Like snow on the mountain, as bright as the moon in the clouds,
I heard that you have two hearts, so I came to break up with you.
Today's Doufang, the person in charge of Mingdangou,
After a long time, ditch water flows east and west.
Sad and heavy, there is no need to cry when you get married.
I hope to be United as one, and never leave each other.
Why bamboo sticks curl, why fish migrate,
Men value loyalty, why use money knives?
According to legend, this poem was written by Zhuo Wenjun, a talented woman in the Han Dynasty. It's about Zhuo Wenjun's rejection of ungrateful husband, blaming heartless husband for loving money, friendship and affection-a man should attach importance to friendship, and what's the use of asking for money all day? ! It is such a poem that saved a dying love.
Zhuo Wenjun was born in a wealthy family in Lin Qiong, Sichuan. She wears gold and silver on weekdays, which is particularly beautiful and more literary. She is familiar with piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. She was married by her parents at the age of 17, and returned to her family as a widow after her husband died of illness six months later.
At that time, the talented Sima Xiangru resigned due to illness and lived in a friend's house. He is close to Zhuo's home and has fallen in love with Wen Jun.
One day, Xiang Tathagata went to Zhuo's house for dinner. Wen Jun admired his literary talent for a long time, so he peeked behind the screen. Seeing the swaying figure behind the screen and knowing that it would be Wen Jun peeking, I couldn't help exulting in my heart, but pretended not to know on the surface. When invited to play the piano, she took the opportunity to play a song "Phoenix Begging for Phoenix". Zhuo Wenjun listened, and her heart was moved by this wonderful music. Sensitive, she captured the love and worship that accompanied the sound of music. Needless to say, music conveys feelings. Sima Xiangru also loved Zhuo Wenjun, so he spent the night in Zhuojiayuan after being drunk, and they met each other, so they privately booked for life.
Sima Xiangru invited someone to Zhuo's home to propose marriage, but Zhuo's father refused because he was too poor. No way, the two had to elope and go back to their hometown of Chengdu together, and their lives were embarrassing. Rujun pawned his headdress and opened a restaurant. Zhuo Rujun sells wine himself and lives a poor but loving life.
Later, with his outstanding talents, Sima Xiangru was highly valued by Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and was worshipped as a corps commander. Since then, their days have been like sesame blossoms.
As the saying goes, "warm and lustful", and Sima Xiangru has been suffering from diabetes for a long time, and diabetes is also diabetes, so we must avoid eating and recuperate. However, after Sima Xiangru was full, he not only didn't know Jane's photo, but ate a bowl and looked at the pot. Often in the powder pile. At that time, he had passed the know life period, and Zhuo Wenjun turned a blind eye and ignored him. It wasn't until Sima Xiangru asked the Maoling woman to be his concubine that Zhuo Wenjun couldn't bear it anymore and wrote the above song "Bald Ballad".
There is also a poem: "Chunhua Fang Jing, five-color Su Ling, the sound of the piano is still imperial, and the new sound replaces the old! Jinshui has a honeymoon, and Han Palace has water. That thing is new, and the embarrassing people in the world are ignorant! "
Then I wrote two more lines: "Zhu Xian was broken, the mirror disappeared, the morning dew fell, the fragrance rested, and the bald head sang, leaving sorrow." Try to eat more, don't miss my concubine, and make soup with you! "
Zhuo Wenjun's sorrowful Poem of Bald Head and the sorrowful Farewell Book made Sima Xiangru feel unbearable. Considering all the benefits of tenderness in those days, it was really inconvenient for him to go his own way, resulting in no flowers under the moon and the fragrance disappearing.
Sima Xiangru finally didn't marry a concubine. They got back together and settled in Lin Quan. They spent ten years loving each other until Sima Xiangru died. Zhuo Wenjun also tasted the loneliness of the widow. In retrospect, I suddenly had a dream. In the second year of late autumn, the first frost withered grass, wild geese were singing in the sky, and Zhuo Wenjun was alone, and he also went with Sima Xiangru.
Sima Xiangru's literary talent, Zhuo Wenjun's beauty, and the old hatred when selling wine are handed down from generation to generation as romantic stories; Zhuo Wenjun dared to love and disobey his father's orders to win happiness for himself. Zhuo Wenjun knows love. She doesn't cry or make trouble. She persuaded her husband with wisdom and poetry to protect love. This is not only difficult in ancient times, but also admirable in modern times.
Why Zhuo Wenjun fell in love with Sima Xiangru? Zhuo Wenjun was fascinated by his talent and bearing. Zhuo Wenjun resolutely followed Sima Xiangru regardless of his family's opposition. Her courage stems from her desire for love. Her love is persistent. At that time, Sima Xiangru was at the bottom of his life, his career was frustrated and his family was under siege. Zhuo Wenjun lived a life of food and clothing since childhood. In the face of the difficult situation after elopement, she did not shrink back, but waited for this love strongly. Her love is not blind, but for her own love ideal. After the failure of her first marriage, she experienced and understood her own needs in deep pain and despair, and she had to fight for her own destiny on her own. Therefore, when the opportunity came, she did not hesitate and bravely grasped the happiness she wanted.
In feudal society, men could take concubines. Zhuo Wenjun, on the other hand, can't tolerate her husband's betrayal and doesn't share love with others. From the beginning, she compared love to white snow and bright moon, without a grain of sand. How self-respecting and noble it is to break up with her husband just because she knows that he has two hearts! The Farewell Book expresses her complex feelings of resentment and admiration for her husband, which is full of love and poetry, sincere and moving.
When I thought of my own song "Phoenix Nirvana", I really won Wen Jun's heart. It seems that just yesterday, the sound of the piano was still ringing in my ears. These sincere poems finally touched Sima Xiangru's heart and aroused his memories of the past. My heart was broken at the first sight, and I was compatible with * * * when I was in danger. He couldn't help feeling sad, guilty and uneasy from the bottom of his heart, and finally woke up. This is the victory of Zhuo Wenjun's clever mind and the embodiment of his peerless talent!
Zhuo Wenjun was the first woman in China who bravely broke through the feudal ethical barriers. She dared to resist her father's orders, pursued love, insisted on singleness in love, and opposed polygamy, which was extremely rare in the feudal society of more than 2,000 years. She is a glorious image of ancient women in China.