A true concept of love should focus on girls' love for boys: real respect for women, strong learning ability, very strong action ability, clear personal plans and goals, requirements for personal love life, not being indulged by family background, infectious, driving you to grow, and other excellent personal qualities.
Instead of being handsome, dressing up beautifully, being considerate of yourself, being tolerant without a bottom line, providing emotional value in all directions, being responsive in the morning and evening, being sweet-spoken, knowing how to eat, drink and be merry, and so on. Love is not eating, drinking and having fun, but growing together.