Remember Zhu Ziqing? His handwriting is Pei County, while his brother's handwriting is Pei Wei. Why? Because Zhu's father saw Zhu Ziqing's soft personality, he used Pei County to alert him to his sexual dullness, while Zhu Ziqing's brother was more anxious, so he used it to alert him to his impatience.
A person's personality, whether good or bad, has its own advantages and disadvantages, but some advantages are greater and some disadvantages are greater. Therefore, we should not stick to, appreciate or indulge one aspect of our personality, but should correct and balance our personality by reading poems.
If you are already in Cai Wenji and Li Jilan, and you want to recite Li Qingzhao more, what will be the result? So we should read some books about Li Bai, Su Shi and Lu You.