I accidentally met this book in the bookstore, and my eyes stopped instantly. On the title page, there is a picture of a woman standing in front of the window. A ray of sunshine has dyed her face red, and her eyes are so cold at the moment. So, with curiosity, I walked into the black world and entered a book like Love Yourself.
We have been talking about loving ourselves, and we know that the root of a lot of pain is that I didn't love myself first. A person who doesn't know how to love himself and give himself happiness can't really love others and give them happiness. My heart has been struggling and it is very difficult. The book says, "there is never a doomed misfortune, only perseverance." After reading these, my heart began to relax, my heart began to trust, and I began to learn to let go of my persistence or my stubbornness. Slowly, my heart calmed down a lot. If I love myself, I will learn to let go of myself, which will make me happier.
I have been reading your book for several days. I feel that every sentence is getting better and better every day. "Love is not an end, but a process of optimizing life. The most important meaning of love is to exercise and grow by getting along with each other. True love is the spiritual progress of both sides. " No matter what problems I will face in the future, I will learn to love myself, because living is a kind of love, and countless possibilities in life will happen. I will love my family, friends and all the people around me, spread my love and reap their love. Copying and pasting love will be more meaningful. Thank you! I will love myself. ...
Chapter Two: Thinking about "Love yourself"
Reading a good book can prove the karma of past lives, realize the fruit of this life, reduce greed and grow a wise heart. Recently, I saw "Black Love Yourself", which made me feel quite well. The article is fresh and elegant, which calms my impetuous experience. I am a cheerful person and like to make friends, so I can't stand being alone and lonely. Once upon a time, he left me alone at home, and I was sure to complain and always felt abandoned. To this end, we quarrel endlessly, hurting each other and hurting innocent children. When Su Hei told me: I can't face lonely people, I can't bear myself, I can't face myself. I can't help thinking deeply: how should people who can't face themselves face life? Face life? If you want others to love you, you must first love yourself. However, people always forget themselves when they are injured, and some people drown their sorrows by drinking, but do you know? "Wine doesn't hurt people." Some people are always immersed in endless pain and constantly torture themselves with such questions. "Why did he do this to me?" "Why do I always get hurt?" Looking back, why are you so persistent? Even if you get the answer, you may not be comforted. Isn't it more harmful not to get the answer? Therefore, we should accept the setbacks and hardships in life frankly, look at the problem from a different angle and with a different mentality, and life will be suddenly enlightened. Su Hei wrote in the book: If you want to meet the right person, you must first make yourself the right person. Let's be the right person he or she wants to meet each other, and then we will feel happier.
Chapter three: Thinking about loving yourself.
"Love yourself, love life and love the world are the roots of love."
"Love is not an end, but a process of optimizing life. The most important meaning of love is to cultivate yourself and let yourself grow up with each other. True love is the spiritual progress of both sides. "
"Who is the richest man in the world? Not a god, not a rich businessman, but a broad-minded and peaceful person. They won't be hurt, they live in love, and so can you. "
This is what Su He told us. ...
Reading a good book is like getting a spiritual teacher. Lights are lit in the dark, and the road will never get lost. A wise heart and bright eyes add another layer of gratitude to life, learn to love yourself and love yourself well.
In our world, love runs through the present and the future. Family, friendship and love are scattered in our hearts. They take root, sprout, blossom and bear fruit in every corner. Love is a belief that keeps people alive. Because of love, we smile brightly; Because of love, we cry emotionally; Because of love, life is full of flavor. Happy bluebird always cares about those who love themselves. Love yourself, live independently and with self-esteem, accept yourself, and be honest with your shortcomings. Love yourself, not narcissism, not narcissism and self-pity, but encourage yourself, enrich yourself, always motivate yourself to tap the hidden potential and constantly improve yourself. The road of self-love is a cold window for ten years. People who don't love themselves find pleasure in those who love themselves. And along the way, people who love themselves are always sowing the seeds of hope and slowly cultivating them. One day, flowers will bloom and fall, and the garden will be green and fragrant. Parents' love is always our hope of self-love. When we love ourselves, we will be ourselves, which is actually the greatest reward and love for our parents. So are children. When we are kind to ourselves, we have set an example for our children by our words and deeds. We should be healthy and energetic people, live the present and complete ourselves.
Su Hei said that the condition of unconditional payment is that when you are already rich, your heart is firm enough and you are not afraid of losing it. So, in the face of love and friendship, when our hearts are strong enough?
Love can always spark, and this spark is that your self-love and his self-love attract each other. What attracts him is yourself, your own beauty, your own smile, and your calmness and peace in putting yourself in this world. Love is that he is willing to rely on you, because you never give up on yourself and let him be dead set on you.
People who love themselves have no shadow in their hearts. Only those who love themselves can survive in a corner. Because love is faith, hope, and the sun, illuminating the world of oneself and others. Love yourself, no matter where you are, spring blossoms, butterflies bloom freely and fly freely in the summer solstice. Only those who love themselves can shine in every performance in life.
In the misunderstanding of love, some people are superstitious about giving. Because at the beginning, I worshipped a person, took the initiative to pay, deliberately courted or took the initiative to help, until I finally thought I had paid a lot for that person, but why did that person keep silent and didn't return the same love, so I thought I was hurt, from disappointment to despair, from appreciation to complaint, feeling hurt and cheated, and sentenced him to a crime and claimed to be a victim. Imagine that your love is firm, but it can't stand the smallest test. In fact, what we can't wait for is only our imaginary love, not love itself. True love is unconditional, and hard work makes you feel bitter; You are willing to give, that is.
Su Hei said that giving is conditional. You must be emotionally independent and considerate of the real needs of others, not wishful thinking. We are not saints, we are whole grains, and there will inevitably be love and hate. When emotions fluctuate and sadness overflows, accept the setbacks and hardships in life frankly, and look at the problem from another angle and mentality, and life will be suddenly enlightened.
Never doomed misfortune, only perseverance. What belongs to you will eventually come to you, and you can meet again after a long time of loss. If it's not yours, you don't have to. That man is just a passer-by Love is not lost, only a passer-by is lost. If the other person is destined to leave, he is just a passer-by from beginning to end.
To love yourself is to learn to let go of some people and things. Pursue the inner part of life, see the laws of nature, and know that life can only go on alone, whether you are smart, stupid, beautiful, rich, poor, humble or arrogant. The experience of love is always self-renewing, and we don't need to seek to understand what lasting love is. Love is changing, and so is the world.
Change, you and I must be self-reliant all the time, otherwise we can't adapt to the changeable love.
Your other half is yourself. Pure black words made me realize.
Loving someone is actually loving yourself more, knowing yourself better, knowing what you need and what you lack. The source of love is our heart, not taking. The so-called lovelorn and loved ones are actually torturing themselves. That's a waste of love. Once in this world, love added color and warmth to life. And life and love are actually their own, a continuation of one person.
Love yourself, love now, and act now. As Su Hei said, the most comfortable love is freedom, without expecting others or waiting for yourself. When we are satisfied with our life and ourselves at this moment, we will become happy and rich. Only by loving yourself and being yourself can you be loved and loved.
Don't be nervous, don't be sad, whether it's obstacles or pain. You must know the direction of your heart and control it. You must love yourself before you can go forward or turn.
Love yourself, learn to love yourself, and love the world with your heart.
Love others, love as black as a pixel.
He loves me, and I love him more.
I am very grateful for his thoughtfulness.
I'm not proud of him for tolerating me.
He forgot me, and I understood him.
He ignored me, and I was more independent.
I was always here when he left.
He disappeared, and I'm alive and well.
Love yourself, repair yourself, and thank you for the opportunity to love like this for a lifetime. ...
Chapter four: Thinking about loving yourself.
This book is a graduation gift from my friend. I liked it when I first got it. Elegant words make me meditate on impetuous days.
I have never been too persistent and resentful in the world of love, but I am really a person who can't stand loneliness and loneliness. Whenever I am alone, I feel scared and isolated, so I want to hug the crowd or simply squeeze into the crowd. However, Su Hei told me that I can't face lonely people, I can't bear myself, I can't face myself. When I saw this sentence, I deeply felt that in this world, there is nothing more inseparable than myself. How can I not have the courage to take on myself?
If you want others to love you, you must first love yourself and accept yourself.
However, when we are hurt, we all forget to love ourselves. Immerse yourself in painful habits and inertia. In retrospect, why be so persistent? Why do you want to make yourself black and blue? Setbacks and tribulations are inevitable, so come if you want. I accept you frankly. Everything will pass, let go of the death in your heart, look at the problem from another angle, and life will suddenly become clear.
Many people are injured and cannot do without the participation of others. They always ask, "Why did he do this to me?" In this world, there are no two identical leaves and no two identical people. How can other people's ideas be copied from mine? So, don't
It is enough to ask others to constantly improve themselves.
One day, I asked a Christian how to meet the right person. She told me that if you want to meet the right person, you must first make yourself the right person. This answer is similar to pure black.
These two days, I practiced getting along with loneliness and learned to bear myself and face myself. Although I will still be afraid, I always have to be calm, because I have decided to love myself from now on.