Some people may understand the "children" here as sons and daughters, but I think this sentence left by the ancients should not refer to children.
If you have seen some costume films, you should know that the ancients sometimes used "children" to call names, which means that the other person is a villain and a person with moral problems.
The whole sentence means: people who don't deserve virtue will do harm if they do evil.
This "scourge" refers to the scourge of society, as well as his own disasters and self-caused.
There is also an old saying that has a similar meaning: If you are good, there will be Qing Yu, and if you are not good, there will be more harm.
Of course, this sentence also applies to children.
As the saying goes, "Look at the old at the age of three, look at the old at the age of seven". As parents, it is very important for us to educate our children in virtue and cultivate their moral quality.
Nowadays, due to the improvement of living standards and the deviation of some values in society, some parents only know how to meet their children's various needs with the best material conditions, and only pay attention to academic performance in education, ignoring very important moral education.
Therefore, there will be many "talented people without virtue", who will only bring disaster to society and eventually bring disaster to themselves. Look at Sanlu milk powder, waste oil and so on. People who can do these things are very talented people, but they have no virtue.
So "virtue" is more important than "talent". As parents, we should remember what the old man said: when children are prosperous, there will be disasters.
Always tell yourself to be a virtuous person, and always educate your children and put morality first.
I wonder if you agree with my understanding. I hope it helps you.
Statement 1: If the child is prosperous, there will be disaster; The child was quiet and the disaster began.
Literally, when children are excited, because they have limited understanding of the consequences of their actions and their actions are not limited by their actions, they often cause some disasters, or hurt others or themselves. Exploring the world out of curiosity is an inevitable process. There is no code of conduct for many things unless you try them yourself, just like the psychological basis of preventing dangerous things with the intervention of parents. For example, if we tell a child that playing with glass is dangerous, he or she knows the danger, but he or she doesn't know the degree of it. There is also a kind of early warning choice for danger out of human nature, similar to people who are afraid of heights, and their physiological reactions need to be avoided; Itching caused by mosquito bites needs to be cured, conveyed through the senses and scratched by the brain.
When children are quiet, they are usually already absorbed in various attempts.
Statement 2: Little people succeed.
What is a villain? Conspiracy and shameless? Open-minded and cheeky? From this point of view, the thirty-six strategies in Sun Tzu's Art of War are all villains. Whether it is aggression or defending the country, if you ignore it according to the gentleman's way, that is the duel way of western cowboys. From this point of view, the villain is just a general term for the opposite of a certain position. For example, Hercules advocates strength, and the villain needs clever tools, so the villain is a villain to Hercules, because Hercules thinks that strength is the constant standard of honor. The villain is opportunistic, and losing to the villain is naturally a villain. Then everyone will say that Hercules can completely ignore the little man, but this little man will say that Hercules is afraid of fighting. What should big shots do? So I skipped this thinking space and came to a conclusion: the power of the world is heterogeneous, and the climate and geography are different everywhere. It is king to learn from each other according to local conditions. As for the villain in power, that is, the interests are in the hands of a few people under the solidification of class. Most people have no choice but to curse their villains. Do self-styled gentlemen become winners of interests? This needs verification. After all, the state of existence determines the thinking of existence, and it is not transferred by human will.
Hu Kan.
This sentence is definitely one-sided, but there is some truth.
The day is about to fall, and people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, and starve their bodies and skins ... Why? Because people need to learn to grow. But there are some truths that can only be learned in setbacks. A child, if he grew up smoothly, then he has never experienced setbacks. He doesn't understand this part of the truth.
As an adult, once he encounters setbacks, he is likely to take things too hard and go to extremes. You may also encounter setbacks and get lost. Then life will never get up again. For example, a student at University of Science and Technology Beijing jumped off a building. True story, because he found that the girl he secretly loved since childhood didn't like him. That's all.
what can I say? Frustration education, like a vaccine, must be played in advance. When I was a child, children would not be sad when they encountered setbacks, but how much setbacks children can have is nothing more than occasional poor study, fighting and falling out of love. Parents have the ability to help him out of trouble.
But as an adult, parents may not be able to deal with setbacks again. Depending on yourself, it is inevitable to go to extremes or always get lost and lose yourself.
In short, when children are prosperous, there will be disasters. Mainly to remind parents, we must attach importance to frustration education, and we can't completely let it go, nor can we completely let it go. Have a degree, grasp it yourself.
I am bored. How old are you?
Old people have loved their children and grandchildren since ancient times and will not speak ill of their children. People's minimum morality and conscience will not curse: children's prosperity will be in trouble!
This is not superstition, nor is it what the old man said!
This is dissatisfaction with adults and a curse to future generations!
Friend, think more about the questions you don't understand. Such old words should not be passed down!
To be a man, you must keep your mouth shut. If you don't keep your mouth shut, you will have no character!
I'm grandma Liu Chunyun: I want to vent myself and don't involve the elderly!
2020.3. 17.
Li is the grandson of a famous soldier in the early Tang Dynasty. Li is good at riding and shooting. However, Li Ji, a British official, lamented that it must be this child who will destroy our family in the future.
Is it really "a curse for a prosperous child"?
When the British public designer killed Li in his teens, he was already outstanding, riding and archery, and he was proficient in everything.
But his grandfather Li Ji thought he would hurt his family, so he decided to kill him.
One fine day, I took Li to hunt. When he arrives at his destination, let Li go to the Woods to drive away the wild animals.
After Li went deep into the jungle, he had already planned to light a fire. The fire started with the wind and soon surrounded Xu Jingye.
Li saw the fire spread and began to start a prairie fire. Knowing that he couldn't get out, he killed the horse and hid it in its belly.
Li Ji was in a complicated mood and led Ma Jing and others to put out the fire.
For a long time, the fire finally went out and was about to return, only to find that Li was covered in blood and returned safely!
Li Ji was surprised and puzzled, and his heart was both happy and sad. I am glad that Li is young, but so brave and witty; Sadly, Li didn't die. Maybe the Li family will have a catastrophe in the future.
Li didn't play by common sense. Li was born in a prominent family, so many people with various purposes made friends with him. At the same time, angel lee family education is strict, Li Ji doesn't like him very much, and is very strict with him.
Special family background and family education made him develop a supercilious, humble and courteous contradictory character.
In Tang Gaozong, many thieves regard mountains as the king, and the court is overwhelmed.
Under the impetus of various forces, the court appointed Li as the secretariat and set out to fight against thieves and bandits. To put it bluntly, fighting bandits is gilding. First, there is almost no danger, and failure will not be punished. Second, if several bandits are killed, with the blessing of the Li family background, Li Ziran will go a long way.
But Li didn't play by common sense.
After taking office as the secretariat, Li Jing asked about the location of thieves and robbers. Regardless of dissuasion, he only took two followers and swaggered into the thief's den.
What is even more surprising is that Li scattered the bandits and let them disperse on their own, leaving no one behind.
When Li Ji heard this, he was both happy and worried. He said, "I have never taken such a risk. However, it must be this child who will ruin our family in the future. "
To be fair, the meeting that Li personally attended was really eye-catching. But who can say that it has not touched the light of British Gong? Thieves and robbers sell more face than Li.
In the first year of Hongdao (683), Li Zhi died and succeeded to the throne. However, before the emperor's throne was heated up, he was deposed as the king of Luling by Wuhou and exiled to Zhou Jun.
At this time, Li and his two brothers were demoted for accepting bribes. In Yangzhou, Li met Tang, Luo and others who were also demoted. Several people with resentment got together, and the more they thought about it, the more angry they became, and they immediately hit it off.
As a result, a few people, led by Li and Li, took the opportunity to fight in Yangzhou, under the banner of helping to reset. In a few days, more than 100,000 military forces were organized.
Want to know, Tang Gaozong Tang Gaozu arise, but thirty thousand military forces, seven years, has laid a huge datang jiangshan.
Later, Luo, a great genius, wrote the article "Death for Li", which has been passed down through the ages. It is said that when Wu Zetian saw this article, she laughed instead of anger and criticized that "the prime minister's mistake was the loss of this person."
For Wu Zetian, he really didn't take Li seriously. Because Li not only didn't lead the world, but took Luoyang directly. Instead, he played a retreat tactic, hoping to build a nest to attract phoenix first and became addicted to the emperor.
In this way, where will the scenery from all directions gather? On the contrary, people are separated.
Therefore, Wu Zetian appointed Li Xiaoyi as the general manager of Yangzhou Road and led the troops to crusade against Li. In less than a year, our power was defeated by Li. Li was beheaded by the king and surrendered to the government.
After Li was pacified, Wu Zetian wrote to trace the official position of Li Zushang, and took back the surname "Li" given to them, even for digging graves.
Ironically, Li Ji, who fought in the frontier for the Tang Dynasty and was "a strong enemy in one place" all his life, "all fled to Vietnam".
Li Gang was headstrong and was beaten to pieces by a good hand. His words became a prophecy, and he was really defeated by Li.
If it is really a child's interest, will it be a disaster? Looking back on Li's life, he was called a young genius when he was a child, saying that he was not wrong, but his family was defeated by him. I really can't say that he is a "young child" and thus "there will be disaster".
Think about it, Li's success is also due to his family background and educational environment, and his failure is also due to his family background and educational environment.
Xu Jingye is very smart, has a good family background, and has been soaked in sweet words since childhood. He is not so much superior as "bold", so he is arrogant. Xu Jingye is very clever, but he can't be called resourceful, because his life is so smooth that he trusts himself too much. At the critical moment, he did not adopt Wei's strategy of "pointing at Heluo", and was finally charged with "rebellion", implicating his relatives.
Why must his grandfather Li Ji think that he will bring harm to his family?
Because Li Ji knows people very well.
Li Ji has experienced countless wars in his life. Every time he commands a marching battle, he judges the situation and behaves in a timely manner when facing the enemy. Li Ji has his own judgment when he plans with others. And he knows people and is good at their duties. When he hears a good plan from others, he will gladly accept it and get huge rewards.
Li Ji made this judgment only because he saw Xu Jingye's achilles heel. After all, tiger poison doesn't eat children. After Li Ji didn't succeed the first time, he could never succeed again.
At the same time, many ancient people believed in the illusory "fate" too much. Li Ji failed to kill Xu Jingye, thinking that this was "the fate should be like this", and even ignored Xu Jingye. After that, Li heard what he wanted to hear. Without guidance, he let himself drift, high above, and naturally fell heavily.
There is a certain truth in "many children are blessed". If you are too stubborn and neglect discipline when you are young, I am afraid it will lead to great disaster when you grow up.
But if everyone, like Li Ji, blames "fate" and leaves his eldest grandson Xu Jingye alone, it will be meaningless. Because in the process of growing up, teenagers need more care and guidance to walk on the right path.
In my opinion, this sentence is more about warning us that in the process of children's growth, parents should relax, give him some opportunities to make mistakes, and let him sum up success and failure in his mistakes. This is the correct guiding way. At the same time, parents should set an example and carry on the family line by virtue, so that a family can last longer.
For this sentence, I personally think there is another saying similar to it. "If you live well, you will have a faded child."
This is what my old father often said when I was very excited when I was a child. And it will always come true.
The so-called Xing He Huan means that when a child is particularly excited, his body will secrete a lot of hormones such as adrenaline. After all, children are still young and immature, and sometimes they will do things that are radical or reckless.
(1) For example, when children play with each other, it is easy to miss and cry when they are working hard;
For example, children do sports, jump around, work together, and hurt their feet without considering the consequences;
(3) For example, when a child skates, he gets emotional, slides to a place with thin ice, and falls into an ice hole regardless of the consequences.
These are all because children are too young to be sensible. When they are excited, they secrete too many hormones. Regardless of the consequences, they will hurt or hurt others if they do something wrong.
Personally, I think it should mean this. I hope I can help you!
The ancients were right, not wrong. However, looking at this sentence now, it is not allowed! To understand why I say this, or to understand the true meaning of this sentence!
Children, in this sentence, do not refer to children, not derogatory terms, nor to people with bad conduct. It refers to boys. Xing doesn't mean to be happy. In this sentence, it refers to quantity. Therefore, the prosperity of children means more boys.
There were frequent wars in ancient times, and it was common to change dynasties. Every dynasty was built with the bones of countless soldiers. Soldiers who can fight on the battlefield are mostly men, and most of them are forced to be soldiers. Few women went to war at that time. There are no figures like Liang Hongyu and Mulan.
In the past, there were relatively few material resources. In order to compete for resources, riots often occur, which in turn leads to wars. In the past, wars belonged to the era of cold weapons, which was inseparable from militant men. Because, in this process, men are basically the initiators of uprisings or rebellions. More boys means more men in the next decade. With more people, more soldiers and more soldiers, it is easy to wage war in order to plunder resources. Faced with the extremely unfair reality, men are more likely to become leaders than women, and men are more likely to riot.
In addition, with more men, it is easy to have more leaders to lead everyone to resist reality and oppression! In addition, there are so many people who can be soldiers that it is easy to cause war! In the eyes of the ancients, war was synonymous with disaster. The disaster it represents often makes the lower class people miserable, and the people are miserable. On the other hand, when there are few boys, it means that there are few adult laborers. In the era of cold weapons, how can we fight without soldiers! ? No, even if the ruler wants to expand, he can't! In this case, with a small population, social material resources will be correspondingly relaxed. Ordinary people can eat and wear warm and live a stable life, and no one wants to live a life of war. There are fewer natural disasters.
From the above points, it is not difficult to see that "a prosperous child is a curse", that is to say, if there are more men, there will be a curse. Combined with history, it is not difficult to see that this sentence is still very reasonable.
Hello! I'm glad to answer your question. About "the old man said: if children and grandchildren are prosperous, there will be disasters."
First of all, because I don't understand the meaning of the ancients, literally speaking, having many children (wealth) will bring disaster, which is definitely wrong. As far as we know, having many children is the best wish of China since ancient times. The ancients wouldn't say that, so they certainly didn't mean that.
Secondly, literally, children will do some extreme behaviors when they are excited, which will bring disaster and remind them to be quiet.
Finally, I think what the ancients meant should be: if a villain succeeds in his ambition, he will certainly run amok at the expense of others and bring disaster. It was the ancients who reminded us to be human.
The above is my personal understanding of that sentence, hoping to give you some help.
At the same time, I attach a block letter written by my six-year-old child. I hope she can be a decent China person like us men in China!
When children are prosperous, there will be disaster. Whether this statement is right or not depends on how you understand it. If you regard "children's prosperity" as a real child and interpret it as the rise of children, it will hurt, which is wrong.
When children are treated as villains, villains are despicable people. Compared with gentlemen, villains and children, if they are allowed to rise and make waves, they will inevitably lead to many disasters. Anyone will get into trouble and be killed for no reason.
No one's personality can be 100% noble, but everyone has a selfish side and can't be perfect. There is always a despicable side in personality. If a person lets the despicable side develop and overshadows the noble side, then this person will be regarded as a mean and vicious villain, selfish for himself, indifferent to others and hated by others. If you are not careful, you will slip into the ranks of villains and even heroes, commit the "villain syndrome" and play the villain. Therefore, being a man not only needs supervision, but also needs to be clear-headed and always reflect on himself, so that he will not become a villain and have a despicable personality, and a villain can make a masterpiece. It's really a disaster, endless harm.
Little people are everywhere, no one. Extinguishing fire by external means is a temporary solution, not a permanent cure. It is best to know and correct yourself, and it is best from the inside out. Being a man, we should always be on guard against villains, and we should always be on guard against becoming villains and the object of hatred by others. Although so-and-so is the president, what he does is despicable tricks, and the villain's face is harmful and hated.