Words of gain and loss 1 We have been weighing life. Gains and losses are always in the process of change. We move forward step by step in the balance of gains and losses.
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The gain and loss of life is in an instant. If you get it, you lose the pursuit and yearning for what you just got; When you lose it, what you get is yearning and attachment to what you just lost.
Life and death, gain and loss, sadness and joy, joy and sadness. In the dark, they are complementary and endless.
As the saying goes, if you gain, you lose. The balance of gain and loss is tilted and balanced in your own hands. The person who just wants to get fills the right side, and the empty left side is held high. Just as he was enjoying himself, the balance could not bear this imbalance and collapsed. This is why we have the loyalty of "Don't say anything expensive before, but hope to lose more later"
Tell me.
Saddam Hussein's arrogance no longer exists, and Xiang Yu's grandeur is gone; Jews are smart but their fate is bumpy, and America's glorious past is gradually fading. The rise and fall of a huge nation, the rise and fall of great men, all show that things are impermanent, and gains and losses are in an instant.
We always find that we lost something after we got something, but we never tell ourselves proudly that we got something after we lost something. If you want to "get" at one end of the scale, you must lose more at the other end. As long as faith exists, it will not go astray.
"The eagle stands like a hammer and the tiger walks like a disease." That's waiting for an attack. Give up elegance and nobility and gain survival and life.
"There are hundreds of feet of ice on the cliff and beautiful flowers." Give up the warm rain and spring breeze, and you will be proud and outstanding.
"Chinese children are so curious, they don't like red clothes and love armed forces." Lost beautiful new clothes and supple long hair, in exchange for eternal honor and the respect of all Chinese descendants.
Romain rolland said: "The plow of life has cut my heart, but it has also dug up a spring." Between gains and losses, you will see the world clearly and let yourself grow! Learn to give up, put down the weight in the lost tray, and the accumulation will be rewarded. Because the scales are balanced.
When Tan Dun first arrived in the United States, he made a living by playing the violin with a black man at the gate of the theater. This is a very prosperous area with high income. Later, despite the black people's retention, Tan Dun resolutely left there and chose to pursue further studies. Life is not as hard as it was yesterday. Two years later, when they met, Tan Dun was already the principal violinist in the theater.
Gains and losses are indispensable elements in life, so there is no need to haggle over the gains and losses for a while. It permeates the story of a blessing in disguise, so don't take it as time.
Win or lose. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, endured humiliation and finally rehabilitated himself and regained his glory. During the Han Dynasty, Zhao Jun left his hometown and married far away, but in return for national friendship and peace, prosperity and tranquility.
Don't be stingy to sow the seeds of "loss", behind every loss is the romance of Shan Ye; Every time I give up, there are flowers and applause behind me. A blank sheet of paper, you only see the middle point, and what you lose will be the whole white face.
In life, if you are unhappy, you will be satisfied; There will be happiness if there is unhappiness; If there is obstruction, it can be unblocked; Success comes from failure. When you are satisfied, you cannot be arrogant; When you are frustrated, naturally don't be sad and don't give up on yourself.
"Since I chose a distant place, I only care about the hardships." That kind of giving up is only a temporary embarrassment. As everyone knows, when you trudge for cultivation, God has already put down the fruit with a smile at the other end of the scale.
This is the ultimate meaning of life. Between gains and losses, cherish yourself, cherish self-esteem, self-respect and self-improvement, and life will certainly cherish you.
Words of gain and loss 2 Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone!
Time flies, in a blink of an eye, the third monthly exam came. I took the exam with a warm heart. On the day of the exam, I was full of energy. The day before the exam, I made full preparations. However, this time the focus is not on the exam. What do you want to know? Then continue to look down.
I had an argument with others at lunch on the day of the exam. I hurt someone's face because he kicked me on purpose, so I hurt him. At that time, the teacher only criticized me, not the other side. I am wronged and shed tears from time to time. Later, with the comfort of teachers Chen and Liu, I calmed down.
Teacher Liu talked to me very kindly after I was emotionally stable. She asked me what happened first, and I told the teacher truthfully. Finally, I realized that I was wronged, but in the end, others were greatly hurt. She told me a lot about the reasons for this situation. Even if I am in charge but someone else is injured, I will still be legally responsible. There are laws everywhere in life. If he kicks me, I will bear it first. This is not to say that I am weaker than him, but to prove that I am stronger than him, because only by defeating myself can we defeat others. Those who can control their emotions, that is, those who can overcome themselves, can become the strong people that thousands of people look up to.
After school, the teacher called my father and communicated with the class teacher and parents of that classmate. I didn't want to call my parents, but I called our parents for fear that my classmates' parents were worried. After all, my classmate's face was badly hurt.
When I got home, my father told me that it would be a good move if I could be patient. Whether others hit me or I hit others, as parents, they are very worried. I didn't call my parents or fight. These two behaviors are the same. They won't worry their parents. It is better to choose the latter, and neither of them will get hurt.
Sometimes, patience is the key to turning a big event into a small event, and excessive behavior is the fuse to turn a small event into a big event. In life, patience can solve some unnecessary troubles, which is the premise of our better life!
Words of gain and loss 3 Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone!
Once, people asked Professor Bohr, a Danish physicist, "What is the secret of establishing a first-class physics school?" Bohr replied, "Because I am not afraid to show my stupidity in front of students." Hearing this answer, everyone was surprised and puzzled.
Bohr's answer is really unexpected, but it is reasonable to think about it carefully. It is Professor Bohr who is not afraid of "trying to be brave in front of students" and abandons vanity and pride, arrogance and indulgence, so that he can get along with students on an equal footing with a scientific attitude, a modest academic spirit and a broad mind, and then he can create a first-class physics school.
The author thinks that there are many reasons for Bohr's success, but his good at giving up is definitely one of the important reasons. Tao Yuanming lost his official hat, but he created a well-known poem. Cao Mengde gave up his conceit, knowing that Xu You had come to vote, so he had better wear shoes and meet him barefoot. Later, Cao Jun robbed the nest, burned hay and defeated Yuan Shao. Li Bai gave up the luxurious life in the palace and lost the glory of the royal literati, so that he had a chance to enjoy the great rivers and mountains of the motherland and wrote a series of bold poems.
Today's loss is for tomorrow's bonus, which is full of peaches and plums. Only by cutting off the redundant branches and leaves can the fruit trees be fruitful in the golden autumn; Only by throwing away the safe moth cocoon can the pupa become a dancing spirit among the flowers; Only by removing the shackles of thought can thoughts fly and ideals run fast.
However, we should not only learn to "lose", but also strive to "win". This is not only in line with dialectical materialism philosophy, but also the truth that facts not only show us.
This poem is a portrayal of General Zhang Zizhong's life. Sixty years ago, Ma Tie did not look back. Sixty years ago, the famous anti-Japanese general Zhang Zizhong was a martyr of the anti-Japanese cause of the Chinese nation. He gave his patriotism and saved the country with his fists. He is a mirror of the world and the sun and the moon.
Shanghai, one of the main battlefields of the Sino-Japanese War, wrote an epic patriotic poem here 60 years ago. China's army was bombarded by Japanese artillery shells, and the whole battalion, regiment and regiment were killed, but they still held their ground and held on to Shanghai for more than ten days under extremely harsh conditions.
General Zhang Zizhong and other soldiers who died for their country deserve to be descendants of the people of China. They have the backbone of China people, and their heroism has lost its spirit. Shouldn't we pay tribute to the heroes, learn from the martyrs, gain the backbone of the Chinese nation from them, and gain the lofty integrity that the people of China deserve?
To lose is to give up falsehood, ugliness and evil, while to gain truth, goodness and beauty. As long as we can correctly grasp the "loss" and "gain", I believe we will have a better tomorrow!
Words of gain and loss 4 Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone!
I believe many students have experienced gains and losses, and I have experienced many times, but this time my feelings are more real.
I have always loved painting, and I regard every painting as my own treasure. This week, my father told me that he would let me take part in the calligraphy and painting contest in Zhejiang Division, and I was very happy. Dad also said that you should send a painting to the competition. My heart thumped. "Do you want to send a picture? Can't you send photos? Will the painting be returned to me when it is mailed? Why send pictures? " I am very unwilling.
Dad explained: "To enter the preliminary competition, you must send a good work to let the judges know your skills and leave a good impression on the judges, so as to get the chance of the semi-finals."
I took out all the paintings at home, and after screening, I finally chose the one hanging on the edge of my desk, which I drew while sketching in Pujiang. Facing the green mountains and clear waters, I was relaxed and happy, and after determining the basic composition, I did it in one go. At that time, it was highly praised by Mr. Zheng, a Chinese painting teacher. The more I read, the more satisfied I am. I hung it on my desk when I came back. When you are tired of doing homework, you can look up to relieve your nervous mood; Prepare to draw, watch, feel "I can do it", think of the scene at that time, full of strength. It has always been in my heart, and now it will leave me a mission. Although I am very sad, I still take it down slowly, roll it up slowly, and let my father paste it for me. ...
I "lost" my beloved painting, but I have more thoughts and expectations in my heart. "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise?" Since ancient times, there has always been a subtle relationship between gains and losses. I think the quality of life lies not in gains and losses, but in the choice in the heart and the prospect of the future.
Words of gain and loss 5 Dear teachers and classmates,
Hello everyone!
In the foggy morning, a tall man slowly "floated" in the distance and swam barefoot in this lotus pond. The wind brushed his wrinkled skirt and wrinkled it into a pool of duckweed spring water. He walked by singing.
A burst of hearty laughter swept across the lotus pond. I saw a man beside duckweed. Under the dark skin, white teeth are clearly visible. The corners of the mouth hook up, squinting, and smiling as beautiful as a lotus. He was dressed in plain clothes, white vest and trousers, barefoot and rowing leisurely with his hands. When I first met this man, it was probably a worker hired by the owner of this lotus pond to pick lotus flowers.
Trying to remember that face, I don't know what I got in the lotus pond.
It's already familiar to meet again. He is still swimming in the lotus pond. Watching the lotus flower from broken bones to the sleeping baby's face day after day, his smile grew stronger. I looked at the man who enjoyed it and couldn't help smelling the elegant lotus fragrance in the air and talking to him. "Did you pick the lotus?" The man smiled and showed his white teeth, and answered brightly. "These lotus flowers are still children." The sun shines on this pink white lotus, and through a thin layer, I see a green lotus. He waited patiently for these little guys to grow up and the shower heads to appear.
In the elegant floral fragrance, the lotus leaves lengthen her face, and the blooming lotus flowers show a bright smile under the dark face, which sets each other off and becomes an interest with men. This kind of waiting day after day must be for the sake of harvest.
Dark green lotus leaves are dazzling in the sun, and the lotus leaves hang their heads and show them shyly. Not far away, the man was rowing a boat with a basket on his back, which was very painful because of the friction of bamboo and rattan. When these people meet again, they already know each other. I looked at his wet back and asked, "Does anyone else do this?" He just paused and smiled awkwardly. I didn't speak, staring at the black and bright hands he picked from the lotus.
"This is what I should do." The man smiled and put the last lotus in the basket.
He walked slowly from behind and gave me a lotus flower. Looking at this lovely little thing in my hand affectionately, smiling at me, with a bitter heart tattooed on my dark face.
He drove slowly through the midsummer, passed the lotus pond, left my sight and never saw it again.
I peeled off the lotus, and the round lotus seeds slept peacefully in the dark green lotus. Thinking about him, I can't help crying.
His persistence is also a kind of harvest, thinking that the profits brought by lotus seeds in various packages on the market are undoubtedly far from what he got. But I think what he lost because of that persistence was the happiness that others could not get.
Thinking of his meager gains, I can't help praying that he can continue.
At least in front of the lotus pond, he chose his share of the harvest.
Put away the lotus seeds. I'm glad he didn't lose his persistence. He will gain something eventually.
Words of gain and loss 6 Dear teachers and classmates,
Hello everyone!
Only in such a small street, adults are covered by tall trees, and some old and broken dark gray Shi Zhuan are covered with mottled light and shadow. Time stopped here. It is such a quiet street with a simple name-Flower Street.
Every time I walk in the flower street, my heart is always quiet and fresh. There are not many people here, only a few old shops, but there is a portrait gallery quietly located here on the long street.
A walk, I couldn't help but be curious and went in. There is nothing valuable in it, only a room full of paintings, mostly belonging to the older generation of revolutionaries and some old people. Further inside, I saw an old man squatting in front of the table, writing and drawing. I didn't bother him, just looked at him tenderly. He has the same appearance as other old people, but he is very focused. When I came in from the outside, he didn't even look up and Lian Bi didn't stop. Obviously, he has entered a state where no one is watching. I looked at him quietly, drawing and painting. He seems to have met a bottleneck, unable to grasp the expression of the characters, and worried. He calmly showed confidence and wiped the painting several times. I don't seem satisfied, yes, the expression of the characters is so difficult to grasp. It takes a lot of energy to repeat this several times. Finally, he finally got it done and smiled comfortably. The behavior of a character makes him feel very fulfilled, but he is so happy when he spends his energy on doing small things.
Every time, the old man always finishes painting before greeting his friends. He bowed his head and wrote a note, so we looked around. When we were looking at other paintings, he couldn't help but stop writing and introduce them. When he introduced each painting, someone always praised him. At that time, he was the happiest, with a bright face and a smile like a praised child. He is proud of himself! A guest came to have a look and turned to ask, "What a waste of time." The old man didn't agree, but still smiled and walked over without talking.
After several visits, I found that the flower street shop was sparsely populated and few people came. I told the old man that he just smiled and said, "I can still keep it."
I can still hold on! What the old man lost was time, wealth and energy, but the old man's insistence made him pass on this handmade portrait, guarding the portrait gallery, and at the same time gaining happiness.
Words of gain and loss 7 Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone!
What you get is not necessarily suitable for you, and what you can't get is not necessarily the best.
Although income is getting richer and richer, life is getting richer and richer. However, on busy weekends, I am tired of working overtime before dawn. In addition to work, I am also busy with various social activities. In the face of children's desire for companionship, the cold meals at home in the early morning, and the hesitation of my family, I can only comfort myself with the numbers on my pale bank card. However, the living conditions are getting better and better, why is the heart getting tired and tired? What is the most important, gain and loss?
People can only see the high morale of the winners and the bright brilliance of the stars, but it is hard to imagine the bitterness behind success. They gave up the comfortable afternoon tea, the latest movie time, and the warm weekend lie-in. Their efforts also make us ashamed, so it is they who succeed. We shouldn't complain about the injustice of life, just because everyone has different choices and wants different things.
"A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise." Don't haggle over temporary gains and losses, and don't worry about what others get. Everyone has his own steelyard, his own choice and persistence, and he loses it just to make himself better. Open your eyes wide, look at the nothingness in the world with a clear and delicate heart, get rid of those flashy spiritual shackles, strengthen your inner yearning and pursuit, and stop hesitating between temporary gains and losses and wasting time and energy. Be optimistic and be yourself.
"I am lucky to lose my life", cherish everything in front of me. "Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life." Don't aim too high, throw watermelons and pick up sesame seeds. Be an open-minded soul dancer.
Words of gain and loss 8 Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone!
Life is full of surprises. You think you've lost everything, but in fact you can be better. Don't feel sorry for what you have lost. Get out of the sadness of loss and look at the problem from another angle. Actually, you can find something better.
You should know that the past cannot be changed, and no shop in the world can buy regret medicine. Since you can't change it, why immerse yourself in the past and worry about yourself? Grasp the present. Although you can't change the past and don't know how to predict the future, grasp the present. Let bygones be bygones, don't cling to the past. What you didn't get in the past can actually be owned again in the future. In fact, the gains and losses of life are always in an instant. Smart people can let the pain go with the wind and seize the happiness of the next second. And stupid people will only get lost in the past, and then they will get lost again and again.
If you are willing to give up, you will get it if you give up; Gain and loss, gain and loss There was once a story: two girls took the college entrance examination together, and the Chinese test paper was issued. It is very difficult for them to read the examination paper. Of course, after the exam, both of them didn't do well, and the college entrance examination is also very important to one's life. After the exam, one of the girls felt too difficult and sad, so she took the test paper and cried sadly. Another girl felt sad, too, but she said to herself, "Since it can't be changed, try to prepare for the next game!" " During the English exam, the crying girl was immersed in sadness. Of course, she failed in the exam again and again. Another girl, who has a good grasp of the current state of mind, made only two wrong multiple-choice questions in the English exam and was admitted to Tsinghua with excellent results.
This story tells us not to indulge in things that cannot be changed at any time, or you will miss things that you could have changed. In fact, the gains and losses of life are just fleeting.
The Buddha asked his disciples what was the most precious thing, and the disciples said, "It has been lost, and it cannot be obtained." The Buddha didn't say anything. Many years later, when this disciple was dying, he woke up and said, "I have it." Are those lost things really precious? You have lost it, it no longer belongs to you, so how can it be precious to you? What you can't get is something that doesn't belong to you. Why do you think it is precious? What you have now may not be the best, but it is the most precious to you. Don't be sad because you have lost something. Hold on to what you have, or you will continue to lose it. Students, grasp the gains and losses!
Speech on Gains and Losses 9 Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone!
My mother is helping with business at my aunt's house now. Her family runs a wholesale supermarket for tobacco and alcohol, and the business is very prosperous. My aunt is as busy as a bee every day. My cousin and I hit it off very well, so we stayed at his house this holiday. I was going to play games and chat with my cousin, but "the ideal is full and the reality is very skinny." In his house, I help almost every day: collecting money, moving goods, copying, typing ... I am full of business matters and have no free time. The plan failed and my heart was empty. But menstruation has gained a lot, and its financial resources are rolling in.
My aunt is really good at business. There are at least hundreds of goods in the store, different brands and different packaging prices. I remember it clearly, clearly, and the accounts are flowing. I can't help but admire this elder who has only a primary school education. However, beyond admiration, there is more helplessness.
Because of busy business, I have no time to do housework, and my home is a mess. The bed where he sleeps is made once or twice a year, not to mention the kitchen and bathroom. I couldn't bear to step in several times. What is even more unbearable is that his family never eats breakfast because there is no time to cook. I go to the market to fill my stomach every morning. These days "catching up early" made me understand why my cousin is so thin. Although my cousin is the same age as me, he is a head shorter than me and very thin. Aunt doesn't know how many advanced nutrients she bought him, but it's not long. Now, I finally found the answer.
It turns out that what thin cousin needs is just a simple breakfast!
Aunt's business is so busy that she has little time to ask about her cousin's study and life, let alone communicate with her cousin. The only time he cared about his cousin was when he asked, "How did you do in the exam? See how much worse you are than others? " Poor cousin can only be answered by Lacrimosa.
Alas! My aunt's family is very rich and lacks everything. She has a car, a house and a hot business. I recently bought a house in a prime location for my cousin's future use. Now I often let my cousin go to the new house to help with the business. My cousin did business all the holiday, even though he was only 12 years old. He gets a lot of money from business, which he can't spend. But can money buy cousin's knowledge? Poor cousin, what did you get in the flower season? What have you lost?
Words of gain and loss 10 Hello, students and teachers. The theme of my speech today is: gain and loss.
As the saying goes, "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise." In this world, all sentient beings will inevitably be involved in many gains and losses. You may gain a lot from something, but you may also lose something; You may have lost something or learned something from it.
Gains and losses, like ubiquitous air, pervade the world of mortals. In school, whether in exams or ordinary homework, there are always a small number of students who pursue high scores and high efficiency by plagiarism. They did succeed once, but after a long time, they will fail, lose their precious youth to study, and finally accomplish nothing. In shopping malls, some unscrupulous merchants cheat customers by shoddy goods. They smiled proudly and harshly at the coins in front of them, but they didn't know that in the depths of their souls, the integrity that even a thousand dollars could not be bought had vanished, and their hearts were full of greed.
However, we can't do it at all What's the use of those false scores and those false correctness? We might as well do it independently and work hard to cultivate the field of wisdom. A low score is nothing. One day, that field will grow into a successful seedling with our own efforts.
And that money doesn't have to be earned. How foolish it is to trade honesty for greed. For a while, you may make a profit, but soon, you will lose everything on the chessboard of life.
In the world of mortals, we will inevitably fall into the choice of gain and loss, but as long as we think seriously, you, I and he will find the right answer. Can't be blinded by temporary interests. You can see clearly if you look hard.