Because children don't like to eat breakfast, but they like to watch "Chinese Poetry Conference", mother came up with a good idea to move her favorite poems to the dining table and get up at 4: 30 every day to prepare poetry breakfast for her children. In this way, they persisted for four years, and their children won many awards in writing.
Netizens have said that "this mother is so loving and this family is so happy." "Children who can grow up in such a family environment will certainly not be bad in all aspects."
Mother insisted on cooking poetry breakfast for her children for four years. How important is a good family environment?
Parents want their children to be excellent, love them as much as possible and help them create a good family environment. Some parents even give up on themselves.
There was a mother who came to consult before. In order to take care of her children, she quit her job and cooked good food for her children every day. Her child never washed a pair of socks in junior high school. She often says to her children, "You must study hard. Mom has done so much for you. Your academic performance is not good, how can you deserve me? "
At first, my son was quite moved by this, but he became numb after a long time. Once, my son didn't do well in the exam carelessly, and my mother slapped her son in public: "Did you do well in this exam?" I won't even let you wash a pair of socks. Is this how you repay me? "
These words, instead of touching my son, made him roar with emotion: "I never said I didn't want to wash socks, and I never asked you to pay for me." Everything is your wishful thinking. Why should I give you good grades! "
This love of giving up on yourself, right? I think many mothers think so. They give up their careers for their children, lower their self-worth, and want to find a balance of love from their children, but children often can't give it.
What kind of good family environment do children need?
A good family environment is that parents are in love.
Dad's best love for children is to love mom, and mom's best love for children is to love dad. Mom and dad love each other, and only by accompanying and supporting each other can they accompany and support their children. If there is a lack of love between parents, they will ask their children to accompany and support themselves and take it away from them.
Companionship and support are two-way, mutual, neither asking for love with companionship nor exchanging support through support.
A good family environment is good communication between parents and children.
Communication is a bridge to solve all problems, and a large part of the problems between children and parents are caused by insufficient communication or improper communication, especially when children enter junior high school and high school, parent-child communication is even more difficult. During this period, adolescence meets menopause, and both children and parents face strong external pressure. Good communication is needed at this time.
Parents should first learn to listen and let their children regard their parents as the first person to talk to. Parents should also think about their children's problems from their children's perspective, understand their personal feelings and make appropriate suggestions.
A good family environment is taught by parents.
The best education is the example of parents. Parents' words and deeds have always been silent teachers, consciously or unconsciously playing a subtle role. Parents' words and deeds, good or bad, will affect their children's life. Most factors such as a person's will, mind and morality have a subtle influence on children through the education of parents.