when the bright red scarf on my chest turned into a dark green league membership card on my hand, I knew that I had grown up. There will always be so many disappointments and disappointments in the process of growing up. But I still smile, because I know that the process is the most beautiful.
I once read such a cartoon that an apple on an apple tree was ripe, and I wanted to pick it, so I hooked it with a hook, but I couldn't hook it. Then I climbed up with a ladder to pick it, but when I climbed up, the apple fell to the ground and was rotten. In the eyes of many people, this may be extremely sad. Actually, it's not. When I was trying to get the apple, I had gained a more important process than the apple. This beauty is unparalleled.
life is a process of experience. In the process of passing life, every segment is connected, and every process is meaningful. Life cycle, each stage has different scenery, unfortunately, we are all busy people who have no time to stop and enjoy it. Let flowers wither and leaves fall, spring flowers and autumn moon fall, and everyone bows their heads and pushes towards the same end, missing the beautiful scenery and time in the process. The scenery is just on the way, not the beginning, not the end. The beginning and the end are exactly the same, but the difference is the process. Modern people have no patience with the process of falling in love, they live in a hurry and rough, and they feel that life is meaningless. In fact, the meaning of life, what you value is not the meaning itself but the process, and the meaning lies in the process. Meaning lies in the process, and those who leave the process and only look for meaning in the ending find nothing. Because life has no ending, and every ending is just the beginning of a new process.
In real life, most people only value the "ending" of events, while only a few people value the "process" of events. As a result, the process and the outcome are right and wrong, and some people argue about it. I don't want to comment. There is a joke "Half a Bread is Full of Metaphors" in the Classic of Hundred Metaphors, which may tell a little truth. As the saying goes, "For example, some people buy pancakes because they are hungry. Eat six tablets at a time, but you are still not full. Then take the seventh half-food, and if you only eat half, you will be full. The man was angry and slapped himself with his hand, but he said,' I was full today because I ate the seventh and a half cakes, and I realized that one to six cakes were not good; I regret not eating my bread first. " Therefore, people are advised:' Eat the seventh cake.' People know their stupidity, and they all laugh. "This story tells us that the world ignores the fundamental efforts such as abstinence, ignores a process, and only seeks knowledge and solutions, hoping for shortcuts. I don't engage in real knowledge and lay a solid foundation, but I just try to find the seventh cake to satisfy myself. As everyone knows, "how can plum blossom smell fragrant without some cold and frost?" As Laozi said: "A nine-story platform starts from tired soil; A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. " Confucius also said: "If you travel far, you will be close, and if you climb high, you will feel inferior." This principle of ascending step by step can be used as a footnote for the "process" of the second level of practice, and it also shows that the process is beautiful and can not be ignored. The ancients took a big break and rested their fields, all of which were obtained by full participation and study, not by chance! Hungry men only know one thing and don't know the other. They only want to be full (the end) and ignore the process (the first six cakes). This is a foolish behavior and makes a clever mistake of "pulling out seedlings to help others".
In today's life, things that we laugh at often laugh at us in turn. Sometimes when we laugh, we can't laugh because we realize something. Mo Xiaomi, a woman writer who is famous for her short articles, has an article about a fool washing coal, which is very Zen. Coincidentally, Zen master Deyun and the idiot saint carried the snow and buried the well. Of course, we all know that coal can't be washed white and snow can't bury wells, but they did do it without considering the result. Yes, the beauty of many stories lies in the process, so why look for the ending? People sometimes just work hard and no longer care about the harvest of the golden season. Just pursue, no longer to design any earth-shattering blueprint. In fact, I don't cling to harvest, I believe that the process of cultivation is great, and the process of sweating is great, and I have gained loyalty in pursuit and wisdom in failure; I believe that the most beautiful music is the March of my life. After all, the applause after the March is not music. It should be said that people in the process of love are wise and foolish.
Flowers bloom and fade, so is life.
The creative process of genius is a process of repression and anti-repression, resistance and obedience, degeneration and sublimation.
the process of literary taste is the process of regenerating life wisdom, which is thrilling and not too much.
every process of our life is different, reaching into the water is no longer the front water. If you can't find the source, each process is only a fragment, and you can't verify the whole running water.
the process can add a sense of beauty to the ordinary things; The process can make us have a good mood, such as tasting congou and chewing olives. Once you get what you once longed for or dreamed of, the unique good mood in the past will become a sweet and painful burden, a pain of owning, and also a pain when "a process" is lost.
when you are at your wit's end, you'd better watch masons beating stones. Maybe he has hit dozens of times and still no cracks are found, but at the hundredth blow, the stones split. We know that it was not the last stroke that succeeded, but the foundation laid by the previous ninety-nine strokes.
The joy of life lies in the process of struggle. The true meaning of life lies in savoring the years and enjoying life. Those who only value the results without looking at the process, and those who only overdraw their lives and don't cherish life, can't enjoy the real joy of life and create a brilliant life. Let's cherish the process. The process is beautiful!