It doesn't matter who you are, but what he wants. How many men belong to your heart, even if you are beautiful, even 10 thousand times better than his lover, but no matter how close you are to others, he will not give up for a second. Tracing back to the source, because you can't find its weakness, nothing can really touch his heart.
In feelings, a man can easily become a big pig's hoof, but when she stands outside of feelings, she tends to be very rational when she looks at feelings and treats women. In other words, if a woman wants to get the happiness of a cold man, she must find a way to understand his shortcomings, which makes it easier. In fact, it is not complicated to solve men, as long as you grasp the three weaknesses of men.
I am very eager to have it, but I can't get face on my own. Any man will love face. It's not that men like to save face on any occasion. When communicating, they just need to be able to sign the contract, so as to avoid beating around the bush. However, in the same real identity, even worse than their own groups, men are very face-saving Face is invisible and intangible, but in men's eyes, it is more important than anything else.
Many women are obviously excellent, but in the face of the man they love, they always punch the man in the face, thinking that he is dead and useless. In fact, there is nothing wrong with saving face, even if you die, it is not the fault of principle. In love, if you severely attack men, men will only feel that they don't know him and naturally won't trust you.
A man's fatal weakness is the face that he longs for but can't get by his own ability. If a woman can grasp its weakness in this matter and let him find his sense of value, then a man will regard you as a beautiful woman on his road to success, and you will get you done at once.
When he was desperate, you helped him regardless of gains and losses. Compared with women, in the process of heterosexual communication, when women are short of money, men lend a helping hand to help him tide over the difficulties. A woman may think that a man is kind to herself and willing to pay, which she deserves. Therefore, she may not be grateful. But men are different. Who can help him when he is at a low ebb will naturally give him enough sense of security.
Many women think that men are not easy to feel insecure. Actually, it's just that men hide themselves too well. When a woman falls down and bleeds, it will make people cry and make people feel heartache. Men often say something with a smile, but does it really hurt? No way, it will be very painful. It's just that men choose to give up themselves to resist everything. Life is too realistic for men.
When a man is desperate, if you pretend not to know, or even deliberately avoid it, and worry about getting into trouble for yourself, then this man will naturally not put you first. But if you can lend a helping hand, regardless of gains and losses, you will trust him, encourage him, accompany him and pinch a man's sense of belonging. Men are not heartless. Once he is out of the bottom, he will definitely evaluate you as the most important person. Don't do too much to understand his heart.
Whether it is the choice of love or marriage, different types of men have different needs for women. Different ages and different types of environments have different requirements. Some women think that when a man wants to find a partner, he just wants to be cheap, in other words, he wants to get married. There is no doubt that there will be such men, but men are different. Everyone has what he wants.
When he just wants to fall in love first, I will marry him as his wife. Even if he really likes you in his heart, he won't accept you easily. Instead, he will feel pressured and would rather see or change people first. Maybe he wants to get married, but I want to take him to accompany you to poetry and distant places. It is not easy for men to have too much interest.
Men's demand for women is the weakness of men's love. He wants love, you accompany him. If he wants to get married, you should accompany him in oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. Men are actually very lazy emotionally. When she meets a woman who meets her needs, she will be solved by you, even without your initiative.