Let me ask you how old you are first. This is very important. I think you should be young. Hehe, don't get me wrong. Me too.
I have been thinking about this problem since I was born. Why do people live? Over the years, I have been looking for it and asked others.
But others seem to regard me as a mental illness and think that this question should not be asked at all, because they think that this question is meaningless.
I've been depressed, really, and suffered. Now I understand that the answer to this question is that there is no answer!
Those meanings of life are artificially given, and we can give life any meaning we want. You can look at what they say, all kinds, everything.
This is entirely based on personal understanding, but one thing is the same. You can't end your life alone. You should live well. Since life is boring, why not try to live a brighter life?
There is really no point in thinking about this question. Because no matter what you think, it's just a fantasy, and nothing will change. Since people's starting point and ending point are the same, but the process is different, then what is bitter and tired?
So my advice is: forget it. Set yourself a goal. Remember, you live for yourself and for all the people who are good to you. We have no choice but to be born and stop dying. What we can do is to control ourselves. All you can do is live well. When you are in pain, you have to find a way to get through it, but it is inevitable. Life is made up of happiness and pain. You'd better enjoy life This is the best way. There is a saying that laughing is a day and crying is a day, so why not laugh?
I used to have the same idea as you, and I hesitated, believe me. If you are crying, talk to someone else. I hope my answer is helpful to you!
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Live the Resilience of Life-Friends 2007- 10-07 Author: Yadong Cecilia Han Contact Author Original/Yadong Cecilia Han
According to Xinhua Dictionary, "toughness" means soft and firm, and it is not easy to break.
I think the most representative of resilience is willow. Willow leaves, with low eyebrows and pleasing eyes, move with the wind, and no storm with great pressure can break them. It will fly with the wind and stop quietly with the wind. It uses its resilience to resist external storms, live in its own world, and make itself chic.
Many times, we need such resilience to face some blows and setbacks in life.
We all have moments of youth, and we also have either-or paranoia. Often, when the ending is not what we expected, we will definitely be disappointed, depressed and have doubts about the beliefs we once had. Some people may be devastated and linger in the past, while others can bounce back and move on under heavy pressure.
Living, one of Yu Hua's novels, is worth feeling. The writer wrote about people's tolerance for suffering and optimism about the world. The hero Fu Gui died at least twice and survived on the battlefield. He was made a scapegoat for land reform, and he was glad that he was still alive. After political movements and production changes, he still lived a very stable life; Relatives left him one by one, and he still lived tenaciously. He is like an upright and taut steel wire, living out the tenacity of life and the original meaning of life: to live is to live, not for anything else, but a simple and persistent desire and belief.
I remember that year when I was in the hospital bed, I was hit by an unexpected life and lost hope for life when I couldn't move. A friend who usually doesn't talk much came to see me. I'm not in the mood for social intercourse. Let him say something comforting. He said that he had just watched a movie called Alive. No matter whether I was listening or not, he spoke very seriously. After he finished, he looked up and said something I will never forget. "Don't think about why, just want to live." . Yes, as long as you are alive, it is the best existence.
To be alive, we may have to go through many hardships. Failure of career, deception of relatives, departure of relatives and so on. It makes us feel very painful every time. Crawling and crying, I still have to bite my teeth to meet tomorrow's life.
A friend of mine is facing the blow of life. After many years of marriage, I can feel her deep disappointment. She said, it seems that all these years have passed in vain, leaving a big blank for herself. That marriage life seems to have disappeared with the cancellation of the marriage certificate. Her life looks happy to outsiders. A rich life without having to work hard for daily necessities makes her look more beautiful and younger than her peers. Life has been carefree. No one would have thought that there was so much helplessness behind her marriage. As Zhang Ailing said, life is a gorgeous robe full of lice. Outsiders are gorgeous, and the lice inside are only known to themselves after all. At such times, people often feel the sadness of life. We thought that people who have been with us all our lives will eventually let go on the way, leaving themselves with a back and endless memories. Such setbacks and pains only leave time for slow healing and recovery.
I don't know how to comfort my friends, which makes me have to consider a question, when we encounter setbacks in life, what kind of heart should we use to face them, in order to recover from the blow as soon as possible and live again. On the long road of life, we will face many accidents, blows and setbacks, which all test our endurance. But I believe that life is resilient and needs this resilience. We may be bent by setbacks, but we can't break them. When we are most stressed, it is also the time for us to accumulate strength. We will bow our heads like willow branches, but looking up is a rebound of life. I think a person's vitality is tenacious, and a person's potential is huge. We can't see the good times, but when we encounter setbacks, a call from the bottom of my heart will awaken the vitality of sleeping, let us learn to be strong, learn to be patient and learn to stand again. At that time, we will be reborn with hope like a phoenix that has experienced nirvana.
Learn from the willow and live out the toughness of life. Maybe we will be more relaxed.
In the valley
It snowed heavily and the flowers were covered with cedar branches.
When the snow reaches a certain level
The elastic branches of cedar will bend slowly.
Until the snow fell from the branches bit by bit.
Repeat this long product.
Repeated bending
Repeated falls
After the snowstorm, the cedar was intact.
Other trees don't have this ability.
The branches have long been bent by snow.
sabotage
A pile of boulders was washed to the grass by flash floods.
Press a piece of grass under it.
Grass, in order to breathe fresh air
Enjoy the warm sunshine.
Changed the growth aspect
Bow your head along the gap between the stones.
Rush out of the rock barrier
Life is alive.
We should bear the pressure from outside as much as possible.
Don't bend if you can't bear it.
Like a cedar, make way for the time being.
So as not to be at a loss.
Like grass.
Turn flexibly
So he won't be strangled.
Bending is not compromise.
But a rational tolerance to overcome difficulties.
Can't bend down.
But to stand better and more stable.
Bending is not destruction.
But take a step back and broaden your horizons.
It's to have the last laugh in life.
Learn to bend over
You have a happy attitude towards bad luck.
Learn to bend over
I also learned to face the hardships of life with the feeling of beauty.
Learn to bend over
I also learned a higher truth to look at the vicissitudes of the world.
bend
In fact, it is an art of life.
The resilience of life in the seventies [essay] [essay on telling one's own story 64]
Author: Jiangnan wheat field submission date: 2005-12-1316: 36: 32.
"Farmers with glasses"
The winter of 1996 made me unforgettable. I am like a migratory bird that has no time to migrate, crouching in the cold winter, looking forward to the early arrival of spring. However, the winter in Fengjie, a small town at the foot of Daba Mountain in eastern Chongqing, is particularly long, and I was knocked down by a cold before I had time to be full-fledged.
The reason for the cold is simple-I don't have thick clothes to keep out the cold. Students are all buying Sanle pulp and brain tonic liquid in pillows, but I'm worried about three meals a day. I took two months' living expenses 120 and walked into the down jacket shop in the county town several times and came out several times. Remembering that my father didn't have a pair of socks to wear in this cold winter, I gritted my teeth and persisted.
That cold lasted until spring came. I thought sunshine could dispel my pain, but my cough always accompanied me. In the college entrance examination in May, I was declared ineligible to take the college entrance examination-I had tuberculous pleurisy.
This thin medical examination notice has made me struggle for it for a whole 12 years. Before the college entrance examination began, I became a deserter and returned to my barren hometown.
No one knows the reason why I dropped out of school-there was no money for medical treatment at home, which finally made me hide my illness from my parents. People who want debts step into poor families from time to time, and rumors from villagers spread to their parents' ears from time to time: "Why don't you take the college entrance examination because of your good grades?" Did you get fired for fighting at school? Is it stealing from others? "
Finally one day, I was in unbearable pain and fainted to the ground. My parents sent me to the hospital in amazement and sold the only old cow in my family.
A steel needle more than two feet long was inserted into the chest cavity between the fourth and fifth ribs of my back. The doctor smoked two bottles of yellow pleural effusion and pulled me back from the brink of death. Tuberculous pleurisy is a chronic disease, so the treatment should be done slowly. After taking some medicine from the hospital, I went home.
In order to reduce the burden on my parents, I work hard all day. Soon, the name "glasses farmer" spread like wildfire. After a hard day's work, I lie in bed at night and feel sore all over. I opened the wicker box under the bed and looked at the neatly packed textbooks, notebooks and exercise books. A strong desire to go to college came back to me. I opened my old textbooks and recited English words, mathematical formulas and ancient poems over and over again. ...
Sadly, it is not that the days are too tired, but the lack of dreams. Since I had the dream of "going to college", my heart has ignited hope again. From then on, I scrimped and saved and worked hard. In the slack season, I worked as a porter at the village head construction site, carrying 1000 Jin of stones, 10 yuan.
My parents don't want me to go to college again, because there is really no money for me to study at home. One night, my father opened my room and discussed something with me seriously-the so-called discussion, just to tell me. He said he found me a good wife, Mel from the next village. My heart suddenly cooled by half, that is, Mel, who has a runny nose all day and is black and solid? At that moment, the beautiful fantasy of the future partner became distant and erratic. Father said that people have great strength and can raise more than 40 sheep and feed six or seven pigs every year. This is a talent who is hard to find with lanterns! I strongly object. The father was annoyed: "With you? Farming with glasses, culture without culture, strength without strength, people may not value it! "
Mel really doesn't like me, so the first blind date in her life ended like this. This incident strengthened my determination to enter the university.
When I was a farmer, I began to prepare for resuming my studies. I boiled potatoes, cut them into pieces, dried them in August and made dry food. I dried two bags of dried potato chips. ...
Looking at the slippers with two yuan on my feet, I burst into tears.
In July of the following year, with the money from 500 yuan, who sold pigs and grain last year, and my crate and dried potato chips, I set foot on the road to study again.
Just 500 yuan, I know I can't go to a key high school that will charge a high repeat fee. I don't care about the teaching conditions and quality of the school. What I care about is an opportunity for the college entrance examination.
There are not many ordinary high schools in the county, so I chose a remote one. Although it is summer vacation, all the students who are about to enter the third year of high school have to attend remedial classes. I explained my purpose to the headmaster. The headmaster said that 400 yuan's re-reading fee must be paid separately. I said that I only have 500 yuan for living expenses, and I can't live this year after paying the re-reading fee. I took out my previous report card and showed it to the headmaster. I know that this school has never admitted college students since its establishment. If I can make an exception for this, it will be a great achievement for the headmaster. The headmaster pondered for a long time and said, "Go back to school for two months first."
In this way, I became a repeat student.
During those two months, I studied hard. In every exam, my score is the first in my class. But I know that my competitors are far stronger than my classmates.
In September, the whole school began to return to school. One day, I was called to the principal's office. The headmaster asked, "Did you get all 400 yuan?" I am speechless. The headmaster's face became stern: "Are you still like a student? There is no discipline at all! In and out of the principal's office in slippers! If you have no money, you won't want to study in this school! "
I don't remember how I got out of the principal's office. I only remember that when I walked out of the school gate alone, the sunset glow filled the sky and the school gate was red with rosy clouds. I sat on the rice field ridge at the school gate, thinking of the past, and looked at the only pair of shoes I wore that I bought from the stall for two yuan, and I burst into tears. ...
But I know I have no choice. I vowed to visit all the high schools in the county. If no high school admits me, I will give up my dream of college.
Maybe God won't close one door, but he will open another. Just when I found the headmaster of No.2 Middle School, he took me and confiscated a penny from me. And according to the school regulations, if I get good grades, I can get a scholarship to 80 yuan at most every month.
From then on, I studied hard, and there was no day or night. I have forgotten the change of seasons and time.
At an early age, my face was finally covered with tears of happiness.
The day of college entrance examination is getting closer and closer. 1998 In February, the head teacher suggested that several students with good grades in the class have a physical examination. That examination, an unfortunate news hit me again: tuberculous pleurisy. It turns out that I have only taken medicine for two months since my last illness. Because I didn't review later, I couldn't feel the physical lesions, so I thought I was fine.
I think it may be destiny takes a hand not to go to college in my life. That night, I packed my bags and prepared to go home.
However, the struggle over the past year has made me unwilling to do so. I said to myself: I will never give up until the last moment of my life. The next day, I went to the doctor early and explained my situation. The doctor said, can I have an injection every day? This will make you recover faster. There are still a few months before the college entrance examination. Maybe you still have hope.
In this way, every morning after the second class, I will have an injection on time. After more than two months, my ass is full of pinholes.
The college entrance examination is a hopeless war for me. Because I don't know how I will recover from my illness. In that tense day, any pressure may knock down a person's spirit, but I know I can't fall down because I have paid too much for this moment.
Perhaps God has eyes, and nothing unusual was detected in the X-ray chest X-ray of the college entrance examination three months later.
I didn't go to school the day the college entrance examination results were announced. I broke the corn cob at home, dug potatoes and fed them to the pigs. On the day when the college entrance examination scores were announced, I walked to town for more than an hour without breakfast and called the class teacher to ask about the exam. The teacher said, "You are the only candidate in the class who is online."
At that moment, I couldn't hide my inner ecstasy and ran all the way home. I rushed into the house and said to my father, "Dad, I'm on."
At that moment, tears flowed freely on my young and mature face.
Now, sitting in the modern office of the capital, I often think of the mountains and rivers in my hometown, the bones of my father buried in my hometown, and the years I have experienced. I know that life has given me too much, whether it is suffering or happiness, it is an experience and wealth of life. I really live, for the dream, for the responsibility, and I will never give up until the last moment of my life, which is enough. I found that life is resilient, and any resilient life will encounter difficulties as heavy as Mount Tai, and these difficulties will be as light as a feather.