A person who knows how to be grateful must be a person who knows how to love and is a kind person. People who are always grateful can usually enjoy life better than others, get happiness anytime and anywhere, and live a better and more fulfilling life.
A person who knows responsibility and responsibility will definitely have the courage to undertake everything. They are writing a great life, engraved with brilliance and immortality.
Men with patterns will stand higher and see farther. They are far-sighted, know how to choose, can understand the goal and significance of their struggle, and will not stick to details or dwell on trivial matters. The bigger the pattern, the more unique the vision, and the more planned and rhythmic the work. The bigger the pattern, the more informal it is, the stronger the heart, the stronger the endurance, and constantly changing yourself.
People who really have a pattern will not change others forcibly, nor will they embarrass others everywhere, but take the initiative to change themselves and adapt themselves to this society.
A truly powerful person never has a sharp edge, but knows how to do stupid things.
However, the reality is that many people don't know how to be grateful and take others' help for granted, but others are indignant when they don't help him!
Zhang San, Li Si and Wang Er are good friends. Zhang San is very generous. He often takes Li Si and Wang Er to eat, drink and have fun. Zhang San often helps Li Si and Wang Er every time he pays the bill. Li Si is a very grateful person. Once Zhang San met with great difficulties, Li Si did his best to help Zhang San without saying anything. However, Wang Er has a detached attitude. Zhang San kept Li Si's kindness in mind, but Zhang San said nothing to Wang Er. Usually, Li Si and Wang Er are invited to eat and drink, and Zhang San brings everyone a bottle of drink every time. One day, Zhang San also brought a bottle of drink to Li Si, and Wang Er didn't even have a bottle of water. Wang Er was actually angry: "Zhang San, what do you mean! Why not bring my drink this time! "
Zhang San said with a smile, "I always bring you drinks." Would you say "no"? When did Li Si not smile and say thank you before taking the drink I gave him, did you? When I was in trouble, Li Si tried his best to help me. What about you? ! "
Say that finish, Zhang Sanhe and Li Si got up and left the table together, while Wang Er was still aggrieved! I don't know what I did wrong!
An ungrateful person is doomed to lose the support of relatives and friends! And it is very likely that you will betray your relatives and friends!
What about those irresponsible and irresponsible people in real life? People who have no sense of responsibility and responsibility in marriage will mostly separate from each other and betray their loved ones!
Only when a person learns to be responsible for himself and his family can he learn to be responsible for society and the country. A person who dares to take responsibility can be fearless of night and wind and rain. Because of the responsibility and responsibility, no matter whether there are thorns in front, there are difficulties and obstacles, they can't stop them from moving forward bravely.
Mencius's "A gentleman has lifelong worries", Fan Zhongyan's "Worry about the world first, and enjoy the world later", and Du Fu's "A vast number of towers, enjoying the world in poverty" ...
Throughout the ages, those literati, pillars of the country, who do not have a strong sense of responsibility and the courage to bear everything!
Only men with patterns can have a broader world! As Zeng Guofan said: "Those who seek great things should focus on the pattern first." Personally, I think the model is applicable to everyone, especially as a leader, who must have a broad pattern. Even if narrow-minded people become leaders, they will not last long! Narrow-minded leaders like to be sharp-edged, tit-for-tat or abuse their subordinates. In the long run, they will lose people's hearts!
Being a man, knowing the importance of gratitude, responsibility, responsibility and pattern, can handle people and things in life well and become a beautiful person.
I hope you and I can be grateful, dare to take responsibility and have a big picture.
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