The first four sentences of the poem are "picking hibiscus in the river, and Lanze is fragrant." "Who wants to stay, who wants to be far away" is a true story. First, it describes a woman (thinking woman) crossing the river to pick hibiscus (lotus), because there are many herbs growing in the swamp on the other side of the river. When picking hibiscus flowers, I couldn't help asking myself, "Who should I give this beautiful and fragrant hibiscus flower to?" The person I miss is far away. "The next two sentences,' Looking back at my hometown, it's a long way', are all empty talk. It is because women (thoughtful women) realize that no one has sent them hibiscus flowers, so they miss the wanderer more strongly and can't help but imagine that he will miss me when he is wandering outside. Will he look back at his hometown from time to time, and will he feel that the way home is particularly long and particularly melancholy? This is a scene imagined by a woman (a thinking woman), so it is imagined. The last two sentences, "Leaving home with one heart and dying of grief", mean that the woman (thinking woman) returns to reality and expresses her inner sadness. They love each other deeply, and now they can only live in two places. It is sad to think that the wanderer may not come back for a long time or even never.