? Time flies, time flies. In a flash, daughter, you are 24 years old. I have gone from babbling, naive childhood and romantic youth to the age of youth and self-improvement. I think you have brought a lot of happiness, spiritual comfort and seasoning to your family and parents along the way. You are an angel sent by God. It is the blessing of mom and dad!
? I vaguely remember that you just stumbled, stopped after a short walk, stood in front of your father with your hands crossed and stopped your father or mother until you helped them up. The only word I could say when I first babbled was mom! The word "dad" has been practiced for a long time. The earliest monosyllabic word can be said "car". My mother works the night shift when I can speak simple sentences. We have a red phone at home. My father will call my mother for you. You will stand by the firewall, pick up the phone, put it in your ear, with one leg upright and one foot standing behind the other upright leg. Talk to your mother like an adult and ask her what she is doing. What time are you coming back? Grandma has a 12 inch black and white TV. At 7 o'clock every night, after the familiar prelude, before the host speaks, you will say "the main content of the news broadcast" first, and the family will suddenly smile.
? You must have come to our house with a mission. When I was born about a month ago, my right hand was often raised and clenched in an upright position when I slept. Dad, put your hand down. After a while, you held it up again. It seemed to be an oath, perhaps a gesture before departure. This is a magical and mysterious behavior that my mother and I have never understood.
? When you were three or four years old, your father took you back to grandpa's house. There is no child seat when riding a bike. You just sit on the front beam and hold the front handlebar of the bicycle with your hands. You are bumping all the way 10 km, singing and laughing all the way, and your little question has been asking why. At that time, your observation ability and thinking consciousness were very strong, and your sense of balance was particularly good!
? In the family building of the old post office, you went to a private kindergarten nearby and just started reading. When you came home, you did your homework for the first time. At that time, we thought you had a gift for learning. Remember when you learned the piano? Dad went to Yingkou and bought you Notiska. You are very happy. The process of learning the piano is quite hard, but it also honed you. In retrospect, it is better to have a skill. In adulthood, you can release and relieve fatigue and cultivate sentiment in the melody of music.
? Later, when we were on the sixth floor of the old street, you went to school alone with a small bag on your back. My mother and I have been lying on the upstairs window looking at the back of your study, happy for you. It was an unforgettable and memorable time! I was afraid that you were thin and undernourished. I go downstairs to buy you heart-protecting meat at noon every day, go upstairs and chop it up for you. It really made you fat and made you very upset later. It seems that it is wrong to worry too much.
? It seems that the five-year primary school system is not very successful. The only thing to be thankful for is giving you a year. But in the meantime, due to the neglect of parents and the dim lighting in the bedroom, your eyes are nearsighted, which I still feel guilty about. At the same time, it also proves that life is not perfect and risk control is everywhere. It is a great turning point for you to graduate from primary school to Jiangcheng Middle School. My mother's attitude is firm. During middle school, you went to and from school by bus and school bus independently, which greatly exercised your independent adaptability and self-protection ability. Your grades from junior high school now look excellent, but your Chinese and English are weak. And now your writing ability and foreign language ability are different.
? After entering No.1 Middle School, we are obviously ready to go abroad for further study, and you have done your best. When you don't know what it will be like to study abroad, you pay a lot of extra experience to make up for the shortcomings of foreign languages. Now it seems that all the efforts at that time were worthwhile. Although the decision to go abroad has not changed, our family has made all the preparations for it. There is love and care from mom and dad, as well as trust and respect for you. 16 years old to send you to study abroad, travel alone, impermanence is unknown. It's not that parents are cruel. It's wrong to raise your father without teaching him. The ancients said that it is a convenient means for parents to give you the ability to love your son and teach them the best education. After seeing you off at Beijing airport, your mother's tears and father's wet eyes are far behind you. Poor parents' hearts, not seeking three spring scenery. When you just went abroad to study and flew to England, my mother and I stayed up all night until you came to Brighton to be with your family.
? During your A-level study in the UK, you seized the opportunity by stages and successfully passed through the difficult period, laying a solid foundation for the later university application. It can be said that time goes by and then study, work hard and try again. How important it is to grasp the present! When going abroad, my father told you four words: peace, health, self-improvement and patriotism, and you also kept them in mind. You have your own practice method. Through this, mom and dad judge that you have grown up by yourself.
? There are also difficult times in college. Foreign education is a way to stimulate self-transcendence. British education is not indoctrination, but self-immolation. It is self-study, since the enlightenment, and self-help. You gradually improve in adaptation and gradually change yourself. You did what you should do now. Practice has proved that studying abroad is the most suitable plan for you. But all this is the reward of your efforts. Heaven rewards diligence, and its words are true. You have given yourself a proof of your ability and lifelong comfort, not only with excellent academic performance, but also without letting the years pass.
? Gap year is not only a rest, but also a reward for parents. I have done housework for my parents for half a year, and the food is renovated every day. My favorite is your fresh fruit milkshake. It's really delicious! And all kinds of cookies you baked in the oven. Sometimes my mother and I are surprised to talk about it. You wouldn't have done so much before going abroad. How did you learn it? Taking good care of your grandparents in Hainan is your blessing and gives your parents a good reputation. Your carefulness, patience and understanding are unmatched by your peers. You should do your best. Thank your ancestors for giving you the opportunity to practice. Your ancestors had virtue, and your ancestors had merit. Zongshen pursues distance, and then virtue! In the future, it is difficult to have the opportunity to serve the elders at close range for a long time, and there is no time. This period is also the most gratifying time for parents.
? For your future, I have to continue to support you to study for a doctorate. If you like reading, finish it at the right age, and don't leave any regrets for yourself, although learning is a lifelong thing. Studying from time to time is not pleasant! There is no end to learning. This is also the fruit of your self-help, hard work pays off. Heaven has no relatives, but is long and kind. Especially recently, your tutor's evaluation of you is a reward for your efforts and wisdom.
? Dear daughter, you are the pride of your parents. I don't know the whispers between you and your mother. That's your mother-daughter secret. However, in the teahouse, in the tropical garden, several exchanges and conversations between our father and daughter must be fresh in our memory. Life, family, career and love range from heaven and earth, nature, humanities, society, morality, sentiment, interpersonal relationship and support to family, human feelings, accidents, meeting people and waiting for things. Fatherly love is everywhere, and filial piety goes hand in hand. Happy family, happy!
? Dear daughter, family, career and life are all important nodes in life, when possible. Having an ideal partner is also an important part of life. With your intelligence and wisdom, you know pearls with your eyes and take pleasure in them. Not seeking perfection. On the road of life, everyone is growing constantly, and it is a saint to know how to turn over a new leaf. It lies in mutual influence and tolerance, and it has been done and cherished. They are the roots of each other, and the roots are promising. Those who moisten things quietly are the cultivation and burden of female virtue. No, Philip Burkart is worried!
? Dear daughter, it's the same sentence I told you before. On the road of life, you will eventually face it alone. Parents' love enables you to leave. Cultivation rooted in the heart; No consciousness of reminding; Freedom based on constraints; Be kind to others; Grasp the current node's consciousness and financial freedom under independent personality. It must be a capable part! These may be the greatest wealth your parents have given you, but there is nothing else. We know that you have come to repay your parents in this life, and we cherish it. Your parents are giving you a hard time and you are giving your parents a hard time! In the eyes of parents, you are still growing up and will always be their children.
? Daughter, today is March 16, your birthday. Dad drew a few strokes in Shanghai, with thoughts and blessings. May God bless you with peace, health, self-improvement and happiness all your life.
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