The order of my identities is woman, farmer, poet, but if you forget all my identities when reading my poems, I will respect you?, Yu Xiuhua always says to everyone who reads her poems Able to evaluate herself, these three identities of Yu Xiuhua may seem incompatible, but they reflect the life of a legendary woman.
Yu Xiuhua was born in Hubei Province in 1976. Cerebral palsy was caused by a miscarriage at birth, resulting in hypoxia. She had difficulty moving and slurred speech. After graduating from high school, she dropped out of school and stayed at home. She was 19 years old. It was her mother's decision to marry a husband who was 12 years older than her.
The two had no feelings and often quarreled. The husband went out to work, but the two lived peacefully together. Under this circumstance, she wrote her first poem "Imprint", but it was not until 10 years later, in 2009, that she officially started writing poetry.
Yu Xiuhua’s poems are quite explicit about love. Just like her physical disability, it is always exposed in front of people. Just like Liu Nian, the editor of "Poetry Magazine" who discovered Yu Xiuhua, said: Her inner heart There are no high walls, no brass locks, no dogs, not even a fence.
Her poems are as eye-catching as putting a murderer among a group of ladies. Others are neatly dressed and spraying perfume, but she is smoky, covered in mud and sand, and there is the blood of a star between her words. , her poems are not without exposing this real society, just like uncovering the bloody scars.
And she officially came to the public in "Crossing Half of China to Sleep with You". "Sleep with you" is a very common word, but it is often associated with "sex" and is no longer ordinary. In the poem There is no limit to the writing of women's self-desires, because "Sleeping with You" only exists with men.
Only men are qualified to sleep with you, while women seem to only have the possibility of being slept with. The poem begins with this sentence: In fact, sleeping with you and being slept with by you are almost the same. It's almost the same, but with a sense of irony, and what is used in the latter part is nothing more than the force of the collision of two bodies, nothing more than the flowers that are forced to bloom by this force, and it expresses this "cold-blooded" most vividly.
But when it was famous, it also faced endless abuse, and was even regarded as a "cancer" in the mouth of experts. Now most people are still in a state of confusion about "emotion" and "sex". How could such an almost sacred thing in a taboo stage turn into such a vulgar word?
What Yu Xiuhua said is nothing more than a challenge to men and women. Most women believe that they are pure people, and the word "sleeped" must not appear. Even if "sleeped" is still "pure" Love rather than desire. In this way, more and more people are following the trend on the Internet.
Men don’t admit it, and neither do women, but as Liu Nian said, her poems are bloody and tearful. No one can achieve this kind of love. Her poems are just more Pure, her poems are not filled with stars, but meteorites that can destroy the world.
Everyone today is willing to live with a mask, because life is not easy. Without this mask, people will only see holes in them. Yu Xiuhua just puts this kind of The scars appeared.