How was the marriage in 1983 and 1987?
Young Xiao San
He is famous and talented, with the Russian name "Egypt". Xiao San, a poet who is well-known in the literary world.
She is young, beautiful, innocent and brilliant. She is popular in Yan'an with her reputation as a "silkworm girl" and is called the "Silkworm Girl" by Mao Zedong.
A talented man and a beautiful woman, a loving man and a concubine. If love were to happen between them, people would think that it would end with a lifelong stay together. However, this is not the case.
In 1940, after going through checkpoints one after another and interrogations again and again, 20-year-old Ganlu finally ended the journey that lasted for one year and nine months and arrived in Yan'an from Jinhua, Zhejiang.
The moment she first met Xiao San, her idol in her heart, her bitterness in traveling through the Kuomintang District was washed away.
As early as 1937, Ganlu heard Xiao San’s story from Xiao Kun. Xiao San was born into a scholarly family. He was good friends with Mao Zedong when he was young. They were both great talents in Hunan. They also founded the "Xinmin Society" together and had a very close relationship.
Later, Xiao San went to France and the Soviet Union to study. During the more than ten years in the Soviet Union, Xiao San published a large number of poems and poems in Chinese and Russian, publicizing to the world what was happening in China and in the history of mankind. The greatest farmers and working class in history.
In 1939, he returned to China and came to a cave dwelling by the Yanshui River, where he became a leader of the Yan'an Literary and Art Circles Anti-Enemy Association.
Although Ganlu was born into a poor family, she had a sincere enthusiasm. After hearing Xiao San’s story, she was deeply affected and developed an infinite yearning for Yan’an and Xiao San.
She secretly made up her mind to come to Yan'an, meet Xiao San, and then shine like him.
Group photo of female college students in Yan'an
As soon as 44-year-old Xiao San saw this tall, innocent and lively girl, she felt very friendly and regarded her as a She cares as much as her own sister. After he learned that Ganlu had studied Peking Opera and was good at calligraphy, he decided to introduce her to Yan'an Women's University for further study.
In his letter of introduction, Xiao San spoke highly of Ganlu: She is very perceptive and has a blank sheet of paper. She can write better words and draw better pictures.
After Ganlu arrived at the Women's University, she made rapid progress, and because of her outstanding appearance and cheerful personality, she soon became the backbone of the Women's University.
The party to commemorate the first anniversary of the founding of the Women's University was held in the auditorium of Yan'an Party School. At the party, Ganlu played the leading role and performed the entire "". Xiao San in the audience looked at the sparkling and vibrant nectar on the stage, and something else surged in his heart.
The party was an unprecedented success, and the reputation of "Nectar" spread throughout Yan'an.
Yan'an Auditorium
The Women's University building is built on the opposite bank of the river from the Party School and Qing Cadre School. It is a new cave dwelling dug along the east bank of the Yan River in Yangjialing. Among the dots of candlelight on the east bank, one seemed to shine directly into Xiao San's heart.
Xiao San began to fall in love with Ganlu. Thinking of her sassy figure on the stage and the innocence on Ganlu's face when they first met, Xiao San's heart moved.
From then on, Xiao San began to invite Ganlu to copy poems for him. At night, the two of them walked on the stone bridge connecting the two sides of the river. Ganlu was originally full of admiration for Xiao San. In these days of close contact, Xiao San's romantic temperament and lofty ambitions, as well as his brother-like care and guidance for her, have completely moved Ganlu's heart. .
However, suddenly one day in October, Ganlu saw a white woman - Xiao San's "wife" Ye Hua in front of Xiao San's cave dwelling. She actually came to Yan'an! Manna exclaimed inwardly.
Ganlu just felt that she had nowhere to vent her feelings of loss, shame, sadness, guilt, and frustration, and she didn’t know what to do.
It turns out that as early as when Xiao San was teaching at Moscow University in the Soviet Union, Xiao San and Ye Hua had met by chance on the shores of the Black Sea in the Soviet Union.
Xiao San and Ye Hua
Ye Hua is a German whose original name is Yeva. She has been a fan of China since she was a child. Over the years, Yeva has been learning about China through various books and stories, and her beautiful fantasy about middle school students has been deeply ingrained in her mind.
In 1934, Yeva came to the Soviet Union after graduating from the Munich Academy in Germany, and met her prince charming, Xiao San.
It turns out that after coming to Moscow in 1928, Xiao San published a large number of literary works. His collection of poems has been translated into Russian, English, French, German, Japanese, Czech and other languages, and has had a wide influence in the world. At this time, Xiao San had become a famous figure in the Soviet Union and Eastern Europe, and his reputation spread far and wide.
Therefore, as soon as Yeva saw Xiao San, she fell in love with him and secretly expressed her love.
When Xiao San saw Yeva with chestnut hair and blue eyes, he couldn't help but fall in love with her, and fell in love with her at first sight.
A few days later, on November 8, it was Yeva’s 23rd birthday. Xiao San came to express his love to Yeva with a large bouquet of crimson roses. In this bouquet of roses, Xiao San also The passionate love poem "The Deep Black Sea":
"That deep black sea, that bottomless black sea, is my heart that admires you... I would like to indulge in this sea of ??love. , as the waves roll and fall, they lift the waves high, splashing and washing them so that the bright moon is always bright."
At that time, Yeva did not know that this breathtaking love would determine her future destiny.
Xiao San and Ye Hua
The white girl’s love is fierce and impulsive, but Yewa believes that the power of love is enough to overcome all difficulties. In order to stay with Xiao San, Yeva resolutely decided to give up her German nationality and become a Soviet citizen.
Soon, the two got married in the Soviet Union. After the marriage, the two fell in love and were inseparable. After Yeva became pregnant, Xiao San doted on Yeva even more. In 1938, Yeva gave birth to their son Xiao Liang.
However, not long after the birth of his eldest son, Xiao San learned that China was lacking a group of red propagandists who could denounce Fang Qiu. On the one hand, he was a woman he loved deeply, and on the other hand, he was a homeland in desperate need of talents. Despite his reluctance, Xiao San, who was full of ideals, decided to leave the Soviet Union and return to China to devote himself to his career.
Yeva was very supportive of Xiao San’s career, but the environment at the time did not allow her to come to China. In order to support her lover's career, the strong Yeva tearfully bid farewell to the Chinese man she was deeply enamored with.
When the two parted, Xiao San burst into tears. He loved Yeva deeply, but in an era of war and strife, love seemed so insignificant.
Under the circumstances at that time, he understood that the two people who were so far apart might never see each other again. This moment may be farewell forever.
Thousands of words merged into a love poem "Farewell to Eva, My Love". Xiao San wrote the poem on the back of his photo and gave it to Eva.
Xiao San’s manuscript "Farewell to Yeva, My Love"
After Xiao San returned to China, Yeva in the Soviet Union always dreamed of him. , so she bravely applied to come to China. After Mao Zedong's approval, Yeva took her young son all the way to China, which she had longed for, and met the lover she had longed for.
Looking at the mother and son who were in the dust, Xiao San was deeply shocked. He did not expect that Yeva could really overcome many difficulties and come to his side. He couldn't help but hold Yeva and his son in his arms, enjoying this hard-won reunion.
On the one hand, there is the wife he once loved deeply, and now she has traveled thousands of miles to join him, and on the other hand, there is the love affair that has just begun. Xiao San can only choose to return to his family and give up the nectar. He quietly found Manna and told Manna how he and Yeva met, fell in love, separated and reunited.
Hearing the love story between Xiao San and another woman, and hearing that Xiao San gave up their relationship so easily, my heart was as sharp as a knife. But the innocent and pure Manna comforted herself: love comes first, not to mention that Xiao San and Yeva are already a legal couple abroad.
So Ganlu decided to bear the pain and withdraw from this "". With some complaints against Xiao San, some pain of broken love, and some self-movement of helping others, she took the initiative to leave Yan'an. Go to Suide area to carry out sericulture work.
Xiao San was very moved when he saw his long-lost lover. He gave Yeva the Chinese name Ye Hua, and the two began their formal life as husband and wife after receiving their marriage certificate. Except for Ye Hua who didn't like the poor life in Yan'an and often complained, they lived a happy life.
During this period, Xiao San edited "New Poetry", "Popular Literature and Art", etc., and also participated in the work of Lu Xun Art Institute, Literary Association and other departments. He also launched a street poetry activity, the Yan'an Poetry Society, which had a wide impact.
At the same time, Xiao San was moved and admired by Manlu's departure. He was grateful to Manlu from the bottom of his heart for perfecting him, and praised Manlu as a virtuous and humble woman who had the overall situation in mind.
Xiao San and Manna
Ye Hua gave birth to another son for Xiao San in 1941. A mixed-race baby was born in a cave dwelling in Yan'an. It feels very novel, and girls often hang out with this cute doll. With two sons, their life should have gone on so calmly.
However, the rumors of Xiao San's nectar love still reached Ye Hua's ears.
The strong-willed Yeva could not accept the betrayal of her lover. At that time, she believed that love does not rub the sand, and there was an irreparable rift in the relationship between the two.
Moreover, Yeva, who had been in a good situation since she was a child, was fed up with the life of eating sweet potato nests in Yan'an, and the quarrels between the husband and wife intensified. Finally, after a fierce quarrel, Ye Hua decided to leave.
Although Xiao San was reluctant to give up, he decided to let Ye Hua go free and let her find her own life. She found and approved the divorce procedures with Xiao San, took along her two young children, and resolutely embarked on the road back to the Soviet Union.
At this time, Ganlu was using his busy work to forget the pain of broken love.
In Suide, young Ganlu was appointed as the leader of the "Border Area Sericulture Investigation Team", and she also founded a sericulture breeding room. Ganlu's hard work soon paid off. She successfully promoted scientific sericulture methods and new silkworm breeds to the entire Shaanxi-Gansu-Ningxia border region.
In March 1944, the border area held an all-party model worker conference. Ganlu returned to Yan'an and held a silk exhibition in a cave dwelling, proving with actual results that silkworms could be raised on the Loess Plateau. Mao also visited the exhibition in person. He held Ganlu's hand affectionately and praised Ganlu as one of the best "silkworm-raising girls."
Girls learning to raise silkworms
At the model worker conference, Ganlu and Xiao San reunited. Seeing Manna with a prosperous career, Xiao San found that he still liked Manna. When he abandoned Manlu and reunited with Yeva, Xiao San was already full of guilt towards Manlu.
Now, Xiao San and Yeva have officially divorced. Moreover, the hard-working Ganlu has the same career and the same ideal as himself. He thought that maybe Ganlu is his ideal partner. He decided to marry Ganlu and live a good life with Ganlu to make up for the previous harm to Ganlu. So, he made a request: transfer the manna back to Yan'an.
Facing Xiao San, whom she had admired for a long time and was now single, the fire of love in her heart was rekindled. What a blessing it would be to be able to marry a man that you admire and a leader who guides you on the path. In this way, the pure nectar forgave Xiao San and persuaded herself to forget the grievances and hardships of the past four years. Complain.
Finally, they can be together openly.
In October 1944, under the witness of Mao Zedong and others, the two held a grand wedding. After the marriage, Xiao San often visited Mao with nectar, and Mao also stayed with them to have dinner and chat together.
Mao also jokingly joked with them, asking Manlu, the """, to help "Xiao Lang" a lot. After all, since ancient times, there have been few writers named Xiao.
Ganlu and his eldest son
In 1945, Ganlu joined China gloriously. Later, Ganlu gave birth to her eldest son Tieta in Zhangjiakou. Xiao San devoted himself to literary and artistic creation and published many works.
Two years later, Ganlu, who participated in the land reform pilot work in Xibaipo, gave birth to her second son, Ganping. The children brought endless joy to the two of them. Although life was still very difficult at that time, the smart and capable Ganlu could always find ways to make delicious food and arrange the lives of the father and son in an orderly manner.
The romantic poet Xiao San also enjoyed a warm family life. He often shared housework with Ganlu, took care of his two sons, and entertained them.
Although they are not as infatuated as Yeva, Xiao San and Ganlu get along well with each other and live a good life. Even Xiao San and Ganlu are praised as "model couples" in Yan'an.
Ganlu and her son
At that time, Ganlu didn’t know what the giant hand of fate would do to her life. Perhaps those few years were the most difficult years in Ganlu’s life. It's time to have fun.
In 1949, the smoke of war dispersed on the land of China, and the people were about to usher in a new era of peace. Xiao San and Ganlu's jobs were adjusted to Peiping, and they planned to settle down here. In April, Xiao San was dispatched to Moscow to attend the World Peace Conference.
The Soviet Union did not know that Xiao San already had a wife and children in China, and arranged a meeting between Xiao San and Ye Hua.
Five years have passed since Ye Hua left Yan'an. Looking at Ye Hua, who was no longer young, Xiao San burst into tears.
Thinking of everything Ye Hua had done for him and how difficult it had been for Ye Hua to raise his two sons alone in the past few years, his deep longing and reluctance came to his heart.
They have missed each other too many times while going around. This time, Xiao San held Ye Hua in his arms and never wanted to let go. At this time, he had forgotten the manna far away in China.
Xiao San and Ye Hua
Xiao San said that true love should not be delayed in the ups and downs of turbulent times. Moreover, the domestic situation in China has improved greatly, and living conditions have improved compared to the Yan'an period. This time, he will not let Ye Hua suffer anymore.
Ye Hua happily nestled in the arms of her former lover. She admitted that when she left China in anger, she often regretted it and missed Xiao San all the time.
Xiao San has determined that Ye Hua is his destined lover, and he confesses to Ye Hua frankly: After Ye Hua left Yan'an, he married Ganlu.
However, he assured Ye Hua that after this reunion, he confirmed that the only one he loved deeply was Ye Hua. He asked Ye Hua to return to China with him and ensure that he would properly resolve the matter with Ganlu.
Ye Hua felt no loss when he heard that Xiao San had already started a new family in China.
Ye Hua asked himself deep in his heart: Should I forgive him? Do you want to stay with him? She got the answer in the affirmative.
Because Ye Hua understands that only by letting go of Xiao San's extraneous relationship can they give their love a chance to start again.
So she decided not to pursue Xiao San’s missing marriage. After all, in a girl’s view of love, only those who love each other should be together. This lost lover is so precious. As long as she can stay with Xiao San for the rest of her life, she seems to be able to forgive anything.
Manna and two sons
So, Yeva told Xiao San that she was willing to return to China with Xiao San. They have been wasting time for too long. For the rest of their lives, the most important thing they should do is to race against time to love each other.
Perhaps, they are a destined couple, who can never be separated in the torrent of the times, and cannot be forgotten in the torment of war. Their love transcends races and national boundaries, and remains unswerving despite hardships like a fairy tale.
On a rainy night in June, Xiao San took Ye Hua back to Peiping. Ganlu happily stepped forward, only to find that Xiao San was followed by Ye Hua and the two mixed-race boys who had grown into teenagers.
Xiao San confessed to Ganlu that he still loved Ye Hua more. After reuniting in the Soviet Union, they decided to never leave each other again. Ye Hua accompanied Xiao San and solemnly apologized to Ganlu, hoping that Ganlu could forgive them and help them.
It was clear that Ganlu and Xiao San were legally married at this time, but the couple working together in front of them made Ganlu feel that she was just a complete outsider in Xiao San's heart.
Ganlu's heart was as thunderous as this rainy night. Xiao San's infidelity in marriage made her feel extremely angry, and she broke down and cried.
Xiao San, Ganlu and their three sons
The three were at a stalemate, so they had to invite "four-party talks". Hearing Xiao San's absurd statement, the always gentle man was furious and severely criticized Xiao San, saying that he "first lied to the party, second to the Soviet Union, and third to Comrade Ganlu!".
But no amount of criticism can separate Xiao San and Ye Hua, not to mention that at this time, the relationship between China and the Soviet Union was also very tense. From a certain perspective, the transnational love affair between these two people was no longer Private matters became diplomacy.
In the relationship between Ganlu and Xiao San, Xiao San chose Ye Hua and gave up Ganlu twice when faced with choices.
Ganlu's heart was traumatized. For the sake of her final dignity and to obey the circumstances, she filed a divorce request with grief and indignation.
After the divorce, Xiao San knew that he was very sorry for Ganlu. Ganlu's youth that he had delayed twice could not be compensated. He could only send Ganlu some alimony to express his feelings.
Ganlu, who wanted to be strong, was already despairing. She returned all the money, saying firmly that she did not need Xiao San's mercy or money, as she could raise her two sons well.
Ganlu
Finally, the depressed Ganlu fell ill. While she was hospitalized, Ye Hua was also admitted to the same hospital to give birth. Soon Later, Ye Hua gave birth to her and Xiao San's third mixed-race child.
While Ganlu imagined the happy life of Xiao San and Ye Hua now, she recalled her own sadness along the way. In this relationship, Xiao San was always hesitating and making choices, but she always loved Xiao San wholeheartedly, and her true love was eventually let down.
In the two choices, she finally changed from the white moonlight in Xiao San's heart to tasteless dry rice, but that woman was always the red rose. Thinking of this, I was lying on the hospital bed with tears streaming down my face.
In the years to come, when someone occasionally mentioned the "Four-Party Talks" that year, Manlu still couldn't let go and burst into tears.
Xiao San and Ye Hua fulfilled their vows to each other. They spent their lives together until death separated them.
Elderly Xiao San and Ye Hua
As time goes by, time flies by. Xiao San, Ganlu and Ye Hua passed away in 1983, 1987 and 2001 respectively. Ashes to dust, dust to dust, the emotional entanglements between the three of them also disappeared with the wind.
Both women, Ganlu and Ye Hua, once occupied an important position in Xiao San's love life. However, when it comes to the wife of the famous poet Xiao San, people only know Ye Hua and not the nectar. I wonder if it was Xiao San who took the initiative to hide, or Manlu deliberately avoided it?
Perhaps, people will never find the answer to this question.
People only know Xiao San’s wife as Ye Hua but not as nectar. I wonder if it was Xiao San who took the initiative to hide, or Manlu deliberately avoided it?
Perhaps, people will never find the answer to this question.
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