Recently, I read Lin's poetry collection "You are April Day on Earth". At the beginning of the article, Lin Hui wrote "Mourning Xu Zhimo" for Xu Zhimo, which reminded me of the complicated emotional entanglements between these two people. Here's the thing.
Xu Zhimo has been following Lin's figure, and even the last death is to pursue the love in his heart. I thought this was probably what love looked like when I was young and ignorant, but the result was disappointing. Xu Zhimo is a big love rat, who typically eats from the pot and misses from the basin.
What kind of person is Xu Zhimo?
In fact, everyone knows a little about Xu Zhimo. Even though he has never heard of this man, he knows his poem Farewell to Cambridge. "You left quietly, just as I came gently. I waved my sleeve without taking away a cloud." This poem is very attractive to read. Although Xu Zhimo is a playboy, he is really excellent.
Xu Zhimo was originally named Zhang Yi, and later changed his name to Zhimo when studying abroad. He studied in Beiyang University, Peking University and then went abroad to study. Received a bachelor's degree from Clark University in the United States, and then went to Columbia University Graduate School to study. 192 1 year, Xu zhimo moved to Cambridge university in England to continue his studies. During his stay at Cambridge University, he was influenced by romanticism, and his poetic style was also biased towards romanticism. In fact, Xu Zhimo is also a schoolmaster. No wonder he can write such beautiful poems. In his short life, he had many titles, such as essayist, representative of crescent poetry school, etc., but his most popular title was "poet".
However, "No one is perfect, and gold is not enough." Xu Zhimo is most criticized for his Playboy. You should know that Yun Zhonghe, one of the "four villains" written by Mr. Jin Yong, is very lewd, and it happens that one of Xu Zhimo's pen names is also called "Yun Zhonghe", which is actually Mr. Jin Yong's shortcoming in mapping Xu Zhimo's lewdness.
You may think it is possible that Mr. Jin Yong doesn't know, not to insinuate Xu Zhimo, but in fact these two people are related. Xu Zhimo is Mr. Jin Yong's cousin. Mr. Yong is very shameless about Xu Zhimo's behavior of abandoning his wife and children and hooking up with a married woman. Even the elegiac couplet given to Xu Zhimo, "Si Tuleideng's ci is hard to burn, and the servant shoots the lingering feelings", contains irony.
So how hard does Xu Zhimo really work to make Mr. Jin Yong so bored?
How much is Xu Zhimo?
Xu Zhimo is a romantic. He has been pursuing his illusory love all his life, and at the same time, he has broken many people's hearts, the first of which is his original wife Zhang Youyi.
Zhang Youyi was born well and clever. His brother Zhang Junmai is a man of the hour in politics. Zhang Junmai thought that Xu Zhimo was outstanding in literary talent and kissed Xu Zhimo for his sister Zhang Youyi. Xu Zhimo agreed, but Xu Zhimo didn't love her.
It is said that when Xu Zhimo saw the photos of Zhang Youyi, he was disgusted. He thinks that Zhang Youyi is a country bumpkin, so their married life is not happy. In addition to fulfilling the requirements of parents to have grandchildren, Xu Zhimo didn't even want to look at Zhang Youyi. Soon after, Zhang Youyi became pregnant, but at this time, Xu Zhimo wanted to abandon his wife and children and divorce Zhang Youyi. Zhang Youyi didn't want a divorce, and Xu Zhimo walked away, dead or alive.
Later, married Xu Zhimo fell in love with talented woman Lin, and was even more anxious to end his marriage with Zhang Youyi, regardless of their children. He also wrote some high-sounding works to show that he and Zhang Youyi have no feelings, and it is very painful to be together. I have to say that this man is really scum. After being with others for several years, two children are born, and you feel pain again.
At this time, Xu Zhimo devoted himself to Lin, wrote many poems to express his love for Lin, and organized the activities of the Crescent Society with her. However, Lin left without saying goodbye and returned to China, which made Xu Zhimo very hurt. After Xu Zhimo returned to China, Lin had already got married, but Xu Zhimo's love story did not end, and he had a new love.
People say that "a friend's wife should not be bullied", but Xu Zhimo doesn't seem to have this consciousness. After returning home, he developed feelings for Lu Xiaoman, the wife of his friend Wang Geng. Lu Xiaoman didn't like Wang Geng's indissoluble amorous feelings, but he was convinced when he met handsome and romantic Xu Zhimo. Two people moved to Wang Geng with a big green hat. Later, Wang Geng and Lu Xiaoman divorced, and Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman were aboveboard. Soon after, Xu Zhimo brought Liu Xiaoman home, and they got engaged soon. However, Xu Zhimo, who had a new love, was still infatuated with his dream lover Lin, and even died because of her.
Xu Zhimo's love history is so rich. Does he have children?
As I said above, Xu Zhimo's original wife, Zhang Youyi, was pregnant, but Xu Zhimo filed for divorce at this time. Zhang Youyi did leave Xu Zhimo children, and more than one. When Xu Zhimo filed for divorce, Zhang Youyi was pregnant with their second child.
Xu Zhimo is determined to divorce, and even wants Zhang Youyi to have an abortion. Zhang Youyi is afraid that abortion will kill people. Xu Zhimo said: "Some people will die because of train accidents, but do you see anyone who doesn't take the train?" Zhang Youyi asked again, "Then where shall I go to play? Xu Zhimo said, "You will find a place. "I have to say that it is irresponsible for a man to say such indifferent words in the face of his pregnant wife.
After that, Xu Zhimo left Zhang Youyi alone. Zhang Youyi didn't want to give up this little life, but he was born by himself, but the child died at the age of three. But Xu Zhimo always wanted Lin, and his other wife, Lu Xiaoman, left him no children.
Xu Zhimo's only son is Zhang Youyi's eldest son Xu Jikai. He lived with his mother since childhood, and his impression of his father came from descriptions of various characters and records in books. Although Zhang Youyi bears a grudge against Xu Zhimo, he never said a word in front of Xu Jikai.
When Xu Jikai was thirteen, Xu Zhimo died in an air crash. Since then, Xu Jikai has no clear impression of his father, but he reciprocated with sympathy and understanding and tolerance for his father's experience. I have to say that Zhang Youyi's education for him is very successful.
The woman that Xu Zhimo never loved in my life is Zhang Youyi, but it happened that it was this woman who gave birth to a child for him, raised the child with one hand and respected her in-laws. Even after Xu Zhimo died, he compiled and published a collection of works for him. Xu Zhimo has loved all his life, but he has never given this poor woman any love.