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What does the Wu Xiao Model Award mean?
We personally think that this 5-little pacesetter award is an award set up in each unit, or in other words, such an award is set up in a school
Famous Friendship
The friendship between Marx and Engels, the two revolutionary giants, is unmatched by any friendship in the world. Marx admired Engels' talents very much and said that he always followed in Engels' footsteps. Engels always believed that Marx's talents exceeded his own. In their common cause, Marx was the first fiddler and he (Engels) was the second fiddler. The writing and publication of the classic "Das Kapital" was the fruit of their great friendship.
Engels and Marx
"Das Kapital" was published in Hamburg, Germany on September 14, 1867. This was a major event of great significance in the entire international workers' movement, and it was also the two The fruit of giant friendship.
This understanding and friendship was so profound that it even lasted until after Marx's death.
When Marx was seriously ill, he told his daughter Elena that he hoped Engels could "do something" for the second and third volumes of his unpublished "Das Kapital". Of course, even if Marx had not made such a request, Engels would have done it.
For ten years from the time of Marx's death in 1883, Engels put down his work and worked hard to organize and publish the manuscripts of the last two volumes of "Das Kapital". He added a lot of materials and rewrote some chapters. This enabled "Das Kapital" to be published in 1885 and 1894.
Communication common sense
Friends, also called friendship, are a very important communication object in interpersonal relationships. Some people’s communication with friends has no beginning and ends halfway; some even turn against each other and become enemies. Conspiracy and criticism. In fact, in the final analysis, this is due to failure to master the skills of successful communication with friends. So, how to successfully communicate with friends, I believe that in addition to sincerity and tolerance, you should also pay attention to the following 10 issues:
1. Listen to what your friends have to say
As a friend, you have to learn to listen. When your friend encounters setbacks and troubles, he will look for someone to vent his emotions. As a friend, if you can listen to the other person's words sincerely and patiently, you will open an outlet for your friend to vent his emotions. When your friend is telling you, you not only listen patiently, but also insert one or two emotional words of comfort from time to time, or come up with ideas for your friend, and your friend's emotions will be lifted out of the swamp. , he will feel that having a friend like you is the real support, the friendship will be deeper, and the friendship will grow day by day. There was a woman who was extremely depressed because of her marriage, so she called her female friend to talk about her troubles. However, those days, the girlfriend was busy with work and could not take the time to listen to the friend: As a result, the woman finally Unable to bear the emotional repression for a while, he committed suicide angrily. If you could have taken some time out of your busy schedule to listen to what your friend had to say and give you some comfort, your friend would not have reached a dead end.
2. Friends should also be distinguished from those who are close or distant
Although friends are the most friendly or reliable communication partners in the social circle, human nature is complicated. When communicating with friends, you must also think deeply and carefully to distinguish between close and distant friends. According to common sense, people who become friends usually have similar tastes and personalities, some have similar interests, some have similar cultural levels, some have noble personalities, are connected in spirit, etc. From the perspective of the reasons for communication, there are acquaintances who cut their throats, acquaintances who are irreversible, acquaintances in times of need, gentlemen's acquaintances, acquaintances who have forgotten their years, casual acquaintances, business acquaintances, family friends, old friends, etc. No matter what the reason is for you to be friends, after a period of dating, you should make a choice, whether you are close or distant. For example, some friends are sincere and innocent, so they can naturally have a sincere and deep friendship; but there are also friends who come to you for some utilitarian purpose. Once the benefits are not achieved or when you are poor and have no use value to them, they will leave. As long as you leave, you can't make friends like this deeply. What's more, it's better to keep a certain distance.
3. Asking for favors should be done in moderation. People naturally cannot do without favors when making friends.
However, one must not ask for more. You ask someone once and they help you. If you are not very knowledgeable and try to push your limits again and again, then your friends will be disgusted and resentful of people like you. In this way, the relationship between friends will be difficult. To continue. There are also people who do not consider the other person's ability to bear it, and engage in friendship coercion in order to satisfy their own needs. This is also behavior that offends their friends.
4. Be there when your friends need it most
Faced with a mixed society and ever-changing nature, no one can guarantee that they will do everything right without asking for help, and no one can boast that they will be free from danger in their lives. Therefore, people always face difficulties when they encounter them. Desire to get help from others. Therefore, as a friend, when others need your help, you must be there in time and sincerely extend your hand to help your friend to tide over the difficulties. As long as you grasp this communication principle, your friendship with your friends will deepen day by day.
5． There must be "degree" in communication
There is a very philosophical saying in China called "The extreme of things must be reversed." In life, anything that goes too far will lead to its opposite.
The same is true for communication between friends. If the past is too close, cracks will easily appear. Only by grasping the right degree can the friendship between friends become eternal. This is because everyone has differences in culture, morality, personality, attitude towards life, work potential, and family circumstances. The size of these differences sometimes affects the communication between friends
The frequency is directly proportional, that is, the more frequent and close the communication, the greater the distance. The communication between friends, regardless of the number of times they get together, the distance, etc., must be maintained even when they are apart, in order to achieve the goal of "the meaning is not yet exhausted, the love is not yet exhausted" Only with the artistic conception of "Are you here" will you be happy when your friends arrive and miss your friends when they leave.
6. Don't idealize your friends
No two leaves are the same in the world. Although your friends have similar temperaments, similar interests, and congenial temperaments to you, your friends are, after all, living people. There will always be some differences from you, there will always be shortcomings of one kind or another, and there will always be secrets that you don’t want others to know. Therefore, when communicating with friends, don't idealize them too much, and don't use "I" as a reference for all your friends' words and deeds. First of all, you must tolerate the shortcomings of your friends. Therefore, once you discover the shortcomings of your friends, you must hold the magnanimous attitude of "the general's forehead can run horses, and the prime minister's belly can support boats", tolerate your friends' shortcomings, and choose the appropriate time and method. Kindly help him overcome his shortcomings. Secondly, let your friends retain their "self". When you socialize with friends, you cannot force them to be "replicas" of you. Let your friends have their own hobbies and personalities. If you are arbitrary and arbitrary and ask your friends to have the same hobbies as you, then your friends will leave you. Again, respect your friends’ privacy. Don't let your friends report everything to you. It seems that if your friends don't communicate with you about something, they are disloyal to you and are not friends enough. If you are so bossy and use such idealistic standards to ask your friends, your friends will also resent you.
7． Correctly grasp friendship and love
Besides love, there should be a place for friendship between men and women. There are gender differences between men and women. As long as you pay attention to the size, you can establish a healthy, elegant and pure friendship. This requires the existence of friendship relationships between male and female colleagues and between male and female classmates. This requires men and women to grasp the relationship between friendship and love; first, men should respect the personality of female compatriots without offending women; second, both men and women should recognize the difference between friendship and love. Friendship is only between men and women. A kind of friendly exchanges between people, but love has certain responsibilities to the other party, such as family, marriage, etc. It has certain specificity and binding properties. There is an insurmountable gap between friendship and love. Friendship can develop without crossing the boundary. If either one or both parties cross the boundary, love between a man and a woman will occur and enter the love stage. However, once it changes back to friendship due to some internal and external factors, It will correspond to a "different" friendship.
8. Friends should also say "no" to each other
Friends often ask each other for things, which is legitimate. Some people ask each other for things that often exceed the scope of principles and objective reality. For example: some friends ask you to do things that are beyond your ability to bear, and there is nothing you can do; other friends ask you to do things that are against your subjective wishes, etc. If you encounter such a situation, as a friend, you should say "no" decisively. First of all, if you do something that violates the principles, once it comes to light, you and your friends will become prisoners or violators; secondly, if something is beyond your ability, you can't do anything about it. If you refuse without explaining the situation, it will be because the matter is not right. If you don't do it, it will hurt each other's friendship; thirdly, if you don't refuse things that go against your wishes, it will affect your mood in interacting with them, and it will also hinder your relationship with your friends. You should pay attention to the methods and methods, and don't be blunt or reckless.
Commonly used methods; one is to be patient
The above is a personal answer to your question. I hope it will be helpful to you and I hope you can adopt it. Thank you