In ancient times, women had low status, and their wives and concubines were different, but they all regarded their husbands as heaven. The idea that men are superior to women is deeply rooted and passed down from generation to generation.
Persecuted by traditional ideas, women adhere to the teaching of "three obedience and four virtues" and "protecting their husbands and educating their children". Throughout their lives, they can only rely on their husbands to have children for men, dare not go beyond the rules and have no ideas of their own.
Even in the era of pursuing equality between men and women, "patriarchal" families still emerge one after another, and people who talk about "girls always get married" and "getting married and having children when they are old" abound.
However, marriage should not be just a helpless choice for cohabitation, and having children is not a necessary part of step-by-step life. Every woman has the right to pursue her ideal life. So what if she doesn't get married before meeting the person she loves?
In Changchun, Jilin, China, there was such a single mother, Ye Haiyang, who insisted on going to the United States, spent 500,000 yuan on sperm and gave birth to a mixed-race baby.
Or in the eyes of most people, what she did was immoral, but there was nothing wrong with her choosing the life she wanted without hurting others.
0 1 I went to America to buy sperm and spent 500,000 to get pregnant.
Ye Haiyang is from Changchun, Jilin. He had a successful career when he was young and owned his own cosmetics company at the age of 28.
But she is not the kind of rich second generation with family background. The reason why she can sit in the position of president is because she has a more complete plan for her life.
After graduating from college, when most students were looking for comfortable and stable jobs, Ye Haiyang resolutely chose to start a business in the north. Although the process was arduous and even the future was uncertain, Ye Haiyang never gave up.
With his passion and indomitable spirit, 28-year-old Ye Haiyang finally realized his dream, founded his own cosmetics brand and served as the president of the company. She proved that her choice was correct with her actions.
After the great success of his career, Ye Haiyang had a deeper yearning for family and affection, and began to have the idea of getting married and having children.
But her youth has been dedicated to her career, love is not so good, and Ye Haiyang is not a person who is willing to make do. If it weren't for her true love, she wouldn't get married.
In this case, Ye Haiyang made an amazing decision. She is ready to fight again-buy a sperm and have a child of her own.
In today's society, "borrowing sperm to have children" is not easy to accept, and even the public will spit on Ye Haiyang. But at that time, she didn't care, and soon put the plan of having children on the agenda.
In order to select high-quality sperm and give their children a good gene, Ye Haiyang went to the Ivy League in the United States, and conducted a strict investigation and screening on the state of sperm and the IQ, education, physical condition and personality of the sperm owner.
Finally, Ye Haiyang selected two tubes of high-quality sperm. After taking eggs, embryos, transplantation and other steps, Ye Haiyang finally succeeded in getting pregnant and having her own child.
It is reported that she chose 1 Guanjiu 1000 at that time, and Ye Haiyang spent 500,000, which was not a small sum at that time, but in order to be a real mother, she didn't care.
I have to admire Ye Haiyang's bravery. When most women are bound by secular vision and even dare not be themselves, Ye Haiyang has the courage to break away from feudal traditional concepts.
Giving birth to a five-nation mixed-race baby girl is controversial.
After successful pregnancy, Ye Haiyang fell into the dilemma that most pregnant women would be anxious. She is worried that the baby in her belly will be very fragile and unable to survive.
Serious pregnancy reaction and anxiety affect Ye Haiyang, making her feel pain, but in order to give birth to a baby smoothly, she can only endure physical discomfort and constantly adjust herself.
Fortunately, Ye Haiyang finally survived the collapse of 10 months and successfully gave birth to a five-nation mixed-race baby girl. On the first day of the baby's birth, she finally felt a sense of belonging as a mother.
This half-blood baby looks cute and cute, with big watery eyes that make people love. Ye Haiyang gave her a nice English Doris.
After becoming a mother, professional women will basically change their personalities. In the workplace, they are resolute and capable women, but in front of their children, they are kind, considerate and gentle mothers, such as Ye Haiyang.
She began to teach herself parenting knowledge. She will personally make complementary food for the baby, take Doris out for a trip, or accompany her to an early education class. Ye Haiyang has been accompanying and taking care of her daughter after work.
She even thought about how to explain to Doris where she came from in the future.
In order to answer Doris's doubts in the future, she carefully planned a "lie" full of love, put Doris in a hollow watermelon and took photos.
If Doris asks her life story one day, she can use photos to say that her daughter is from watermelon.
Break doubts with love.
Ye Haiyang gave her daughter all her love and dutifully became a good mother, but despite this, some people looked at her with colored glasses.
Regardless of whether it is immoral to "borrow sperm to have children", although Doris has a rich material life, she does not have a complete family and a father who loves her. Can she grow up healthily and happily like other children?
In the face of various questions and criticisms from outside, Ye Haiyang did not choose to escape, and clearly responded to everyone in the interview. She didn't bother other people in the society, closed the door and lived her own life, and has been trying to be a good father and mother.
Although Doris's family is not complete, Ye Haiyang is trying her best to be a mother and love her father while giving her children material life.
For Ye Haiyang's speech, many netizens expressed their understanding that as a national citizen, she did not have any adverse effects on society, but as a mother, she gave this child a rich material life and all the love, which is not something that parents of every complete family can do.
Moreover, in today's society, many families are empty shells in name only, and children living in such families may not be happy. Instead of finding someone to live a hurried life, earning money and raising children by themselves, it is not unhappy.
At present, Ye Haiyang and Doris have also been understood by the public, and their lives have returned to calm, dull and happy.
04 conclusion
"Since I married a Qutang businessman, he hasn't kept his promise every day; If I thought the tide was so regular, I might choose a boy by the river. "
Everyone has the right to choose his ideal life, and marriage should not be the fetter of life.
From ancient times to the present, there are many examples of happiness being destroyed by marriage, but although we live in the secular world, we don't have to live a secular life.
If you can't meet true love, why make do with it? In the case of economic independence, it is another choice of life to enjoy your beautiful and leisurely life.