Time is like a knife. I hope we can all live the life we want and have a bright future through hard work.
I met Fourth Sister Xiao through an article written by my literary friend Pan Pan. When I saw the article, I felt very moved.
After knowing fourth sister, I thought it would be nice to see her. So, on May Day, I met my long-awaited fourth sister.
Everyone's good impression of this city may be through details that make you fall in love with or decide what attitude you take towards this city.
Like it or complain, you may have real feelings through people in this city.
Zhengzhou written by Li Zhige is more melancholy. Starting from Pan Pan and sublimating to Zhengzhou in Xiaosi Street, it gives people a real feeling, much like the leaves on both sides of Zhengzhou Street, which makes people relaxed and happy.
On the second day of coming to Zhengzhou, I went to the guitar shop where Xiaosijie was located.
I went to the guitar shop before Sisi, and I really saw her at the moment she opened the door, and I was right behind her.
"Hello, Fourth Sister, how are you?"
"Put the bag down and find a place to sit."
We had a brief chat. ............................................................................................................................................................................
Later, Xiao Si told her story.
To prove it to others and family, I can do it myself. She worked as a waitress, an electronics factory worker and a takeaway. ...............................................................................................................................................................
We often say that without real empathy, real empathy does not exist. What we can do is to laugh like a flower and as light as water after the storm.
When Xiaosijie was in primary school, the music teacher said that she was very talented and suggested that her parents let her learn music. The family didn't support it and thought it was useless.
Sister Xiao was very sad after her music teacher died. And that seed of music has been buried in her heart ever since.
Xiao Sijie has been a singer in a bar for a long time. She drinks heavily, she is rebellious, she is depressed, she doesn't listen to others, and she can't sit down and communicate with others. ...
On one occasion, Fourth Sister Xiao, who was about to leave, was rescued by others.
I think these are the profound influences brought to her by Born in a Family. Because the fourth sister said that there were three sisters above and a younger brother below.
If she can't be high or low, she is hurt in the family where she came from. My sister locked her in a dark room, and she still had a shadow.
The shadow brought by family background is really hard to let go. Some people are deformed, do not like to talk to people, and are very introverted; Some people hate family of origin and are even afraid of forming a new family. ...........
But Sisi chose redemption, and redemption came from God.
That is, during her part-time job at KFC, she came into contact with a foreigner who always came to eat.
Sisi can speak some spoken English, but there may be some problems in English communication. Therefore, the foreigner recommended a Christian in China to her.
The cautious little fourth sister thought it was a pyramid scheme at first.
Later, the China Christian came to KFC, where he worked part-time. They met and fourth sister became a Christian.
Fourth Sister seems to have found her own redemption, God's redemption, God's gospel and God's will.
God says everyone is guilty, but everyone is equal.
Sisi, who couldn't sit quietly with others before, listened to her story about Christianity and her relationship with Christianity for almost two days.
Perhaps the most attractive thing about this huge subversion is subversion itself.
Fourth Sister, who used to be rebellious, rebellious and struggling, became very peaceful, but it was very comfortable to listen to her.
I don't know how to describe such a huge change process. This is a rare idea. Is it a growth? Or the rebirth of moths? Or when you go to the abyss, you suddenly leave the abyss.
These may only be understood by Fourth Sister Xiao, and only she can make it clear.
Fourth Sister also often does activities about Christianity and helps those who need help.
Between listening to the story of Sister Four, I asked: Sister Four, when are you going to get married?
She said, "Just a few years."
"Are you going to see him, or is he coming to see you?"
God has his own plan.
Sister Xiao said that the other party must be a Christian first.
I think fourth sister will be very happy.
Later, in the evening, Xiao Si invited us to dinner.
When the food came, Fourth Sister Xiao said, "You eat first, and I will pray first."
Before Pan Pan and I ate saute spicy chicken together, we waited for Fourth Sister to pray.
I didn't catch what Fourth Sister said. But I can clearly hear the words "bless my friends".
After dinner, we walked out of the restaurant.
When we reached a certain distance, Fourth Sister Xiao said that the bill didn't seem to be settled. Suddenly he turned around and said, "You wait for me here and I'll settle the bill."
We followed in the past, settled the account and went downstairs to the home of Fourth Sister Xiao.
After going downstairs to Xiao Si's house, we had a short chat. Sister Xiao gave me a book, and we simply said goodbye and went home separately.
The next day, I came to the guitar line where Xiaosijie was. I said I would buy a guitar in May or June.
Fourth Sister Xiao said, buy it, and I can give you a little cheaper. However, if you buy it, you still need to find a professional teacher in Beijing to study professionally and cherish musical instruments.
I said I'll learn by myself.
Fourth sister said that when you study again, the teacher will have to correct it for you.
It doesn't matter. I can't fool around, I'm responsible.
The next afternoon, I saw Xiao Sijie teaching her students to play the piano. Very serious, communicate with children, very enthusiastic.
After class, she said a few more words.
"Ah, small four elder sister. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? You suddenly turned around last night, and the panic was so touching and pure. "
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The panic of suddenly turning around, the purity in panic, when you realize it, you may never forget it in your life.
Sisi is now doing her favorite job as a guitar teacher, and her heart is very peaceful. Her relationship with her family is getting better and better and more harmonious. ...................................................................................................................................
Everything goes forward, and life is the best.
But for Huei-fang, it's not reconciliation, it's providence.
At that time, the fourth sister was envious and respectful, and it was worth learning.
In fact, we spend too little time together and know too little. But the prayer before eating, the sudden panic of turning around, telling her story peacefully, as long as others don't listen, she can stop. These are enough to make people believe that she is a devout Christian.
As the highest realm of religious belief in life, it is enviable to get a new fourth sister at such a young age.
And all kinds of words and respect about Sister Xiao are deeply imprinted in my mind.
I also promised fourth sister that I wouldn't do anything I shouldn't and I wouldn't do anything I couldn't do.
And Xiao Sijie's face has been deeply imprinted in my mind, which may be more traces of years. What is rare and valuable is that after years of tempering, peace has crossed those traces and sincerity has leapt to the face.
Some people say that fourth sister smiles silly. In fact, it is not stupid, but more from inner peace and harmony.
As China's partner said: If the years will eventually leave wrinkles on our faces, then we can only do it and try not to engrave them in our hearts.
Obviously, Sister Xiao is such a person and lives as she pleases.
Here, I sincerely wish Fourth Sister: May the years be peaceful and everything go smoothly.
By the way, I forgot to tell you. Why is fourth sister called fourth sister? Because she is the fourth in the family. Maybe you have guessed it, but you still have to say it ~ ~
Postscript:
Although years are like knives, we still smile like flowers, blooming in the flowers of reality, and the wind blows, and we fly with the wind.
Obviously, Little Fourth Sister is a flower in full bloom and dancing among the flowers.
The article was first published by WeChat official account of Tao Tao grocery store.
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