How does Li Bai describe lovesickness?

"Autumn Wind Ci" Li Bai's autumn wind is clear, autumn moon is bright,

When the fallen leaves are scattered, the habitat in western Western jackdaw is full of surprises. The leaves in the wind gather when they gather. Western jackdaw has settled and the moon rises. Friends are looking forward to meeting, but I don't know where. At this time, on such a night, it is difficult to miss each other.

When you enter my lovesick door, you will know that I am lovesick for a long time and lovesick for a short time.

If I had known that acacia was tied in my heart like this, it would not be like you didn't know.

What kind of feeling is lovesickness for a person? This kind of feeling is hard to describe, but Li Bai described it thoroughly in a simple sentence, "You will know that I miss you when you enter my lovesick door", which is a feeling of "pain". It is sweet to miss someone, but it will be very sad if you can't see or pursue them.

When Li Bai tells this feeling, people will have a feeling of empathy. Because we all miss someone very much, Li Bai said, "If I had known this feeling would be so frustrating, I would have known it earlier." What do you think of this? Although I don't want to know each other, I can't bear to let go. This kind of duplicity makes people laugh and cry.

In fact, it is a kind of happiness to have someone to miss. For the definition of love, being loved is not happiness, but loving others is happiness. For two people, happiness is not a material need, happiness is not a physiological need, and the moment of happiness is just thinking of you, and it is already very happy.

"I like you" is a simple sentence, but it can't be easily said. In ancient times, everyone was very reserved, and it was difficult for men to express their love, whether they were women or not. If there are people who love each other and just miss each other, then this is happiness, but if it is unrequited love, then there is no way to let go of this sadness.

There are many poems about missing. For example, "I don't know who will fall in Qiu Si tonight." The person who wrote this poem is enjoying the moon alone. He subconsciously thinks that people he cares about can see the moon? Missing is a kind of silent love, missed by the person you like. This feeling is very beautiful.

Speaking of missing, I think of "long-distance love", which has always been presented for lovers separated from each other. The saddest thing about long-distance love is that there are obviously two people, but no matter what they do, they are all one person. You eat alone, go to work alone and get wet alone. Even if you are sick, you are still alone. When you need each other most, they can't be with you.

Thinking of this scene gives birth to a kind of sadness, just like the scene described in this sentence.

"It's raining in your city. I dare not ask you if you have an umbrella. I am afraid that you will say no, but there is nothing I can do, just like I love you but I can't give you the company you want. "

This is the most helpless situation between long-distance relationships. Clearly love each other, but there is no way to accompany them and give them the love they want. This is the bitterness of acacia and the tears of two people.

But on the other hand, if two people can survive a long-distance relationship, there is nothing between them. What a long-distance relationship fears most is that the other person doesn't love himself, fearing that he has experienced all kinds of disappointments. The other person is lovelorn and likes someone else.

However, in a long-distance relationship, we should give each other enough sense of security, contact and visit more, arrange things in life if we have the opportunity, and then give each other a home as soon as possible. This is the happiness that girls want, ending their long-distance relationship and being with the people they love. Love is the most beautiful, not that there is not enough water, but that two people can build a happy home, and they will not compromise everywhere, but that everyone has something they like. One person can be beautiful and two people can be happy.