Talk in the boudoir.
Pronunciation dàI zügu zh ng zh not ng
Definition: engaged; Boudoir: A woman's bedroom. Stay in the boudoir and wait to get married. It used to mean that women were waiting to be hired as adults.
The source "Book of Rites Quli Shang": "Women are waiting to marry, and their words are full."
Example: To raise a daughter as beautiful as a pearl, her talent and looks are not particularly good, but she also has a pair of small feet. She is seventeen years old and a lady. (Huang Qing Xiaopei's "Twenty Years of Fan Huameng" for the second time)
word
1, preach "engaged, married".
2. There is a birthday post. The ancients believed that the married person's birthday should be well protected, so it will be made public after marriage, and only the parents of both parties and the matchmakers in the "three aunts and six grandmothers" can see it before marriage. Therefore, "waiting for the word" also means that you have not been hired.
References:
/question/ 1785734.html