Actually, I know how you feel. In 2008, I was extremely sad because of the death of my father. Whenever I miss my father, I will tell myself in my heart that my father has not left me. He has been watching me silently in the sky and accompanying me. He hopes that I can live happily every day, so when you miss your mother, you can silently tell yourself in your heart that your mother just went to another world, she did not Without leaving me, she will look at me silently in the sky and accompany me. If you really miss her, you can go sit in front of her tomb and pay homage to her.
My father has heart disease, a congenital heart disease. In May 2008, he went back to his hometown to plant peanuts. Originally, I didn’t let them plant peanuts, but he had no time. He wanted to grow peanuts, but when he got home, he felt heart discomfort and difficulty breathing. He was later sent to the hospital because there was something wrong with the fluid the doctor gave him, which caused ascites.
I remember it was one morning in August. I got off work and rode a motorcycle to see my father, because I lived a few kilometers away from where my father lived. When I got home, At that time, I saw my father lying there motionless, feeling very heavy. I quickly dialed 120, but was unable to rescue him. I remember that I threw myself beside my father, howling and beating my chest.
After bringing my father back to my hometown and dealing with the funeral, I can’t help but miss him every day. This feeling is a heartbreaking feeling. Whenever this time, I will tell myself that he did not After you leave me, he has been watching you silently in the sky. Every Qingming Festival or festival, as well as his father’s birthday and death, I will go to his grave and burn a stick of incense to pay homage to him.
The eight pains of life are the pain of parting. The biggest pain in life is the separation from your loved ones. Your mother passed away and you feel uncomfortable. I can understand this feeling. It has been more than ten years since my father passed away. Sometimes when I really miss him, I will reminisce about the good times with him and the times when I drank with him. I will pour a glass of wine and think about it while drinking.
At that time, I cooked two side dishes with my father in my hometown and had a drink together. The wine I drank was 60% white wine, which was very easy to get drunk. After drinking, I feel dizzy. Now that I think about it, I feel really happy. Although I also drink now, every time I drink, I will think of drinking with my father. It is human nature to miss our loved ones who have passed away. This kind of sadness will accompany us throughout our lives and cannot be erased. The only way is to go to his grave during festivals or Qingming Festival to offer sacrifices. Although your mother passed away, she has not left you. She has been watching you in heaven and hopes you are happy.