Husband:
How are you in a foreign country?
Outside the window, it is raining lightly. It is April, the most pleasant season of the year, neither cold nor hot. It's still cold in March, maybe because March is the season when peach blossoms are in full bloom, you know? I like peach blossoms the most, "a peach blossom tree is a poem". She is the first red color in early spring in my hometown, and is in alliance with love, so I always don't like to be disturbed by wind and rain. When the petals are broken and the fragrance is wet, I can't help but feel melancholy. After April, the flowers fade and the fruits become smaller, but the thin tree trunk becomes fuller. At this moment, the breeze accompanied by the rain washed away the dust on the green leaves, and the branches danced, causing no longer melancholy, but a small joy. And because it is inconvenient to go out, I make a cup of coffee, hold a book of Song poetry, and the graceful lyrics make my thoughts become so exquisite. I miss you.
Husband, how many years has it been since I told you my feelings in words? It started with the advent of mobile phones, right? You said: It will be convenient to contact you in the future. And we are really just convenient, talking about simple things at home, chattering incomprehensibly, and never writing a decent letter home again.
We have truly fulfilled the saying, "Marriage of a thousand miles is tied by a thin thread." Two young people from different places, from acquaintance to mutual agreement, passed by quickly, and inadvertently reached the age of forty. There is no love story about the deep love between husband and wife, and they stay together in an ordinary way. You work hard to run a small factory and support the sky of your family. I watch from a distance, respect the old and care for the young, and guard the corner behind you.
Outside the window, rain and mist fill the air. My eyes cannot reach far, but my heart is boundless. You and the poem are far away. "The fallen flower man is independent, and the light and swift swallows fly together." I miss you!
Husband, I rarely ask you how your business is going? Because I know that this "extra" concern is a pressure for you. You are not good at words, so your business is mediocre. It is a miracle that you can maintain your business over the years. I don't even dare to touch the bitterness of it, so I won't ask you. But I always nag you not to drink. In the past few years, I have always heard that friends around me have had accidents because of drinking. There is no smooth road under the feet of a drunk, let alone driving. If you don’t harm yourself, you will harm others. And the heart disease caused by drinking Disability and death caused by illness and myocardial infarction are not uncommon. You don’t have to remember it. However, you always answer me seriously and promise me, so you don’t make me worry all day long. Thank you!
Husband, do you miss the children? Of course, there is no doubt about it. As your children grow up, you miss a lot of companionship, which will become a special "shortage" in your life. Although you often say that they are the motivation for all your work, your smile after dinner, and your every opportunity. The joy of long distance travel during the New Year holidays. But I know you have regrets. Therefore, I use my circle of friends to record every detail of my life and that of them, also for you to see, so that you can get closer to our daily life and not become alienated. Although the children are not pretty, they do not behave erratically, they know how to respect the elderly and care for the young, and they can also do housework to the best of their ability. You can rest assured that even if we cannot train people to go abroad, they will definitely not become ruffians and a burden to the country.
Husband, my parents’ bee farm has entered a high-speed breeding period and is very busy. They are far away in the countryside, but I can’t help. I went back some time ago and they were collecting honey. The amber honey was so sweet that it looked like the happy life of our family! My parents are in their early sixties, so they are considered "young" old people, haha! Fortunately he or she is in good health! We should greet you more and accompany you more!
Husband, after twenty years of hard work, you have always been the hardest worker. Thinking back to starting from scratch and now having his own house in the city, it can be considered a small success. It is the reform and opening up that has created the achievements of our generation, and a group of rural children have also found a new world. But knowledge limits talents, so we all hope that children can absorb more knowledge, provide them with a good learning environment, and hope that they can create the ambitions of another generation.
Husband, the wind has picked up, it’s very strong, and the temperature has dropped sharply. Just like the bumps and bumps we have encountered along the way over the years. If a person is not confused, most of his life must have passed away. Women have passed the age of "making things", and men have begun to be pragmatic. Looking at the friends around me, some are envious and some are regretful. Then I think about myself. After getting through it, I am also glad that I have not reached the stage of breaking up. I often think that it should be due to the three children and your generosity. Now when I look back at my previous life, I find that many quarrels have become a kind of beauty. The years are long, and you will inevitably encounter miserable winds and rains. If you look back, there are always a few things that can make you smile. That is happiness and beauty, and you will always live up to this life.
Husband, I always think that you are always sensible and generous outside, but at home you will nag me for a long time over trivial matters. You are neat and orderly outside, but lazy and casual at home. How do you act submissive to me in front of your friends, but how arrogant are you at home? In fact, you are the only one like me, and what an honor it must be. Who would be willing to chat with you? Who is willing to be unrestrained in front of you, and who dares to be arrogant and unreasonable to you? ...Isn’t it just couples? Home is a resting place without any burden or packaging! But I always realize it later and often have some unreasonable troubles with you. Thank you for your tolerance!
As the years pass by, those memories of "it was just ordinary at first" have become unforgettable and I will spend the rest of my life slowly recalling them.
Think about it, except for those big and small things between husband and wife, there is actually no right or wrong between husband and wife. Treat small quarrels and small quarrels as the regulator of life. All the trivial things turn into life, the life of a family, a habitual life in a small area. Thinking about it this way, all those fights and angry moments were really unjust.
Husband, outside the window, the rain has stopped and the wind has become lighter. As if catering to my thoughts, the air is mixed with the fragrance of grapefruit flowers, which is strong and refreshing. The longing for you is also wrapped in the strong fragrance. When I raise my eyes and call softly, the fragrance flows around and the flaws in life are also gone. become perfect. It is the years that have smoothed our water chestnuts, it is tolerance that breeds warmth, and it is your kindness that has narrowed my cunningness. Thank you!
Husband, I am so grateful for this rainy day, this rainy day in April. I am in harmony with the situation, allowing me to calm down and count your blessings and our happy life! Is it raining for you? Will you also think of me in the rain?
"Hold your hand and grow old together with me."
May you never give up every year!
I wish my husband good physical and mental health!
Good work!
Wife
2018.4.16