Xiaogang Feng divided the women in the play into five categories. Every kind has life, and every kind can find its counterpart in reality. So what kind do you belong to?
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"Lazy" Dai Xiaoyu
Dai Xiaoyu is a research institute and a foreign school in high flyers. For many people, she is definitely a capable person, and there is no problem in her work and life.
But she chose to be a mistress.
After graduation, I not only broke off relations with my parents, but also wholeheartedly followed Peng Pai and wandered abroad for five years.
The best five years in her life are also the five years that she should strive for. She chose to stay at home and become a "maintained" Mi Chong.
Five years later, I found that the man who loved her lied to her, not only to her youth, but also to her body and mind.
Peng Pai didn't love her at all, and kept her at home like a canary, one for money and the other for people.
Peng Pai trapped Dai Xiaoyu with money, and Dai Xiaoyu willingly became a native of Peng Pai.
Knowing the truth, Dai Xiaoyu left Peng Pai and returned to China to start a new life. Who knows Peng Pai divorced his ex-wife again and gave all his money and real estate to her. He returned to China alone, found Dai Xiaoyu, rented a house, and waited to get back together with her.
Dai Xiaoyu was persuaded by Peng Pai in a few words, looked at the divorce certificate, looked at the house and talked about his vision for the future. Dai Xiaoyu believed it and decided to live with Peng Pai.
Who knows if the blow will come again? Peng Pai's daughter wants to study abroad. He supports her, but she has no money. He gave all his money to his ex-wife Dai Xiaoyu is pregnant at this time and wants to tell Peng Pai this surprise.
Peng Pai was frightened when he heard the news and asked Dai Xiaoyu to abort the child.
Dai Xiaoyu felt that life was about to collapse, and what made her collapse was that another car accident made her lose her uterus and her qualification as a mother.
Dai Xiaoyu's life can be met but not sought. If she had chosen to live by herself from the beginning instead of being lived by a man, she would not have lost herself.
One can't depend on anyone. She wants to be beautiful, talented and capable, but she wastes her good resources in vain and chooses to be a canary for others to raise.
Such people, when they are old, what can be left?
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"Strong Woman" is especially good.
When you Shanshan was in college, she fell in love with a young artist. She was pregnant in her sophomore year and dropped out of school in her junior year to get married and have children.
Life is not the kind of poem and distance she imagined, but a chicken feather.
Husband idles around, doesn't work at all, and everything depends on his mother for food and shelter. Even if he bought diapers, he still depended on his mother.
You Shanshan is not from Beijing and has always been looked down upon by her mother-in-law. The two of them are like a needle in the head, hitting people everywhere like hedgehogs every day, and finally they are all hurt.
You Shan gave up and decided to leave this man and start from scratch.
She left her husband and worked hard in Beijing alone. With her strong mentality of not being afraid of hardship, fatigue, perseverance and obedience, she finally gained a firm foothold in Beijing, became a leader in the industry and realized real wealth freedom.
At this time, the mother-in-law began to try her best to say that her son was good and wanted You Shan and her son to get back together.
Marriage emphasizes the right family.
When you Shanshan was in a weak position, she was looked down upon by her mother-in-law. Now that she is strong, her mother-in-law thinks this person is right. It's her too. Why is it different?
However, it is precisely because You Shan was not qualified before that she has now reached or even surpassed her mother-in-law's cognitive ability.
The man is still that man, but not that man.
People, don't think that others look down on you, just don't respect you. You should learn to know yourself, strengthen yourself, and then speak with strength and fight back silently.
When you are weak, it is normal to be looked down upon by others. You should learn to get used to it.
When you are strong, it is normal to be buttered up by others. Learn to understand.
This is human nature.
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"Housewife" Meng Si
Since marrying Du Shijun, Meng Si has become a housewife with two children at home.
Her husband, Du Shijun, started a company in partnership with others. He often drank until late at night and occasionally didn't come back for a week.
Meng Si takes care of her children and helps her with her homework. She felt very tired and her husband couldn't help, so she proposed to hire a nanny, which could reduce her workload. But her husband didn't agree at all.
Families like them can afford a nanny, and cooking and housework can reduce the burden. I don't know why Du Shijun didn't agree.
After all, in Du Shijun's mind, his wife is too idle to do housework with her children. How tired are you?
Du Shijun never realized his wife's hard work. He only knows that he has paid a lot for this family, and it is a kind of torture to go home and listen to his wife's complaints.
Later, she was framed by a woman and almost got married.
When Meng Si left home and his children, he realized that it was not easy for his wife to take care of them at home alone.
He has two children with him. He can't cook, he can't do housework, and the children eat casually and go to the hospital. Only then did he realize that it was so difficult to take care of children.
So he decided to turn the company into an audit company, instead of going around to accompany the wine, he spent more time at home with his children and let Meng Si go out to work to realize his value.
Meng Si is very happy. She has a husband who understands her and is willing to make concessions for her career, for her and her children.
But it took her days and nights and years to get it. It was a painful experience for her.
So life is really hard, don't just look at the surface.
There are many housewives in the world who have never been forgiven by their husbands. They have been neglecting themselves for their children and families all their lives, and they are considered to have accomplished nothing until they are old.
When we can't get forgiveness from others, learn to put him in this position and then run away from home for a few days, maybe he will understand.
Women shouldn't bear it alone. Home belongs to everyone, not one person.
The baby belongs to two people, not one woman. They need to share the responsibility with each other, so that dad can realize his responsibility and take on his own responsibility, instead of becoming a "cloud dad" forever.
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"Love without brains" Feng
Feng and Li want to be fellow villagers. In high school, Li Xiang fell in love with Feng, then launched a strong attack, and finally won Feng successfully.
From then on, in 10, Feng accompanied Li Xiang, graduated from university, graduated from graduate school, and was admitted to a doctor's degree.
Li Xiang is a gifted scholar, who has hardly stopped along the way.
He running all the way, leaving Feng standing still, waiting for her to come back every weekend and enjoy the time alone.
Year after year, Feng urged her to get married year after year. Li Xiang used marriage after graduation as an excuse to stop Feng and let Feng see hope and despair.
As a good friend of Feng, Youshan always told Feng that Li Xiang was unreliable and needed to make preparations early, but she never listened.
It was not until Li Xiang was admitted to the doctor's degree and went abroad and kicked her that she suddenly regretted that her life was 10 years, so she wasted it.
She got nothing.
The friends around her have children, families and careers, and she has nothing but scars.
Fortunately, she had a friend, Youshan, who helped her out of trouble.
She not only found the pursuit of life, but also found the love of life, which helped her get out of the predicament of being hurt by Li Xiang and bravely survived.
Although Feng has no brains in love, she is also a brave person. Although deeply hurt by Li Xiang, she still believes that there is true love and truth in the world. This is the basis for her to get out of love quickly and live bravely.
People are not afraid to make mistakes, but they are afraid to make mistakes again.
Feng realized his own shortcomings and quickly walked out of the haze brought by Li Xiang to start his own life again, which is worth learning.
A life with difficulties and setbacks is a complete life.
A smooth life makes people feel dull.
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"Ordinary people" Bao Xue
Ordinary family, ordinary people, ordinary looks, ordinary dreams, Bao Xue is a normal ordinary person.
Baoxue was separated from her parents since she was a child, and lived with her grandmother. After graduation, she still lived with her grandmother.
Her dream is simple: to be a star.
She takes her star career very seriously, even if she is a walk-on, she is also very serious, showing people the hard life of ordinary people.
She is not as beautiful as her sister Dai Xiaoyu, and she is not as dependent on others as her sister Dai Xiaoyu. She has always been tenacious, determined to live, and stuck to her dream step by step, never thinking of giving up.
She has an adventurous boyfriend. Although she doesn't like it, she respects his decision.
She's like you and me in real life. She has no great skills and no big background, but she is stepping into the future of life step by step by her own efforts.
Perhaps occasionally a little careful, occasionally a little naughty, but these are the adjustments of life, which contribute to the boring life.
What kind of person do you belong to?