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The farewell ceremony for Chen Xiaoxu’s death in Shenzhen on the 13th of this month was held today
I am a catkin,
Growing up in the beautiful spring,
Because my parents abandoned me prematurely,
I became close friends with the spring breeze.
I am a catkin,
Don’t ask me where my home is,
May the spring breeze blow me to the ends of the earth,
I want to bring the news of spring to every corner of the earth.
——Written by Chen Xiaoxu when he was 14 years old
Who will hide with me when I am lonely and proud
It is too late for the flowers to bloom
Old version of "Dream of Red Mansions" The actor Chen Xiaoxu was confirmed yesterday to have passed away on the 13th of this month. Her relatives and friends are currently turning off their mobile phones collectively and cutting off contact with the outside world. It is reported that the farewell ceremony for Chen Xiaoxu’s body will be held today at the Shenzhen Funeral Home.
Review: Self-recommendation made her become Sister Lin
In 1985, the crew of "Dream of Red Mansions" began to select actors. After Chen Xiaoxu, who was only 18 years old at the time, heard the news, he took the photo and found it by himself The director recommended himself to play Lin Daiyu. When she received the audition notice, she did not tell her colleagues and leaders at the Anshan Repertory Theater. Instead, she took three days of sick leave and secretly ran to Beijing. As a result, she stayed on the crew of "Dream of Red Mansions" for three years. "I am Lin Daiyu. If I play other roles, the audience will think that Lin Daiyu is playing the role of another girl." It may be these words that impressed the director. In the end, the role of Lin Daiyu belonged to her who had no acting experience.
In 1996, Chen Xiaoxu accidentally entered the advertising industry and founded his own company. After 15 years of development, it has become a company with an annual turnover of nearly 200 million yuan.
Monkhood: There are different opinions on whether to believe in Buddhism or to become a monk
Although Chen Xiaoxu has believed in Buddhism for many years, the news that she became a nun still shocked many viewers. At around 9 a.m. on February 25, at the Baiguo Xinglong Temple in Changchun City, Jilin Province, the eminent monk Chang Hui ordained Chen Xiaoxu as a nun. As for the reason for becoming a monk, the reporter learned from people familiar with the matter that Chen Xiaoxu was suffering from a terminal illness, and his condition had greatly improved since he went to Baiguo Xinglong Temple to practice Buddhism. This direct factor prompted Chen Xiaoxu, who had believed in Buddhism for many years, to make the astonishing decision to become a monk.
There are also some other reasons circulating in the society, and everyone has different opinions. A friend once "revealed the secret" and said: Chen Xiaoxu and her husband Hao Tong have terminated the substantive relationship between husband and wife and filed for divorce. formalities.
Death: Relatives and friends collectively shut down their phones to avoid the topic
Mr. Zhou Ling, who had repeatedly called to "deny" Chen Xiaoxu's death, finally confirmed the matter yesterday. When he learned that the reporter was When asking Chen Xiaoxu about it, he hesitated for a moment, and then choked up and said: "It can be confirmed now." It is reported that someone got the exact information when interviewing Master Chonghua, the president of the Yunnan Buddhist Association. Chen Xiaoxu and his master, Master Jingkong, were originally scheduled to attend this meeting. I wanted to go to Chongsheng Temple in Yunnan to worship Buddha in a few days, but I canceled the trip at the last minute. The reason given to the Yunnan authorities was that Chen Xiaoxu was ill and Master Jingkong had to rush to Shenzhen to perform a "blessing" ceremony for him. After a media friend from Nanjing got the news, he specifically asked Master Miaozhen of Nanjing and was told that people generally choose to perform this ritual only when their illness is very serious.
Friend Deng Jie (blog) said that she had learned of the death of Chen Xiaoxu on May 16. She is currently in Chengdu and will gather with other creative staff of the 1987 version of "Dream of Red Mansions" after returning to Beijing. Let’s choose a suitable way to mourn Chen Xiaoxu together. As for Chen Xiaoxu's performance, Deng Jie believes that no one can surpass it in the future. After saying that, he hung up the phone and turned off the phone. As of around 4 p.m. yesterday, when reporters tried to get in touch with Chen Xiaoxu's friends again, almost all of them had turned off their mobile phones or had transferred their calls to a manual message box.
It is reported that the farewell ceremony for Chen Xiaoxu’s body will be held today at the Shenzhen Funeral Home.
-Missing Friends
●Chen Jianyue (played as Xiangling in the old version of "A Dream of Red Mansions"): Although we don't contact each other often, after all, our previous feelings are still there. We all know something about her condition and we usually keep it a secret. But now we have to face it. I think she is very rare and she left a legacy of great work and characters. Lin Daiyu is her.
●Dongfang Wenying (played as Tanchun): Although I had been prepared for it for a long time, I still felt at a loss when I heard the news. During the days in the Red Mansion, we agreed to walk our own path in this world. Since then, we have each gone our own way. The long road of life has made us ups and downs in the world of mortals, but the promise in our hearts has always supported each other.
●Jin Lili (played as Yingchun): She left too fast! We had dinner together a week ago. That was also the last time I saw her. Someone called yesterday to ask about this matter, but I didn't get the news until today. This incident surprised me. When she became a monk, I thought, why is Xiaoxu so stupid? Why doesn't she go see a doctor? Why does she have to become a monk?
●Hu Zehong (played as Xichun): When Xiaoxu was dying, I dreamed countless times in my dreams that she was having a party with us. She was very happy and talkative. She only said one sentence: "Hu Zehong, my leg hurts. Can you give me a massage? "The dream I had is still fresh in my memory. I was not surprised when I heard the news that she passed away today. I just hope that my good sister, Xiaoxu, will go well and be happy in another world. live! -Our reporter Li Lei
Biography of Chen Xiaoxu
Year of birth: 1965
Ethnicity: Han
Birthplace: Anshan City, Liaoning Province
Character: Introverted and sincere, distinctive personality
Biggest wish: to live with parents
Acting experience:
Played Lin Daiyu in "A Dream of Red Mansions"
Cousin Mei in "Family Spring and Autumn"
Literary works:
"I am a Catkin"
Her life, and Related to Daiyu
1
Chen Xiaoxu’s life is destined to be related to Daiyu.
From 1987 to 2007, for twenty years, Chen Xiaoxu had only one symbol in people's hearts, even though she did not just play such a role, even though her life was also full of joys and sorrows, But no one cares about these. She created a classic, but on the other hand, this classic also affected her life. In the past twenty years, as an actress, as a businessman, as a wife, her career, her love, her illness, and her becoming a monk, she could not escape the shadow of Daiyu. Her name will always have " "Lin Daiyu plays the role".
For twenty years, the flowers have drifted and the water has flowed, and the person has passed away. At the moment when the light comes back, Daiyu calls out from afar, "Baoyu, Baoyu..." Where is Chen Xiaoxu? She is separated from the world of hatred and filled with sorrow. What is her state of mind? What is it that she can't let go of? Or maybe she has nothing to worry about anymore, who knows?
Two
A friend said, ""A Dream of Red Mansions" is going to be remade, and she won't be able to see it, and maybe she doesn't want to see it either." Classics are the wealth left by history to people, or in the hearts of most people, they do not want to see a remake of "A Dream of Red Mansions". After an era has passed, they would rather be left with only memories than to have their beautiful memories destroyed, even if it is just It is possible to be damaged.
Chen Xiaoxu is the memory left to us by that classic of that era. Occasionally, people may talk about Daiyu, but the image of Daiyu in their minds is always Chen Xiaoxu. Other than that, no one else can replace her. There are a thousand Hamlets in the hearts of a thousand people. Literature leaves room for everyone's imagination, but in "A Dream of Red Mansions", this space is filled by Chen Xiaoxu, so full that no difference is allowed to enter. The draft selection for the new version of "Dream of Red Mansions" has been aroused, but can it really be possible to select a Daiyu that will satisfy everyone?
三
The day before today, all the media did not believe that Chen Xiaoxu was really dead. Perhaps this had nothing to do with professionalism. What affected their judgment was actually something else. A kind of feeling, subconsciously, they are not willing to accept such a news. They were all condemning the person who revealed the news casually, and their words were always about morality and character.
In fact, this cannot be blamed on the people who condemned it, although the unfortunate news has now been confirmed. Yes, this is unfortunate news. For Chen Xiaoxu's relatives, it may just be the grief of losing a loved one, but for all other unrelated people, it is the loss of an idol. Chen Xiaoxu's life has given people too many memories, and most people are not willing to distinguish between her on and off screen. In the play, her death has already caused many people to suffer sadness and helplessness. Do they have to bear it again?
Four
"Hua Yuan is timid, why can't he go crazy; Liu Ben is worried, so why not stop the showers." After all, Chen Xiaoxu is not Daiyu, and she has not spent herself in the world. In the storm, she finally saw through all the tricks in the world, left millions of wealth behind, ignored all love, hate, and hatred, and walked away relaxed. Who says that a beauty is the most beautiful? Who says youth is invincible? Perhaps, the ancient Buddha with a green lantern and his silk clothes and white socks is the image that Chen Xiaoxu most wants to leave to the world.
(Bie Shui)