What is the family style of my family? During the Spring Festival, CCTV launched a series of reports. During the winter vacation, we watch and learn with our children repeatedly. Everyone from rural to urban, from adults to children is discussing this topic. Every time we finish reading an issue, the whole family will get together to discuss it. I felt a lot and benefited a lot.
Speaking of our family style and family precepts, my first thought is my child's grandfather, who is the head of our family and an old demobilized soldier. Up to now, his bones are still full of righteousness, and all the bad atmosphere in society is insulated from him. "The country has laws and the family has rules", which is also the opening remarks of every time he prepares to hold a family meeting or educate the younger generation. Family style is the ethos of a family. Our family rules are not written. They involve all aspects of life. Our children's grandfather taught us that lotus, though good, should be supported by green leaves. Although the family is good, it is also necessary to be around the neighbors, so that life can be peaceful. Therefore, we should live in harmony with our neighbors, help each other and respect each other. Only when we have a good reputation will someone be willing to associate with us and make friends all over the world. If this family is morally corrupt and often does things that harm others and benefit themselves, the bad reputation will spread widely among the neighbors, and over time no one will want to associate with you.
Filial piety is the first of all virtues, and filial piety to parents is also one of our family styles. The last time of grandma's life was spent in the hospital, during which we often took her to the hospital to visit the elderly. Old people in hospitals are often surrounded by their children and grandchildren. Five-year-old children will ask why so many people come to the hospital to take care of grandma every day, and everyone cooks so much delicious food for her. Everyone tries his best to take care of the old people in the last stage of their lives. I told him that filial piety to the elderly is what all of us should do. Old people have worked hard all their lives to have our big family today.
Parents are teachers in children's life, so we should set a good example for children in life and make them feel that it is his duty to respect the old, love the young and honor their parents, starting from an early age.
Grandparents often educate us to be honest and upright, not greedy for petty advantages and not afraid of losses. I also practice these living habits and often educate my children in my life. There is a couple selling handmade buns at the gate of our community. Husband doesn't talk much At first glance, he is an honest man, and his wife has a disability in her right hand. Their mung bean sprouts and bean products are all green food without additives, and the young couple run their small business in good faith. We also visit it often. My children asked my mother why so many people came to buy their steamed bread. I said that because of "honesty", handmade steamed bread and pollution-free mung bean sprouts, they all did it, so the business was good. Another time, I took my children to buy steamed bread. I gave 2 yuan steamed bread to her 10. Maybe there were too many people. He gave me 13 yuan. When I handed her 5 yuan, she was surprised. There were still many good people, and I couldn't earn 5 yuan by selling 50 steamed buns. The child asked me, mom, why did aunt say that? I smiled. I said my aunt earned hard-earned money. It's not easy to get up early and get greedy. We should be honest and not greedy for petty gain. The child nodded heavily and said that I would be like you in the future, not greedy and cheap, and be an upright person.
As parents, we can only start from the things around us, set a good example for our children in life, respect the old and love the young, honor our parents, be honest and clean, and let them benefit for life!
My family style is the first school for children. If a family can have a good family style, it can help children develop a good moral foundation and then grow up healthily in society.
Lao She, a famous writer, once wrote in the article My Mother: "From private schools to primary and secondary schools, I have experienced at least dozens of teachers, some of whom have a great influence on me, while others have no influence at all. However, my real teacher is my mother. My mother can't read What she gave me was the education of life. " How much gratitude should this short sentence contain to the mother! At the same time, it also reflects the family style like rain, which once deeply influenced the writer's life. Yes, you don't need to be born in a scholarly family at all. Even if you only grow up in a "poor family", if you have a loving mother and a family style, you will benefit for life.
I remember learning it in the Chinese textbook of primary school. When I was a child, Washington raised his axe and cut down his father's beloved cherry tree because he was naughty. When his father flew into a rage, he stood up and admitted his mistake. Instead of blaming him, his father said happily, "Son, I'd rather cut down 100 cherry trees than tell a lie." Perhaps it is the father's wise tolerance that cultivated the children's courage and honesty, thus creating this admirable American president. With strict father at home, you will not only learn "sincerity", but also learn to be diligent, strong, unyielding and selfless. These excellent qualities will be stepping stones to your success.
Children are the future of the motherland, and the influence of family is likely to affect children's life, so a good family style is very important to us. Every family should form a good family style and stick to it!
My family style, family education and composition, accompanied me from ignorance to maturity, and stepped onto the steps of life step by step. This is my intangible strength-family lifestyle. In my vague memory, my mother taught me to be polite, to respect the old and love the young, to be honest and trustworthy, to help others and so on. Quality is strictly controlled.
Time goes by slowly and things happen again and again. The bright sunshine outside shone directly into the window, and the controversy in our family once again reached my ears:
"You say how old you are, and you can't do anything well. Listen, I asked you to get yourself a glass of water. Why is it so full and spilled everywhere? " It hurts all the time. My mother started nagging again while wiping the water on the table. Although my mother's "chatterbox" is a bit annoying, it can barely be regarded as "music". Just listen to it. It turns out that an aunt came to my house this morning. My mother ordered me to pour a glass of water for my aunt. Accidents will happen. Unexpectedly, the hand was shaken carelessly and the water was full. A little careless, but I didn't mean to. After menstruation left, my mother's "small bass horn" began to play nonstop, so as to be steady and half-hearted. I must correct it.
"So big, I don't even know the rules. I don't know how to greet the guests when they come. I only care about myself. " As soon as my mother sent the guests away, she gave me another "gift" when she came back. How could I be so unlucky? "...!" After a long speech, my mother was not tired at all: "You should know how to respect others and be polite." From then on, I dare not neglect the guests at home for a moment, and quickly left a "hello aunt" and right a "hello uncle."
In my mother's chatter, I learned to be polite, respect others and concentrate on my work ... As I grew older, my mother never slackened. Tell me: "Although these things are trivial and trivial, they can directly affect your growth." My family style is cultivated by my mother, step by step, step by step.
Yes, the cultivation of an invisible good family style is the transmission of positive energy and the feedback of your future education. As long as the family style is good, the national style is good.
Our family style, I hope it stays in my home. May the never-ending wind of progress blow all over the Chinese nation and into thousands of households. May my family become richer and better because of it.
My family style is the moral standard of a family, just like food, it is an indispensable part of a family. In our family, there is also a family style, that is, how to be a person.
Be a man, you must be kind. There is a saying that "the heart of hurting people is indispensable, and the heart of preventing people is indispensable." And my parents have taught me this since I was a child. I remember once, when I was a child, I deliberately threw pebbles into a path. Although the path was narrow and remote, my father saw it and quickly stopped me and taught me, "How did this happen?" "What's the matter ..." I felt that my father was angry, but I said with grievance. "You may make the cyclist fall, which is equivalent to setting others up!" Dad said excitedly, I listened silently and gradually realized my mistake. Seeing that I seemed to realize my mistake, my father softened his tone and continued, "Son, you should remember the pain of falling down last year?" Riding a bike hurts more than that! "I subconsciously covered my left hand, and the injury made me unforgettable. At this time, my father became as kind as before and said, "Pick up those pebbles quickly." "good! "
A lesson, let me know that I should do every detail carefully, I am afraid that an inadvertent action will hurt others.
When people, people should be punctual. Although my mother didn't tell me this truth, she always told me this truth with actions. Every time I make an appointment with someone else, my mother always arrives a few minutes early. She said, in this way, we won't let others wait for us. Once, I joked, "I would rather teach me to wait for the world than teach the world to wait for me." However, over time, I also learned from my mother and developed a good habit of punctuality!
Some parents' behaviors always affect their children. Excellent quality is cultivated from it.
This is my family style, from which I have developed many good qualities. This family style is worth spreading!
My family style is also called family style. Family style is actually to form a unified moral standard in the family. Therefore, a good family style can help family members better learn some principles of life!
"Apply what you have learned, make what you have learned stand", and regard diligent study as the normal task of cultivating a good family style. Sages are made by learning, and they are made by learning. A political party will be strong because of learning, and the nation will be rich and strong because of learning. Similarly, the family will continue to progress and develop because of learning. Noble personality and good conduct begin with family, and then are cultivated through long-term study and work practice. Throughout the ages, many people of insight have attached great importance to educating people by learning and governing the family, and linked personal cultivation with cultivating a good style of study. Only by developing the habit of being good at learning, loving learning and being diligent and enterprising from an early age can we constantly cultivate moral sentiments, improve temperament and demeanor, and avoid falling into the dilemma of being ignorant, ignorant and confused. The ancients said, "A scholar must be an official, and an official must be a scholar." Party member cadres should not only set an example of being diligent in learning, but also stimulate their families' interest in learning and cultivate their study habits. Through study, they can build themselves and enhance their intelligence and ability, which can also make good family style study passed down from generation to generation.
"There are two ways to make a fortune for officials", and being willing to be poor is the value pursuit of cultivating a good family style. Whether we can leave our children rich family wealth or precious spiritual wealth is an important sign to test whether party member cadres have a good family style. Luo Yin, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote a famous sentence, "The national economy is gone, and family wealth is not for children". There are also words against government officials: "There are two ways for an official to get rich. Since you hold public office and serve the public, you must give up the idea of making a fortune. " Being an official is not allowed to get rich, which is determined by the nature and purpose of the party, and it is a professional requirement and family education that must be followed. Facts show that the more family wealth, the easier it is to breed laziness and stifle creativity, which is extremely unfavorable to the family and society. A truly excellent parent leaves excellent thoughts and morals to his children, thus winning long-term honor and respect for his family and bringing long-term happiness and peace to his family.
"frugality is the way to cultivate one's morality, and virtue comes from frugality", and taking being willing to be frugal as the code of conduct to cultivate a good family style. Advocating thrift is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. In ancient times, there was a saying that "be diligent in housekeeping and frugal to cultivate one's morality". Thrift is a life attitude and value orientation, and it is a spiritual force that inspires people to forge ahead. Only by receiving education that is hard-working, simple and thrifty from an early age can we truly understand that "a porridge and a meal are hard to come by, and half a silk of persistent thinking is unbearable", and we can prevent our sense of superiority and consciously overcome our arrogance and femininity. Thrift is not only a virtue, but also a magic weapon for personal healthy growth. In reality, some cadres in party member began to pursue luxury life and gradually embarked on the road of violating discipline and law. We should consciously stay away from the temptation of luxury and always keep the idea of hard struggle. We should not only be proud of thrift, but also let children live in poverty and hardship, so that they can truly regard thrift as a kind of consciousness, embedded in the depths of their souls and become a rational choice for survival wisdom.
"Teach your children before class and your wife at the bedside" takes strict discipline as an important link in cultivating a good family style. Family gives people a sense of belonging and becomes the softest part of their hearts. Because of this, the family is easy to become a haven of human weakness, the principle is easy to be flexible in front of the family, and the bottom line is easy to break through in front of the family. Poor management of family members' children often leads to family misfortune. Party member cadres should consciously implement good work style in family life, often publicize policies and regulations to their families, help them draw a clear line between right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, honor and disgrace, go with the flow, abandon evil and be good; We must resolutely reject children's improper demands. At the same time, "words and deeds are more important than words and deeds", which requires children to have a harmonious family and be single-minded emotionally; To ask your family to be honest and upright, you must first stay away from vulgar tastes. Only in this way can the family become a family that pursues progress, a family that can stand the test of wind and waves, and a harmonious and happy family.
I hope that every household can form a good family style, so that family style can help us learn the truth of being a man and form a good atmosphere in society!