Looking at the problem from another angle, my mood is very different.
Some things have unpleasant or bad sides, but they also have good sides. The most fundamental problem is that each of us has a strict judge in our hearts. He criticizes himself and others all the time and criticizes life mercilessly. So in our eyes, the shortcomings of others seem invisible, and our hearts are pessimistic and disappointed because of some "hard to see" things.
There are two excellent sentences: "When you only see the sea and can't see anything else, you will think that you can't be a good explorer without the existence of land." "The real journey of discovery is not to seek new scenery, but to have a new vision."
Just adjust your perspective and your world will be different. What kind of eyes do you look at the world, and in what way will the world return your eyes.
There is a little boy who likes to stand face down against the wall when he is in a bad mood.
He said: "When I look at these people and things, I feel uneasy, so I look at the world backwards and feel that everyone and everything have become interesting and I will feel better."
When you are upset, can't you mind other things? When people are desperate, their horizons will naturally become narrow, and they will only cling to what they are worried about and ignore other things. When a person is bored and sad, he should temporarily avoid everything in front of him, don't get into trouble, turn his attention to other things, and exchange roles, which may lead to unexpected gains.
A man had a dream in which he came to a two-story house. When I entered the first floor, I found a long big table. There are people sitting at the table, and the table is full of rich food, but no one can eat it, because everyone's arms are cursed by the magician, all of them become straight, their elbows can't bend, and the food on the table can't be caught in their mouths. Everyone is very sad.
But when he heard the laughter upstairs, he was filled with joy. He went upstairs curiously and saw a group of people who couldn't bend their elbows, but everyone was eating happily. It turns out that although everyone can't eat by themselves, the people sitting opposite each other are helping each other and feeding each other. As a result, everyone had a good time.
No one can live independently of others. This is a society that needs mutual support. Offer a hand of friendship first, and you will find so many friends around you. On the road of life, we need to support each other and grow together.
A man passed by a busy railway station and saw a man with a disabled leg set up a pencil stand. He casually left 100 yuan as charity. But after a short walk, the man came back. He said apologetically to the disabled, "I'm sorry, you are a businessman, but I actually took you as a beggar."
After a while, he passed the railway station again, and the owner of a shop stopped him at the door with a smile.
"I have been looking forward to your appearance", so the boss is the disabled person. He said, "You are the first person to treat me as a businessman. I am a real businessman now. "
What do you think of a person? That person may change because of you. If you think he is precious, he is precious. A respect and love will often produce unexpected good results, so look at the world with your heart and respect everyone with your heart, and you will find that you and the people around you have unlimited potential.
In a remote town in France, it is said that there is a particularly effective spring, and miracles often occur, which can cure various diseases. One day, a veteran who was on crutches and lost a leg limped across the street in the town. The villagers nearby said in a sympathetic tone, "Poor guy, is he going to ask God for another leg?"
This sentence was heard by veterans. He turned to them and said, "I didn't ask God for a new leg, but asked him to help me and teach me how to live without legs."
Learn to be grateful for what you have lost and accept the fact that you have lost. Don't care too much about the gains and losses of life, but let your life be full of brilliant brilliance, stop crying for the past and try to live a brand-new self.
In a remote and closed town, only two radio stations can be heard. The first radio station specializes in celebrity news, hotline programs or pop song charts, and the listening rate is quite high. The second radio station is a meteorological professional radio station, and its audience is only a small number of people.
One night, the weather station issued an urgent warning that a powerful "tornado" would hit the town at midnight, and the radio station called on the residents of the town to evacuate immediately. This small group of listeners immediately organized. Some people looked for the mayor, some people beat gongs and drums in the street, and some people called Radio 1 to ask for news of the tornado. ...
Unexpectedly, the mayor said, "There has never been a tornado in this town. The news of the tornado must have been misreported or fabricated by the Meteorological Observatory in order to improve the listening rate. " He also treats people who beat gongs and drums as crazy. Radio 1 refused to interrupt this life-and-death news on the grounds that celebrities were being interviewed at the scene.
As a result, the town was razed to the ground, and few people knew that this land used to be a small town.
Every day may be the last day. We should live every day with a keen heart and look at the world seriously. Please look at yourself carefully and don't take everything for granted, because everything will change, and the key is how you measure it.
A teacher came into the classroom and clicked on a black spot on the whiteboard.
He asked the class, "What is this?"
Everyone said in unison, "A black spot."
The teacher pretended to be surprised and said, "Is there only one black spot? No one saw such a big whiteboard? "
Imagine: What do you see?
Everyone has some shortcomings, but what do you see? Do you only see the "black spots" on others, but ignore that they have a big whiteboard (advantage)? In fact, everyone has more advantages than disadvantages. Look at it from another angle! You will find more new things.