Han Han wrote eight characters when the publication of Solo stopped: flowers bloom and fall in winter solstice and flowers bloom and fall in spring.
When winter comes, flowers will naturally wither; When spring comes, flowers will bloom naturally. It is midsummer, flowers are in full bloom, and some people are dying.
Actually, it's nothing. Isn't it a failure in the college entrance examination? The college entrance examination is not the starting point, nor the turning point, nor the end point. It's just a slight bump in a long life. What about success? What about failure?
When God closes a door for you, he will open another window for you. So, there is no sadness and no joy. There will be a way eventually. Don't panic, don't worry. Life won't stop because you are upset. On the contrary, life will not be uneasy because you stop. Therefore, we should face everything with a normal heart.
Everyone has his own ideal and life he pursues. There is no sublimity, and there is no smallness. Pursuing the life you want is the most ideal life. Imagine living a life that envies others but makes you feel very tired every day. Will you be happy?
However, this is the saddest place in the world. To put it bluntly, it is to sacrifice yourself to please others. People often change their words and deeds according to others' wishes and strive to be perfect in others' eyes. But are there really perfect people?
There are such a group of people everywhere in this world. They mingle with the people around them and seem to have perfect interpersonal relationships. Actually, to put it bluntly, it's just that they cater to all the wishes of the public. They have no principles, and they don't seem to need them. Imagine how a person without principles can make real friends.
There are others in this world. They have their own principles and will not change themselves to cater to the public. So, they didn't mingle with the people around them. But they have the most sincere friends and the highest integrity.
Only those who respect themselves can win the respect of others. Always satisfying other people's wishes will only make you more humble. Losing yourself is equivalent to walking dead. Humans are omnivores, and you can only be a good meal in others' mouths.
Walking in troubled times will inevitably go to extremes. So, don't judge others blindly. People's trajectories are destined to be different. Part of the reason why there are policemen in this world is that there are thieves in this world.
You are an out-and-out farmer, and I respect you; You are a professional thief, and I don't despise you. After all, others have not controlled your life, and you still have your pursuit. If you lose your pursuit and you often cater to others, then I despise you.
In the journey of life, few people do not deviate from the original life track. All right, that's it. It means that it is good to be a specific self at a certain time.
Flowers bloom and fall from winter to the sun, and flowers bloom in spring. Without sadness, let alone life and death.