Many girls form intimate relationships, just like you. The two people have a good relationship and are inseparable. There is no need to care about it, let nature take its course, have a peaceful mind, do what you should do at ordinary times, work hard and go to work well. When you are free, two people can watch movies, look at clothes, go shopping and talk to each other to relieve stress. This is a good girlfriend, there is no need.
In high school, I knew a girl. She usually dresses like a boy, with short hair and a shirt and jeans. From the appearance, she is also a bit like a boy. He also dressed himself up as a boy. He usually likes to go out with girls and classmates and wear lovers' clothes with his girlfriend.
However, he still treats his relationship with his best friend in a very positive way. A best friend is a best friend, and he doesn't think about anything else, because it doesn't matter whether he is married or not in this society. Unlike in the past, there are more people who don't get married now, so don't worry about it.
Xiaoming is a girl. She is used to dressing up according to boys' standards. When I have nothing to do, I go to the movies, drink milk tea and go shopping to buy clothes with my girlfriend and best friend. All our friends know that she is a girl, but those who don't know think he is a boy. He is very liberal. He won't be angry because he plays with good female girlfriends, marries and has children. After all, his best friends should be happy for them when they find their right life partner, not jealous and jealous.
The so-called love is giving, giving unconditionally, and being happy when the other person is happy. This is love.
I hope you can also put down your thoughts, go out, straighten out your relationship with your best friend, and don't worry about anything unnecessary. Don't let your best friend leave regrets on the emotional road because of your possessiveness. To love someone is to make him happy. This is love. Respect each other's choices and lifestyles.
My suggestion.
First of all, straighten your mind.
Between me and my best friend. It's a relationship between girlfriends. Every day is just chatting, shopping, wearing buy buy and watching movies, and don't have those other thoughts.
Second, understand the meaning of love.
What is the meaning of love? The meaning of love is to give unconditionally, and the other person is happy when he is happy. This is true love. If it's just possessiveness, it's selfishness, not love, it's getting, just wanting it, getting possession, and it's not true love.
Third, find your own direction in life
First, find your own direction in life. Where is your happiness? How to get happiness? Where is your home? If you don't want to get married, you can't interfere with other people's freedom of marriage.
The world is so big, there are still many things to do without getting married, such as traveling and seeing the great rivers and mountains of the motherland.
Now, you should straighten up your relationship and understand that you and her are actually just friends and best friends. Don't mistake your little possessiveness for love.