocious wolves and dogs in the streets? Sima Jiangzhou sympathized with the plight of the lute girl and wet her blue shirt with tears. I cannot imitate a saint with a high level of thought and forget my feelings. An old saying goes: A benevolent person "respects his own elders, and thereby respects the elders of others, and cares for his own children, and thereby extends to caring for other people's children."
I expand my love for you and help people in the world love the people they love, so I dare to die before you and ignore you. If you can understand my mood and consider the people of the world as the people you miss after crying, you should be willing to sacrifice the welfare of my life and your life to seek eternal happiness for the people of the world.
Don’t be sad! Do you remember? One night four or five years ago, I once said to you: "It is better for you to die first than for me to die first." You were very angry when you heard this. Later, after my euphemistic explanation, although you didn't say what I said, That's right, but there's no answer.
What I mean is that with your thin body, you must not be able to withstand the grief of losing me. I will die first and leave the pain to you. I can’t bear it in my heart, so I would rather hope that you die first and let me Come and bear the grief. well! Who knew I might die before you after all? I really can't forget you! Recalling our home on the back street, we entered the door, walked through the corridor, passed the front hall and the back hall, and then turned three or four corners. There was a small hall and a room next to the small hall. That was where you and I lived together. place.
I have just been married for three or four months, and it is around the 15th day of the winter lunar month. The sparse plum branches outside the window are sifting through the moonlight, so I can join hands with you and whisper, what are you not saying? What feelings are not to be expressed? Arrive now. 7. What are the classical Chinese writings about "a distant husband misses his wife"
1. I live at the head of the Yangtze River, and you live at the end of the Yangtze River. I miss you every day without seeing you, and drink water from the Yangtze River every day. When will this water stop, and when will this hatred end? I only hope that your heart will be like mine, and I will live up to my love. ——Li Zhiyi, Song Dynasty, "Bu Shuzi·I Live at the Head of the Yangtze River"
2. When you asked about your return date, you had not yet heard of it, and the night rain in Bashan filled the autumn pond. How can I cut off the candles from the west window and talk about the rainy night in Bashan? ——Li Shangyin of the Tang Dynasty, "The Night Rain Sends to the North"
3. There is a moon in Chang'an, and the sound of thousands of households pounding their clothes. The autumn wind never blows away, but there is always love between the two. When the Huru are defeated, the good men will stop the expedition.
——Li Bai, Tang Dynasty, "Midnight Wu Song, Autumn Song"
4. The flowers bloom on the road, and you can return home slowly. ——Qian Liu, King of Wuyue
5. wading across the river to pick hibiscus, there are many fragrant grasses in the orchids. Who do you want to leave behind? What you are thinking about is far away. I still look back at my old hometown, the long road is long and vast. We are of the same mind and separated, and we end up in sorrow. ——"Nineteen Ancient Poems: Plucking Hibiscus across the River"
6. Drink alone tonight, the wind is blowing hard in the evening, the moon and stars are sparse, the cliffs and promontories are wide, and the branches are full of words and phrases. I can only reminisce; the glue pillars, drums, and harps are hard to stay with each other, let others talk, the empty cup is gone, don’t feel sad for yourself, feel empty and sad, a little sad, frustrated and frustrated.
In ancient my country, there were many poems about wives missing their distant husbands, such as:
1. Nineteen ancient poems·line line line line line line line line line line line line line line line line line line line line Let’s go back to the journey and be separated from you forever.
More than ten thousand miles apart, each is at the end of the world.
The road is long and blocked. Do you know if the meeting will be safe?
Huma relies on the north wind and crosses the southern branch of the bird's nest.
We are far away from each other, and the clothes are fast.
The floating clouds cover the day, and the wanderer ignores the consequences.
Thinking of you makes you grow old, and the years are suddenly too late.
Don’t give up donating, don’t return to the road, and work hard to get more food.
2. Nineteen Ancient Poems·The Far-Away Altair Star
The Far-Away Altair Star is a Han woman on the Jiaojiao River.
Slender and simple hands, playing with the machine.
I can’t make up my mind all day long, crying like rain.
The river is clear and shallow, only a few degrees farther away.
The water is full of water, and the pulse is speechless.