Although he is my own and I brought him up, since he entered primary school, I began to resist staying with him, because there are always endless homework with him, so I easily got rid of addition, subtraction, multiplication and division and hated falling into that whirlpool again.
So, I don't care about his studies, and I don't want to be seen through, so I can only subconsciously stay away from him.
this time, because of the epidemic, I had to stick with him for 24 hours and for two months.
It also made me know my son again, a grown-up boy.
in my impression, he is stubborn, kind and timid.
None of these things have changed, but what I don't know is that he is gradually becoming a serious, hardworking and punctual child after time.
After the Spring Festival, the originally rambling winter vacation was agitated by public opinion.
Because the southern cities start school early, the slogan of stopping classes and not stopping studying is resounding all over the country. As a city in the northeast, although the school still has a month to start, it is also full of anxiety about making up lessons online.
New Oriental was the first to offer free online classes. I asked Niu Feifei, a classmate, and he was willing to take classes. In this way, he also joined the online class army.
There is nothing wrong with this. The problem is that the online class starts at 8: in the morning, and I am used to writing at night, and 8: is the time when I fall asleep.
Niu Feifei said to me thoughtfully, "I'll sleep on the balcony at night, and I'll come in and do my homework when you wake up in the morning.".
After sleeping for a few days, I suddenly felt uneasy about his independent study, so at ten o'clock, I suddenly got up and checked his study. I was really in class, and the rest interval of each class was set with an alarm clock, so I didn't miss a class.
I'm a little surprised. I thought he would cheat without supervision, but he didn't.
not only did he not, but he also gave himself extra classes, because he liked to listen to history classes, and he had to take another history class after he finished speaking.
After lunch, I will take a nap as usual (although I slept a little more). He will ask me if I can have a rest. I arranged a rest time for him, and then told him, "No games, you can watch TV or read novels".
on the way, I went to see it secretly. He was watching "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty", laughing while watching it. I looked at the color of the book and saw the second one.
it seems that he is indeed reading a book.
He likes to cook with me. He likes to take part in everything I do, such as planting garlic seedlings, mixing noodles, making buns, etc. Although the cooking is worse than mine, it doesn't affect our eating mood.
that day, I made the Guo kui of dried plum vegetables, so I lay down on the sofa and played with my mobile phone. After a while, I suddenly heard the sound of the bowl falling to the ground and breaking.
Looking up, Niu is standing in the aisle of the kitchen and living room, holding chopsticks in one hand and holding them in the air in the other. He looks anxiously at the bowl and then at me.
I asked him, "Is the cake baked?" He nodded, and I asked, "Is it for mom?" He nodded again. At that moment, I was not angry at all because I broke the bowl. I felt moved. After the cake came out of the pot, he thought of giving it to his mother for the first time.
I told him to stand back a little, so as not to prick his feet. I got up and got a box and a rag to pick up the glass slag.
He squatted down in front of me and helped me pick it up without saying anything.
I know he blames himself, because it is a beautiful new bowl and I love it very much. He took the bowl specially to help me pack the cakes.
when squatting together to pick up the glass, the little boy seems to have become a big man.
He discussed the printing homework with his father, who was too troublesome and asked him to read it with an iPad. He said it was too small to see clearly, and the two men argued. When I heard the sound of hands-on, I rushed into the room, and the cow's face was swollen, and I was probably slapped twice.
I hate to say anything, so I stand among them, silent. Dad Niu went out, so I patted him on the shoulder and sat down to write calligraphy with him.
The cow is swollen and doesn't say a word. It's as stubborn as a cow.
after writing for a long time, I asked him, is it because of printing? He nodded, and I said, "Why don't you talk to him?" He said "useless". I touched his face and asked, "Does it hurt?"? His eyes were red at once, and he didn't cry when he was beaten. His mother asked and cried.
I said "I don't like Shenyang" and he said "I don't like Shenyang either".
I said, "Then study hard and get into Nanjing or Shanghai schools in the future.". He said "good".
After writing a few words, he added, "Mom, I'll go back to Xuzhou with you".
3.2 The school started online in Shenyang, and he made a timetable the night before. I thought he was on a whim. Unexpectedly, he really got up at eight o'clock every day for several days and attended every class, including the funny physical education class.
I don't remember his homework at all, and I didn't ask him. He occasionally reports to me that his homework has been finished, and I just casually say "It was written really fast".
Recently, I accompanied him to write calligraphy every day, which made him make great progress. The dog crawling body, which had been written for six years, was almost dissuaded by the calligraphy teacher, and he also wrote carefully every day these two days.
But it's also very annoying, because every time he thinks a word is beautifully written, he will ask me for comments.
Occasionally, when I am having fun, I will shout impatiently, "Oh, no, no, please write it yourself".
In order to reduce his pestering me, I suggested that he watch more TV, but every time he watches cats and mice, I think it's a waste of time, so I thought of a way to kill two birds with one stone-to find him a travel documentary filmed by an Englishman.
this method is good, beautiful and practicing English.
Later, he asked me if I could watch a movie, and I agreed on one condition: no listening to Chinese.
I didn't expect this harsh condition to inspire another potential for him to teach himself English.
He likes Harry Potter so much that he has bought books in Chinese before. I don't know how many times he has read them, and he has worn them out.
Later, after he was approved to watch movies, he was addicted to the magical world.
Until one day, he asked me, "Mom, can you buy me other Harry Potter books?" Because I only bought him one, and the other books were borrowed from each other by classmates. Now he can't borrow them in isolation, and he feels that there are many shortcomings in the film performance.
I readily and generously agreed, not only agreed, but also actively increased the budget, because I want to buy him the original English.
I thought he would resist, but I didn't expect him to readily agree.
Now it seems that he really likes Harry Potter.
I am very bored. I read all kinds of interesting and boring books every day. There are many interesting theories in the books. If I find it interesting, I will experiment with cows.
For example, I saw a "marshmallow experiment", which said that if children are willing to wait five minutes before eating marshmallows in their hands, they can get an extra one to train their emotional intelligence.
So, no matter what Niu Ge wants to do, I will add additional conditions to delay meeting him. But there is no sense of accomplishment, because he is always happy to accept it.
during the period when I was blocked by the epidemic, I couldn't go back to Xuzhou, which completely disrupted my plan. But in the days when I got along with Brother Niu day and night, I gained a brand-new son.
I have to admit that when a person begins to show his advantages, his advantages become more and more.
Niu Feifei is showing his advantages like me. I'm getting to know him again.